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Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by WhiteNRed: 5:09pm On Aug 20, 2023
Please, I want to ask a question.

Please, why is the issue of "Divorce" normal like a everyday story among the Yorubas?

Does the Yorubas not believe in commitment in marital affaires?

Just so curious over this sub-regional eternally accepted wrong among the Yorubas.
Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by Mastersure: 5:10pm On Aug 20, 2023
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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by thesicilian: 5:13pm On Aug 20, 2023
Nothing wrong with divorce being normal.
In every aspect of life, people make mistakes: in choice of friends, careers, dates etc, and they're allowed to make changes to correct these mistakes.
Why should one have to stick to a particular union that's no longer working out simply to avoid offending people who doesn't give a hoot about your well-being?

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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by WhiteNRed: 5:49pm On Aug 20, 2023
thesicilian:
Nothing wrong with divorce being normal.
In every aspect of life, people make mistakes: in choice of friends, careers, dates etc, and they're allowed to make changes to correct these mistakes.
Why should one have to stick to a particular union that's no longer working out simply to avoid offending people who doesn't give a hoot about your well-being?

Divorce is normal and happens, no arguement, but when it becomes prevalent, then their should be questions about the attitude of the people.

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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by UnfairLife7(m): 6:15pm On Aug 20, 2023
WhiteNRed:


Divorce is normal and happens, no arguement, but when it becomes prevalent, then their should be questions about the attitude of the people.
I am a Yoruba and i will be sincere with my response

An average Yoruba lady got pregnant out of wedlock before marriage. An average Yoruba men do not pay their wives bride price and other maital rite. Most Yoruba married men do not pay their wives bride price Tell me how would those calibre of people value that union called marriage? They knew they'd definitely get another Yoruba lady cheaply and impregnate her. In Yoruba, once you impregnate their daughter, they automatically tag the man as "husband " they'd tell their daughter to bring her husband who got her pregnant

Yoruba men sleep with these girls recklessly, got them pregnant and move on. Only few do consider marrying her after pregnancy.

If you check very well there are more single mothers amongst the Yoruba girls than other tribes. I sincerely blame Yoruba men for these menace.

Igbos marriage aren't perfect but they are very much committed in making it work. Their men are very much responsible. They know it's wrong to get their women pregnant before marriage unlike Yoruba men.


If you're looking for cheap or giveaway wife as a guy, don't go too far, Yoruba girls tick that box

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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by Abdulreheem(m): 6:23pm On Aug 20, 2023
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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by ecolime(m): 7:36pm On Aug 20, 2023
WhiteNRed:
Please, I want to ask a question.

Please, why is the issue of "Divorce" normal like a everyday story among the Yorubas?

Does the Yorubas not believe in commitment in marital affaires?

Just so curious over this sub-regional eternally accepted wrong among the Yorubas.


Another useless thread. This obsession with Yorubas is turning into madness. You need to get a life.
Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by tonicyril: 10:15pm On Aug 20, 2023
UnfairLife7:
I am a Yoruba and i will be sincere with my response

An average Yoruba lady got pregnant out of wedlock before marriage. An average Yoruba men do not pay their wives bride price and other maital rite. Most Yoruba married men do not pay their wives bride price Tell me how would those calibre of people value that union called marriage? They knew they'd definitely get another Yoruba lady cheaply and impregnate her. In Yoruba, once you impregnate their daughter, they automatically tag the man as "husband " they'd tell their daughter to bring her husband who got her pregnant

Yoruba men sleep with these girls recklessly, got them pregnant and move on. Only few do consider marrying her after pregnancy.

If you check very well there are more single mothers amongst the Yoruba girls than other tribes. I sincerely blame Yoruba men for these menace.

Igbos marriage aren't perfect but they are very much committed in making it work. Their men are very much responsible. They know it's wrong to get their women pregnant before marriage unlike Yoruba men.


If you're looking for cheap or giveaway wife as a guy, don't go too far, Yoruba girls tick that box

But if u re not dully yoruba as u claimed, may u never witness good things life has to offer, may goodness always evade you.


Remember I siadif u re not yoruba angry
Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by Nice2023(m): 10:51pm On Aug 20, 2023
Most yoruba men are adulterous,when u see them gather in multiple of 4 or 5 in numbers,they are busy talking about how many times each of them has sleep with iya Jamie,mama tunji and that girl that sells agbo.

Don't ask me how I know...if u live among them,u know more of this.


They don't take care of their wives like it should but they love party more than their ambition.





WhiteNRed:
Please, I want to ask a question.

Please, why is the issue of "Divorce" normal like a everyday story among the Yorubas?

Does the Yorubas not believe in commitment in marital affaires?

Just so curious over this sub-regional eternally accepted wrong among the Yorubas.


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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by Nice2023(m): 11:02pm On Aug 20, 2023
UnfairLife7:
I am a Yoruba and i will be sincere with my response

An average Yoruba lady got pregnant out of wedlock before marriage. An average Yoruba men do not pay their wives bride price and other maital rite. Most Yoruba married men do not pay their wives bride price Tell me how would those calibre of people value that union called marriage? They knew they'd definitely get another Yoruba lady cheaply and impregnate her. In Yoruba, once you impregnate their daughter, they automatically tag the man as "husband " they'd tell their daughter to bring her husband who got her pregnant

Yoruba men sleep with these girls recklessly, got them pregnant and move on. Only few do consider marrying her after pregnancy.

If you check very well there are more single mothers amongst the Yoruba girls than other tribes. I sincerely blame Yoruba men for these menace.

Igbos marriage aren't perfect but they are very much committed in making it work. Their men are very much responsible. They know it's wrong to get their women pregnant before marriage unlike Yoruba men.


If you're looking for cheap or giveaway wife as a guy, don't go too far, Yoruba girls tick that box




This is absolutely true...that is why most of them can abuse u at given moment.

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Re: Please, I Want To Ask A Question. by UnfairLife7(m): 6:39am On Aug 21, 2023
tonicyril:


But if u re not dully yoruba as u claimed, may u never witness good things life has to offer, may goodness always evade you.


Remember I siadif u re not yoruba angry
Amen to your curse if truly I'm not Yoruba. But if I am a Yoruba guy I will definitely experience good things in life and goodness shall always be my portion from now henceforth. Amen

You think i reason like you lots?

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