IconicR:
You all obidient losers will never heal.
Get another shocker soon in the court and if we hear kpim the military will be everywhere to put things in order

That is why I called you 'ode... what's my business with Obi Ewu Gambia

I had one friendenmy back in school days , I housed and fed this nigga, a total of 2 semesters , this guy dubbed me 2 times . Since I cut him off no regrets

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington

This part sweet me so much.

Before I proceed any further to your comments, I want to know weda you be male or female?

Trust is a very scarce and expensive commodity that you need not to give to people just anyhow. That's why I love the movie The GodFather.
Keep your friends close but your enemies closer. Be wise

The funny thing here is that...the other guy would be thinking thesame thing of the op...will even be telling people out there worst things about the op.


I don't do friends right from time....some guys dislike me for that but i dnt care

Lance008:

He hate you bro that's not competition
To hell with fake friend
If I talk my own nairalanders no go believe me

Abeg talk your own

midehi2:

That is why I called you 'ode... what's my business with Obi Ewu Gambia

Kikikikiki she's now denying his fake messiah, you are a political prostitute. You that carried obi on your head during campaign that I was always pressing your neck. Don't let my new monika deceive you, if you know my previous monika you won't be here denying your actions.

IconicR:
Oniro oshi couldn't detect typo error.
Losers are always very paranoid
Obidients are cowards

Typo error? Are you not supposed to vet what you typed before posting? Says alot about your real life.

seniorgozman:

I almost lost my job in my own case

Eiya Sorry about that.

IconicR:
It's truly a scam if you couldn't detect typo error. Akpoda

it would have been a typo if you had written BAD or BUD or BID but you wrote a four letter word with a similar sound (homophone) which clearly shows that you are so daft that you don't know the difference between BED & BIRD. And here you are calling it a typo?

Seems you come from a long line of foolish liers. Get smart with your lies and hide your shame.

Kazim88:



OP you seem like a very bad person or female.

You have higher position than him that refer you. It is human he will not feel elated. They are many ways to clear the issue like making feel appreciated not envious.
And worse case scenario, cut the relationship not because he is a bad person, but such is life.

And if ever, you are to post about him, remember him for the good he did not for the bad he did not do.

I remember a guy who referred a friend some years ago for a job,my friend got the job and the pay was good. My friend appreciated this guy and thanked him. But some months after this guy started telling people around that he is the one that helped my friend,that if it is not bcus of him my friend will be nowhere. It got to the point that this guy started calling my friend his boy in a degrading way. My friend got fed up when he the guy said he was the one feeding and clothing him. He approached the guy and they had serious quarrel and since the guy had connection with my friend's boss,he was able to get him sacked. Thankfully my friend saved and started a business and is doing okay. The guy dey try form familiarity but my friend no dey use eye look am.
My point is not all help is really help.

IconicR:
It's truly a scam if you couldn't detect typo error. Akpoda

Apoda!

Batshits don't worth the trouble anyways.

Hmmm.... I've had my fair share of a bad company and i've learnt a bitter lesson...I keep him at arm's length now


Lesson: No be everybody wey open teeth with you dey happy for you....some just want make you open your teeth make they see the next one to remove

frankyychiji:
Typo error? Are you not supposed to vet what you typed before posting? Says alot about your real life.

real life talks are for those who actually have one. that useless boy disguising as a woman, has no life

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

Sorry about your experience. Some friends are more genuine than blood relatives but that's not so common anymore these days.
Sadly, the only place most friends want to see you is below them. Forget all the fake smiles and famzying.

It can be quite painful if you are the type that truly loves co-operation and everyone growing together. Not knowing that codedly, some others are competing fiercely with their shadow while you are minding your business.

But with experience, you can easily spot such people. Just be innocent as a dove but wise like a serpent around them. Otherwise, you will be painted as an ingrate. Be careful.

The guy probably only helped you believing you won't amount to much doing the job. Or there was some other advantage he saw for himself by referring you. If you now take to the job like fish to water or he didn't quite realise your ability previously, envy will grow. He will become the stumbling block and obstacle. To upstage you at every turn. It's a common thing really.

Oh, bad belle and greedy people may appear on the surface to "have more" materially or otherwise than you but they know you have some assets or attributes they will never have. Whether you know it or not.

IconicR:
You all obidient losers will never heal.
Get another shocker soon in the court and if we hear kpim the military will be everywhere to put things in order

Were you in bed with obidients before the election? Apoda!

IconicR:
Kikikikiki she's now denying his fake messiah, you are a political prostitute. You that carried obi on your head during campaign that I was always pressing your neck. Don't let my new monika deceive you, if you know my previous monika you won't be here denying your actions.

Is the person you are quoting a he or she?

Pick a side and stop confusing thunder.

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

I learnt to walk alone long time ago, its lonely but better because it comes with peace of mind.

You won't die doing your thing alone,slow and steady

pongwa:
I think you are the bad friend. He referring you for the job you are enjoying higher pay means he is a true friend. If he doesn't want the best for you he wouldn't do that. You have wronged a good person, you better restitute or èlse karma is gonna knock at your door soon

You are right.
OP did not state when and when the guy had frictions with her.
Now things getting better for OP she wants to dump the guy instead for both of them to work for better future.
Frivolous accusations. Dumping tactics.

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

you see this particular post
I mean this post I swear you go explain am tire

My best friends are children below the age of 10. The innocence in them and the fact that I have the opportunity to help in moulding them into better adults for the society and the country are my driving force.

Kazim88:



OP you seem like a very bad person or female.

You have higher position than him that refer you. It is human he will not feel elated. They are many ways to clear the issue like making feel appreciated not envious.
And worse case scenario, cut the relationship not because he is a bad person, but such is life.

And if ever, you are to post about him, remember him for the good he did not for the bad he did not do.

alabosi Ni e.na your type be slow poisonous snake . So you are waiting for a person to kill you before before you know he's your enemy.na your type go lure someone, make them comfortable so you Go fit kill them

See how you gaslighted the op so you will make her feel she's the problem.no wonder oyinbos say narcissist hate boundaries

akpascomartino:

You are right.
OP did not state when and when the guy had frictions with her.
Now things getting better for OP she wants to dump the guy instead for both of them to work for better future.
Frivolous accusations. Dumping tactics.

we know your type.so you want to learn by experience.you want them to show you shege banza before your eyes open

AllBlack:



real life are for those who actually have one. that useless boy disguising as a woman, has no life

I agree with you.

I no dey get friends and I'm happy. The only one I tried to have dey do yeye competition with me even when I no know. Dude is a chronic liar and not to be trusted.

Funnily enough, he doesn't know I'm aware of all his doings. I want to cut him off in a subtle way.

My only friend now is a grown up colleague old enough to even be my mother.

MrsTwrite:
Na poor people dey keep friends.

A million likes plssss

AllBlack:


school na scam.

As one guy said the other time "Stay in school, you said school is a scam. The report card is out." Early to bird, early to rice

frankyychiji:
Were you in bed with obidients before the election? Apoda!

You own this account as well alagbaoshi

IconicR:
Kikikikiki she's now denying his fake messiah, you are a political prostitute. You that carried obi on your head during campaign that I was always pressing your neck. Don't let my new monika deceive you, if you know my previous monika you won't be here denying your actions.

I know who you are, that is why am still calling you 'ode, you lack sense and integrity, constituting nuisance all over this place


Getout and bye

I have friends but I trust no soul, cus the world outside is so cold...

midehi2:

I know who you are, that is why am still calling you 'ode, you lack sense and integrity, constituting nuisance all over this place


Getout and bye

As e Dy pain you e Dy sweet us.
Keep supporting nonsense every four years.
Oniranu.

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

Critically reread and comprehend your post and two things will be clear

• You are not telling us the whole story
• You are a total ingrate and a toxic person

If the second point is accurate then, I wish your friend the best. And as for you, I hope nature takes care of you , as it has done to millions before you