I met this girl last Sunday, very depressed and anxious, she was pursued outside home by the person she calls mum, I think she is not her real mother.

They have broken her, abused her since secondary school and even the husband of the man slept with her for years, she has seen it all.

I accomodated her now since then, tried different means to reconsile her with her said mother but she has refused to let her home, even their church person had begged on her behalf, but her mum refused to let her in.

She is with me now, not changed cloth since then, what should I do? I don't to put myself in any problem.

It's crazy, I don't want her to kill herself or run to a guest house to start prostitution or being used by people anyhow, which they try to subject her to.

Please if you have a better advice for her or what I should do.

Sisters, a sister needs your advice and help now.

Buy her some clothes first


Are u married?

illicit:
Buy her some clothes first


Are u married?

No bruh.

illicit:
Buy her some clothes first


Are u married?

I can tell her to go get more cloths from where the said mother pack it

Marry her and start sampling. Simple

TINUBUISMAD:
Marry her and start sampling. Simple

It's that the advice you will give to your younger sister? That is homeless, depressed, anxious and don't know what to do?

You can marry her then

UcheKingsley1:


It's that the advice you will give to your younger sister? That is homeless, depressed, anxious and don't know what to do?

Ok through her away

Matix222:
You can marry her then

It's that the advice you will give to your younger sister? That is homeless, depressed, anxious and don't know what to do?

UcheKingsley1:
I met this girl last Sunday, very depressed and anxious, she was pursued outside home by the person she calls mum, I think she is not her real mother.

They have broken her, abused her since secondary school and even the husband of the man slept with her for years, she has seen it all.

I accomodated her now since then, tried different means to reconsile her with her said mother but she has refused to let her home, even their church person had begged on her behalf, but her mum refused to let her in.

She is with me now, not changed cloth since then, what should I do? I don't to put myself in any problem.

go and report to the police. How old is the girl? which state exactly in Nigeria? don't take this case into your hand alone. it can be used against you. go to their church report the matter to the pastor. tell the man involved you will report to the elders in the church. and if he is a muslim ,tell him you will report to the Imam at the Mosque where he worship. and if he is a traditional whorshipper, tell him you will petition him at the most scariest shirine in that state or in his village. Enough of all these nonsense, father sleeping with daughter, mother knows but won;t talk. very common in the Western Part. I won;t mention any tribe here, but they know themselves.

TINUBUISMAD:

Ok through her away

hahaha....

jackmrandy:


go and report to the police. How old is the girl? which state exactly in Nigeria? don't take this case into your hand alone. it can be used against you. go to their church report the matter to the pastor. tell the man involved you will report to the elders in the church. and if he is a muslim ,tell him you will report to the Imam at the Mosque where he worship. and if he is a traditional whorshipper, tell him you will petition him at the most scariest shirine in that state or in his village. Enough of all these nonsense, father sleeping with daughter, mother knows but won;t talk. very common in the Western Part. I won;t mention any tribe here, but they know themselves.

She just turned 19years.
Should I report to the police? If I do, what will they do?
State, Owerri, imo state.

UcheKingsley1:


It's that the advice you will give to your younger sister? That is homeless, depressed, anxious and don't know what to do?

Oga is you I’m giving the advice not the girl is she the one that posted this?

Either you marry her and take care of her or find a job for her that she can earn money for herself

UcheKingsley1:



She just turned 19years.
Should I report to the police? If I do, what will they do?
State, Owerri, imo state.

Does she have other relatives?

Send her to her extended family members like her paternal uncles

Poor girl.
Some people are worst than the devil himself...and tomorrow you will see them in the church acting so religious.

Hypocrites....

Op i think it would be good you hand her over to a female church member maybe pastor's wife..let them look after her

UcheKingsley1:


It's that the advice you will give to your younger sister? That is homeless, depressed, anxious and don't know what to do?

1. If u report to the police, be also ready for whatever challenge that befall u both physically and spiritually because those parents are evil.
2. The girl don't have any close relation like brother, sister and vice versa?..
3. The way u are sounding i don't think that house is safe for that girl again even if they reconcile..
4. Since the girl is in your house the parents can even first make an attempt to spoil your name e.g false accusation...
5. If i were u' i would have find her other close relations and let them know of what is happening to the girl...
6. Anyhow she get family members even if they don't care' by then u know u have played ur part because u can't kill ur self over another person's issue...

Bro my best advice is that, u tell her to go get her cloth where the said mum kept it or u get her one or two cloths. Try has much has possible to talk sense of encuragement into her brain that is not the end of life. If u are a christian, make her understand that God will neves forsake her. After that try and look for a small job/work around ur environment for her that even if there pay 15 to 20k per month she can just start life and manage from there. That will keep her busy . And pls don't also fail to report to police and the elders in her church incase of anything because this life anything can happend although we don't pray for evil.

You should have taught about this before taking her to your home.Now,you have started what you cannot finish.Now you will have to take care of her responsibilities or get into trouble
Before helping people, check if you have what it takes to help first

Solofresh2:
You should have taught about this before taking her to your home.Now,you have started what you cannot finish.Now you will have to take care of her responsibilities or get into trouble
Before helping people, check if you have what it takes to help first

Ok

Miracle1960:
Bro my best advice is that, u tell her to go get her cloth where the said mum kept it or u get her one or two cloths. Try has much has possible to talk sense of encuragement into her brain that is not the end of life. If u are a christian, make her understand that God will neves forsake her. After that try and look for a small job/work around ur environment for her that even if there pay 15 to 20k per month she can just start life and manage from there. That will keep her busy . And pls don't also fail to report to police and the elders in her church incase of anything because this life anything can happend although we don't pray for evil.

Thanks and Good advice.

Just make a statement at the police station , they won't do anything , but they hate not being informed in case the situation boomerang.

The best investment in life is the one you invest in human, don't send her to school , for now , make sure she has a good hand work that she can start making decent income to take care of herself. Don't have any form of intimacy with her so that it doesn't hinder you from bringing your girlfriend to the house. At the end God will reward you.

When the parents are calm, make sure she goes there once in a while to give them small gift because if you don't create peace , they will turn against you at all cost.

UcheKingsley1:



She just turned 19years.
Should I report to the police? If I do, what will they do?
State, Owerri, imo state.

this is what you will do, get an elderly person from your side. your father to be precise. narrate the whole issue to him as she explained to you. (mind you hope you are saying the truth here and hope you didn't camp her in your house for another purpose because so many many questions will be asked what was your relationship with the girl prior to this whole incidence). but in all report to your dad, before going to the station. get an elderly person along with you. because like this now , if you even go station on your own, the family fit say you kidnap their daughter, trust Nigeria police they nor dey use this kind matter play. so after reporting to your dad, seek for any human right activist in your area and also explain to him or her the situation on ground. with all this you have evidence and while doing all this, please take the girl along also.

Critical situation that needs critical thoughts and help.....

Op, just like someone has already advised you.
....Go and report the matter to the nearest police station.....Make that her so-called mother no come turn case against you las las....

jackmrandy:


this is what you will do, get an elderly person from your side. your father to be precise. narrate the whole issue to him as she explained to you. (mind you hope you are saying the truth here and hope you didn't camp her in your house for another purpose because so many many questions will be asked what was your relationship with the girl prior to this whole incidence). but in all report to your dad, before going to the station. get an elderly person along with you. because like this now , if you even go station on your own, the family fit say you kidnap their daughter, trust Nigeria police they nor dey use this kind matter play. so after reporting to your dad, seek for any human right activist in your area and also explain to him or her the situation on ground. with all this you have evidence and while doing all this, please take the girl along also.

Ok sir.
Thanks

What I will do now.
• My Neighborhood Mother
• Her family Church
• Her family
• Police
• Before if I can get a job for her

UcheKingsley1:


Ok sir.
Thanks

What I will do now.
• My Neighborhood Mother
• Her family Church
• Her family
• Police
• Before if I can get a job for her

job don involve ? there is more to this. is she your gf? say the truth so we know how to direct the whole issue

jackmrandy:




job don involve ? there is more to this. is she your gf? say the truth so we know how to direct the whole issue

She is not, read the story first. She just came back to my place from church people this morning, her said mother didn't accept them even after a church member went with her.

UcheKingsley1:



She is not, read the story first. She just came back to my place from church people this morning, her said mother didn't accept them even after a church member went with her.

okkkkkkkkkk.. all the best,,,, that family is something. laslas na elders go settle this one. its a tabooo for a father to sleep with the daughter. the man has done a very serious taboo and will need cleansing. na elders council go settle the matter. you just be alert and stay safe

jackmrandy:



okkkkkkkkkk.. all the best,,,, that family is something. laslas na elders go settle this one. its a tabooo for a father to sleep with the daughter. the man has done a very serious taboo and will need cleansing. na elders council go settle the matter. you just be alert and stay safe

She said it has being a long time ago, the said father is not around now, traveled outside Nigeria, I don't want to bring the issues up. I only want her to be with her family, then if I can further help her with a job with accommodation then I will.

jackmrandy:


go and report to the police. How old is the girl? which state exactly in Nigeria? don't take this case into your hand alone. it can be used against you. go to their church report the matter to the pastor. tell the man involved you will report to the elders in the church. and if he is a muslim ,tell him you will report to the Imam at the Mosque where he worship. and if he is a traditional whorshipper, tell him you will petition him at the most scariest shirine in that state or in his village. Enough of all these nonsense, father sleeping with daughter, mother knows but won;t talk. very common in the Western Part. I won;t mention any tribe here, but they know themselves.

@OP this is the best advice, heed to it hastly now.

UcheKingsley1:


She just turned 19years. Should I report to the police? If I do, what will they do? State, Owerri, imo state.

where in owerri?
yes report to the police if not u yourself can even be arrested for kidnapping.