Bigchristo:
So you are actually calling the man mumu for confronting a cheating wife? The man isn’t stupid enough to allow the wife to continue cheating under his watch is better they split being kicked out of the UK is not end of the world he can as well have a better life else were.. people like you used half mind to be in a relationship or marriage that’s why you are saying this, you sees it as a game other people don’t

biggal:
I also need oooo. Hopefully we will make it .

@pansophist I scored 100 in one hope it' won't be against me

cococandy:
Even though this is not true, I love that you guys think it’s true. At least it will encourage you people to behave well

NaBanga:


Then you are not a Nigerian and you are not smart. There are companies that will sponsor you (if you pay them).

TrainPark:


Someone is using one quarter mind and you are blaming the man for using half mind?
In this context, FULL MIND is emotional and foolish

smallsmall:


Not every Nigerian has access to such information otherwise, the Home office will be on their tail.
It does not mean he is not smart, he is just ignorant of what goes on, on the other side.

madridguy:
I think you need to read the message again and know the cheater between the husband or the wife.

drsibz66:


Get it straight . It's not gender thing. The woman is the principal applicant or owner of the visa and the husband and kids are dependants. If the man was the principal applicant or owner of the visa , after divorce the woman or wife is no longer a dependant of the man and also the visa , so the woman will also be sent home too.

Brandiebird:
Let’s take a minute to remember the 1000s of white women who were duped by Nigerian men who left them the minute they got their right to remain documents.

cococandy:


Women are choosing not to get married . You have it backwards

Bigchristo:
You lack understanding to what I said in my first post, in marriage there should be full commitment between both so if one of them is using half mind then that marriage can never last that’s why there’s series of divorces and cheating, the man shouldn’t even emulate such footsteps of using half mind they should split, the bone of contention is that both people in marriage shouldn’t be having hidden agendas that’s what I meant

Johnrake69:


It’s possible for care work. People dey run am but it’s expensive. I know a guy that delivers care work 5years visa within a month for 12k pounds.

cococandy:


Women are choosing not to get married . You have it backwards

pansophist:


I don stop to pity people wey dey suffer tay tay. Before I go pity or even assist, I go first make sure say you're not the architect of your own suffering.

I no de like to interfere when people dey reap the fruit of what they sow. Either good or bad.

When Cain said to God that "my punishment is too much to bear", God reminded him that he is the cause of his suffering. He killed his brother.

Now a manchii wey him wife dey change am for am for naija, wan carry her go UK. And you say make I pity am? Lol

descarado:
Why all the noise. Nigerian women have been enduring cheating, side chicks, second wife, concubine for centuries. You talk, you will be shown the door and replaced immediately. Family members will even support the man.

Persephone1:
But i kind of feel bad for the man... Where he wan start? I hope he's not one of them that sells everything to travel. Hain!

Persephone1:
But i kind of feel bad for the man... Where he wan start? I hope he's not one of them that sells everything to travel. Hain!

pocohantas:


He should start afresh. Nigerian women have been starting afresh and I didn't see this much outrage.

Persephone1:

pocohantas:


😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

Ah Poco calm down nah You don't want to pity these men at all.

Well thing is the marriage may be an arranged one. The normal but crazy merging people do just to japa. Perhaps the man wanted it to turn something real while the lady doesn't want such with him. Lol. I've seen this complications happen a couple of times. News can only bring it out as husband and wife matter.
Lol.

God will help the man. Sadly he would be spending same amount on COS like he would if he was in Nigeria. If he was on a study visa it would have been easier.

Oruebube2024:
God bless you my sister.

I am a nurse,whilst I was in Nigeria the things I saw with my eyes no be for here. Girls with lives truncated by men .

We are not talking about men that impregnate women and run away scarring them for life & making them unmarriageable or men that walk out of their wives with children but little girls are small as 13 are raped by their brothers and father's,out of shame the family will be hiding it,covering it and protecting the man.

They will not want to come to the clinic because we will ask questions. They will just buy ampliclox and be giving the girls or doing botched abortions . When their health deteriorates so bad is when they bring the girls and it will be to late.

2021 I was attending to a girl of 17.she gave birth for her father( which no one knew of except family members). He began having anal sex with her because her vagina was yet to be healed from childbirth.this lady was bringing out pus from her anus. When we asked her to present her husband so we can scold him on the dangers of anal sex,she later confided it was her father.
The case was taken up and the evil mother of hers was defending her husband. This lady has to start her life again. So let these men start their life again and don't be moved by "once in a while" cases of men being victims.

My mulatto coursemates( two of them) were raised by the moms alone when their fathers used their mothers to get papers and fled back to Nigeria to start afresh with Nigerian wives

Don't pity at all. Left alone this men wish women the most ill intentions to women.let anything happen to you and they will say you deserve it or are dealing with the consequences of your actions

I understand that some men do not deserve pity, I just can't help it.

If the marriage is genuine and the husband is a good man, he doesn't deserve what he's going through. No good person deserves that.

Persephone1:
Ah Poco calm down nah You don't want to pity these men at all.

Well thing is the marriage may be an arranged one. The normal but crazy merging people do just to japa. Perhaps the man wanted it to turn something real while the lady doesn't want such with him. Lol. I've seen this complications happen a couple of times. News can only bring it out as husband and wife matter.
Lol.

God will help the man. Sadly he would be spending same amount on COS like he would if he was in Nigeria. If he was on a study visa it would have been easier.

Maria96:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CwqlI-7ohca/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Wahala

Goodlady:

Wicked Mr Abdulfayeed, no few thousand ll be sent home. You guys at home are also leaches. When there's separation in relationships, everyone should go separate in peace and the man should settle alimony to avoid dragging.
Know this and know peace.

Love800:
Goodmorning bros.
I want to know something abt europe or abroad.
Where is the western part of europe?
What abt scavadian europe, which one is this? is there eastern, southern, or northern Europe? Which countries make up these?

pansophist:


Yes, there is Eastern, Northern and Southern Europe.

Scandinavia is just three countries. Sweden, Denmark and Norway.

Western Europe comprises of Germany, Netherlands, Belgium, France, The UK, Monaco, Ireland, Andorra, Liechtenstein, Austria, and Switzerland.

Northern Europe would be the Nordic countries (Scandinavian countries plus Finland and Iceland).

Southern Europe is Portugal, Spain, Greece, Italy, and the southern part of France. There are more, but this is the core.

East would be Ukraine, Moldova, Russia part of Europe, and Belarus. Again, this is the core. Depending on the context, the East may also include Poland, Slovakia, Czech Republic,