Bouncing2:
[i][/i]Going to UK to play premier league?
With no proper training!?

It was astonishing

CHoccolaTE:


I can tell from this your post that you are a promiscuous person yourself, that's why you see something wrong in a woman leaving a man that is exposing her to dangerous STDs by sleeping with different secretaries.

Lol... So funny. If chastity can b seen and touched, I think am d living icon. Ok...

I didn't talk about d woman leaving an alleged promiscuous husband. I only found fault in d way she stalked and fought him.

To me, I think d woman was rather being unnecessarily insecure. Do u know how many times she accused and physically fought d man for infidelity? If u think the man isn't wot u can contain, simply pack ur bags and go. It's rather more honorable, dan disgracing urself up n down thinking ur helping urself.
Her act alone could make a man jettison d marriage and look for another wife.

I personally don't believe d man is as guilty as she makes him seem. Did she actually catch dem in d act..? How exactly? She's just being insecure. Every move d husband made na cheating! Just imagine, u carry ur sister go fight ur husband cos of wot? How does da sound in ur ears?
I would even advice any man da witness such to divorce d woman officially, and I believe dats wot d man did technically. Found another wife, move away from an abusive wife and start life all over.


More importantly, fight doesn't solve infidelity in marriage. Thank u

MySolace:

Lol... So funny. If chastity can b seen and touched, I think am d living icon. Ok...

I didn't talk about d woman leaving an alleged promiscuous husband. I only found fault in d way she stalked and fought him.

To me, I think d woman was rather being unnecessarily insecure. Do u know how many times she accused and physically fought d man for infidelity? If u think the man isn't wot u can contain, simply pack ur bags and go. It's rather more honorable, dan disgracing urself up n down thinking ur helping urself.
Her act alone could make a man jettison d marriage and look for another wife.

I personally don't believe d man is as guilty as she makes him seem. Did she actually catch dem in d act..? How exactly? She's just being insecure. Every move d husband made na cheating! Just imagine, u carry ur sister go fight ur husband cos of wot? How does da sound in ur ears?
I would even advice any man da witness such to divorce d woman officially, and I believe dats wot d man did technically. Found another wife, move away from an abusive wife and start life all over.


More importantly, fight doesn't solve infidelity in marriage. Thank u

Either you are a child or you're just starting an argument you don't understand

even worse,a man behaving like a bitter woman.you are a disaster.men are LOGICAL thinkers not emotional thinkers.

millstone:



Lol... Reading and comprehension is very difficult for a nincompoop. If your retarded brain was working you would understand I am male. Well no need to reply you more. Please bask in your ignorance and failed attempt in sounding woke

read again,he only reconnects once he wants something or he has an issue.basically for exploitation.then turns around to insult the very same person he is going to for help

Box34:



"You are just been hasty to conclusions"

If she is a bitter soul did you think she would have reconnected with her Dad along the line.

Give your advice my brother and stop been too forward towards what you have no experience about.

yahoodetector:
Hmmm!

Having read your story, I have made my deduction thus:

Street runs in your family among the males...a lion cannot give birth to a goat. Na him fellow lion e go born! So like father like sons.

Your introduction into alcoholism, drug use and prostituting rings no be your papa attitude lead you into am...e dey run for your family! That is why that your 19 year old brother join cos he was watching your father run things.

Your papa like fast life but he carry church and being minister of gospel dey cover him iniquities... reason why I don't go to any damn church!

Your dad's concubine (his secretary) knew fully well that he is a married man and was still opening kpekus for him and even travelled out with him. Wetin woman dey do woman. Now she don receive her own karma.

In short, Devil just carry your family play 10sure odd and all enter.

The only advice I will give you is to amend your ways, cut off entirely from your old man...pray that God blesses you and become successful...take care of that poor old woman who is your mother and make her proud...then marry and have kids but don't be abusive to your wife like your father.

There are real believers and real pastors. Dem dey wella

millstone:


Thank You for this. Although heavy your messages are realizations I have discovered and desperately want to work on. Addictions are not beaten over night and I am making conscious efforts towards beating them both physically and spiritually. I do not want to end up like him and in my findings I have realized alcohol and weed have on several occasions energized the monsters I do not want. I was first exposed to porn and sex addiction by my dad when i found some of his secret stash and as a child i was confused not gonna lie but i slowly slipped in. My introduction to prostitutes and later weed i found out the combination of weed and sex was a different feeling, one that felt too good but gradually I realized I was destroying myself and also fueling similar behaviors from my Dad. Yes the Pastor Wale Oke is the same renowned Bishop Wale Oke. In 2009 he cut him off citing his lifestyle and his treatment of his family. If my Dad had disciplined himself he would no doubt be levels above so many renowned ministers today. Apostle Johnson Suleiman was one of his members in the 90s, He ministered in Church of God in the 90s and early 2000s frequently because he worked briefly with the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa, he even worked with the late Reinhard Bonke on some of his crusades and other renowned ministers too much to mention. I do not want to go into some details because I do not want some sensitive information leaked here for the privacy of my sisters and mom. My Mom still runs the church in Delta. Yesterday my mom called me, news have gotten to her and she now knows about my addiction problem. She only made me promise her not to end up like my father. I thank you for this, I have come to this realization and I hope I build the necessary discipline needed to become a better man. God Bless you.

There's only one way out- Settle down in a Bible teaching church. A church that is discipleship based. That way, you can have someone discipling you and following you up back to back. We all need someone like that till we mature

millstone:


Either you are a child or you're just starting an argument you don't understand

Lol... Really?

Nevertheless, so children can b more prudent dan some adult.

Like I said earlier, fight doesn't solve infidelity in marriage/relationship. If u think ur partner can't b chaste, take ur leave if u can't contain him/her. I would do same.

These are the most important parts, my man! A man's second life begins when he realizes himself. You're on your path to defeating your demons and becoming the best version of yourself.

I wish you all the best, and I'm rooting for you!

millstone:

Thank You for this. Although heavy your messages are realizations I have discovered and desperately want to work on.
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I thank you for this, I have come to this realization and I hope I build the necessary discipline needed to become a better man. God Bless you.

MySolace:

Lol... So funny. If chastity can b seen and touched, I think am d living icon. Ok...

I didn't talk about d woman leaving an alleged promiscuous husband. I only found fault in d way she stalked and fought him.

To me, I think d woman was rather being unnecessarily insecure. Do u know how many times she accused and physically fought d man for infidelity? If u think the man isn't wot u can contain, simply pack ur bags and go. It's rather more honorable, dan disgracing urself up n down thinking ur helping urself.
Her act alone could make a man jettison d marriage and look for another wife.

I personally don't believe d man is as guilty as she makes him seem. Did she actually catch dem in d act..? How exactly? She's just being insecure. Every move d husband made na cheating! Just imagine, u carry ur sister go fight ur husband cos of wot? How does da sound in ur ears?
I would even advice any man da witness such to divorce d woman officially, and I believe dats wot d man did technically. Found another wife, move away from an abusive wife and start life all over.


More importantly, fight doesn't solve infidelity in marriage. Thank u

Woman hating and misogynistic posts like this always irritate me to no end.
Would you give this same advice to your sister or daughter if her husband was cheating.

Abeg shift, I didn't even read this crap write up. I don't blame you African men, the society you live in has told you people you have the right to cheat that's why you can boldly come out to fault a woman that confronted her community penis husband.

CHoccolaTE:


Woman hating and misogynistic posts like this always irritate me to no end.
Would you give this same advice to your sister or daughter if her husband was cheating.

Abeg shift, I didn't even read this crap write up. I don't blame you African men, the society you live in has told you people you have the right to cheat that's why you can boldly come out to fault a woman that confronted her community penis husband.

If u didn't read my write-up, u think it's wise to reply me?
Aunty, in my assertions, I was never being partisan. U make it look like I support men to cheat or sth like dat. Plz, Irrespective of who's cheating, If u can't endure plz save urself by taking a leave.

Also, confrontation.....? Plz, is taking ur sister to go fight ur husband in his office or in public wot u really call confrontation? I think otherwise. Confrontation should b between just u and ur partner in a most polite manner.

Usually men don't fight their partner wen they catch dem cheating, dey mostly call d relationship an end. Everyone leaves peacefully.

I think I was only being modest with the so-called wife. If I should state it d way it seems, den, I would say the woman is rather "wild". Physically attacking/fighting ur husband always in d public...? Wot do u call her.. Noble woman? I personally don't think so.

Omo your pops is a disgrace to the church. From your account, this man had rolled with close to a dozen women in the name of wives.

millstone:


We were very close to my dad growing up. With his flaws before the drama he really knew how to take care of his family. We never lacked anything, like I said I grew up around alot of the influential men you see on TV today so forgive me for missing the man my father was supposed to be

Stop behaving like a woman bros, Ur dad knows U too much need his attention, dats why he is manipulating U. I am not saying U should disrespect him or cut him off..But stop making it seem U can't survive without his fatherly love & affection. He is not d man that 'was supposed to be' as U said. Then interact with him as the man 'He currently is'. Give him his respect but also don't be too clingy like a lost puppy. That way he would see U as grown up responsbile adult