jmoore:
I have never seen a broke or poor man saying 'who person epp'.

But why do some people foolishly say 'who virgnity epp? That's obviously a statement of frustration, regret, delusion, jealousy. Is it promiscuity that is helping you?


I don't own a house now but it will be foolish for me to say 'who house epp'.

Negroid001:


What are the odds of finding a virgin nowadays. Let's ask ourselves, is virginity really important. Are you a virgin, so why judge someone who isn't. Virginity no help anyone. It's high penile count I'm against.

jmoore:


If you are virgin, you won't be asking for odds. Fornication has beclouded your thoughts.

You are the one that is even judging the virgins by saying virginity no help anyone.

Your own case is even worse because you are against high penile count. Is penile count written on the vagina? If she had sex with 1,000 men and told you it's only 2 men, you will start jubilating.
It's either you are against premarital sex or you support fornication. None should come with BUT.

Negroid001:


OK you right lol. Good luck finding your virgin. Virgin that'll still cheat when she gets tired and wants to explore.
Me I'm not a virgin, Ain't looking for any either. It's stressful banging virgins sef.

Negroid001:


What are the odds of finding a virgin nowadays. Let's ask ourselves, is virginity really important. Are you a virgin, so why judge someone who isn't. Virginity no help anyone. It's high penile count I'm against.

Reminderz:

virginity nor help anyone and you're also against high penile count... I don't know what else to say to you... OP only the foolish ones, the people who don't have any serious to do with women, just fvck and chop, the damaged girls, will say virginity don't matter...

some fvck boys and men will even use that like on damaged and stupid women in other to have them feel they don't care about her past, once they do the do, they dump her like thrash... and when they need a good woman, they know who to look out for...

Les:
Virginity is a symbol of purity and purity is a virtue. So it helps definitely!! Only morally bankrupt people will say and believe otherwise. God who created women and sealed up that place wasn't playing. However virginity shouldn't be a focal point in dealing with woman unless it has to do with marriage.

Negroid001:

No cast am na

Reminderz:

ooh I've spilled a secret... my bad

Reminderz:

virginity nor help anyone and you're also against high penile count... I don't know what else to say to you... OP only the foolish ones, the people who don't have any serious thing to do with women, just fvck and chop, the damaged girls, will say virginity don't matter...

some fvck boys and men will even use that line on damaged and stupid women in other to have them feel they don't care about her past, once they do the do, they dump her like thrash... and when they need a good woman, they know who to look out for...

Persephone1:
I really hate to engage you lots on topics like this sadly I can't help but point a flaw in your submission i.e the bolded.

Are you of the opinion that virginity makes one a good person?

Zonefree:

Chastity is quality of a good person.

Persephone1:
A quality amongst others, fair enough.

Which brings us to the question "who is a good person"? And what makes a person bad.

Are you saying sexually active person is a bad person?

Zonefree:

No matter how you try to sugar coat it, fornicators and adulterers are bad people...the reason I've being practicing celibacy for over 11 years now.

This is not a joke Kris be serious for once in your Nl life

I'm not sugarcoating neither am I soliciting here. I'm more on to understanding the logic of men here. If virginity is what makes one a good person then life would have been so easy.

Persephone1:
This is not a joke Kris be serious for once in your Nl life

I'm not sugarcoating neither am I soliciting here. I'm more on to understanding the logic of men here. If virginity is what makes one a good person then life would have been so easy.

Zonefree:

Would love to know your virginity status before we continue this discussion..


Are you a virgin?

Persephone1:
You mistake my engagement for enablement.

Nothing personal and childish please? That's if you are interested in moving this conversation forward.

Persephone1:
I really hate to engage you lots on topics like this sadly I can't help but point a flaw in your submission i.e the bolded.

Are you of the opinion that virginity makes one a good person?

Zonefree:

You've started on a bad note already. Going forward would be disastrous for my health. I'll pass

Lol you responded to question directed at another yet I started on a note?
Just when I thought I had read it all! .

Oh well! It's good to note a civil engagement is nearly impossible on Nl. If it isn't "your gender your gender" accusations it will be direct personal questions that are totally unrelated to the discourse

Thank you for your time and attempt at being logical

Persephone1:
Lol you responded to question directed at another yet I started on a note?
Just when I thought I had read it all! .

Oh well! It's good to note a civil engagement is nearly impossible on Nl. If it isn't "your gender your gender" accusations it will be direct personal questions that are totally unrelated to the discourse

Thank you for your time and attempt at being logical

Reminderz:

@ bolded, does virginity makes one a good person?... No... when you talk about being a good person, it doesn't necessarily relate with sexual history or purity... a good person might engage in fornication, a good person might do charity works, a good person can help you irrespective of their sexual status, a good person can be a smoker, a good person might be an alcoholic..

can a good person also be a virgin? Yes...

does virginity says alot about a person especially a woman? YES

to a woman, virginity says alot about her character most especially if she's attractive and in this modern age... virginity, I mean someone who's a virgin in mind and soul, signifies 7 things... Faith, self-restraint, simplicity, knowledge, innocence, reverence and love... if you want to experience the purest form of love, date a virgin... the purest form of love I ever experienced was from a virgin... no other women gave me that kind of love and respect...

when you're talking about sexual relationship and marriage, there's no way you would undermine virginity because it reveals to a large point the kind of person you're going to be dealing with, even to a man... for sexual relationship and marriage, virginity and sexual history as a whole is also part of the person's character... if a man is a community dick, his wife is going to be affected by this and she stays at the risk of contracting deadly diseases or suffer from abuse or lack of attention in anyways... if a woman is a hoe, then you should know where it will all end.. since there's no significant way to know if a man is a virgin or not, it's now left for the woman to not let emotions rule over her and only lose her virginity to the man that marries her...

Oh gracious merciful God! A response devoid of tantrums! Thank you!

Good thing we agreed on the fact that goodness and sexual purity are two different things and they are not mutually inclusive. A sexually active person can be a good person. This is a case of Personality and Character. A good person is born, Virginity is a decision The latter is like an icing on the cake not the cake itself.
From the post I quoted, it inferred otherwise. Like when men are ready to get married, they look for virgins because non virgins are bad and virgins are presumed all good.

Of course a good person can be a virgin and virginity says a lot about a woman. A woman can retain her virginity for so man reasons. Faith, religion, personal decision, low threshold for pain, deciet ( to eat her cake and have it) , chastity, purity, lack of opportunity (slim but it happens) and so on. Which brings us to the question "why is she a virgin"? Again Personality prevails. A good person will remain untouched for obvious positive reasons which are Purity and Chasity. . If she's a virgin for the right reasons then you are very right on the seven things a virgin signifies.
With such you don't get to read "Help, I married my wife a virgin but she's denying me sex, she's cheating with my bla bla bla... Lol 😆

You are right to a large extent on sexual relationship and marriage. I remember I once made a joke out of it to a friend. I said "I think the reason God want us holy before marriage is so that we won't have sexual comparison because there will be no previous experience" but outside religion where we are to live by certain rules i have come to realize that even the holy can become unholy overnight.
That one married a virgin doesn't necessarily equate assurance for fidelity. Yes for women it takes time, all things being equal your woman may be totally attached to you for a while but if she's not a good person with conscience she might fall.

Don't get me wrong, Virginity is good. A real virgin is great to have but as a man or woman you may want to investigate more into the virgin's mind and personality.

Persephone1:
Oh gracious merciful God! A response devoid of tantrums! Thank you!

Good thing we agreed on the fact that goodness and sexual purity are two different things and they are not mutually inclusive. A sexually active person can be a good person. This is a case of Personality and Character. A good person is born, Virginity is a decision The latter is like an icing on the cake not the cake itself.
From the post I quoted, it inferred otherwise. Like when men are ready to get married, they look for virgins because non virgins are bad and virgins are presumed all good.

Of course a good person can be a virgin and virginity says a lot about a woman. A woman can retain her virginity for so man reasons. Faith, religion, personal decision, low threshold for pain, deciet ( to eat her cake and have it) , chastity, purity, lack of opportunity (slim but it happens) and so on. Which brings us to the question "why is she a virgin"? Again Personality prevails. A good person will remain untouched for obvious positive reasons which are Purity and Chasity. . If she's a virgin for the right reasons then you are very right on the seven things a virgin signifies.
With such you don't get to read "Help, I married my wife a virgin but she's denying me sex, she's cheating with my bla bla bla... Lol 😆

You are right to a large extent on sexual relationship and marriage. I remember I once made a joke out of it to a friend. I said "I think the reason God want us holy before marriage is so that we won't have sexual comparison because there will be no previous experience" but outside religion where we are to live by certain rules i have come to realize that even the holy can become unholy overnight.
That one married a virgin doesn't necessarily equate assurance for fidelity. Yes for women it takes time, all things being equal your woman may be totally attached to you for a while but if she's not a good person with conscience she might fall.

Don't get me wrong, Virginity is good. A real virgin is great to have but as a man or woman you may want to investigate more into the virgin's mind and personality.

Persephone1:
It's because in the long run, virginity does not really guarantee anything. Your virgin woman can be an expert at MouthAction and anal sex, she could also be waiting for the one to pop the cherry and set her free while married.
Human behavior is so dynamic and unpredictable that it can not be based on a piece of flesh covering an opening.