I am a strong advocate for sincerity, even if my mom or dad is involved; I rather stand for a total stranger provided it's d truth!.
Most times a lot of problems ladies have in their relationship with men are totally their fault!

--------What happened this morning-------
At about 6:57, On my way to the church for my late Nigga's service, I saw the lady that always bring food to my work place, mehn; U NEED TO SEE THE MARKS ON HER BODY.

She was explaining to me how the Animal she calls husband whipped the hell out of her, simply becos they had a little misunderstanding last night. This is not the first time she has complained about her husband's madness to me, she even told me some months ago that; she wanted to let go of the marriage and I was very happy but eventually she is still with the man, Very Shameful!
This particular lady is very hard-working and the man is very wicked, rather than supporting the lady; she goes about impregnating different ladies. Most times, the lady cater for the feeding and school expenses of 3 children even when the man has money, What wickedness!. Most times the man buys Sardine, Indo mie and other snacks and eats it alone, leaving the family to fend for themselves.

The questions I want to ask now are:
1. What about the woman's family?
because for me, the man that will try that with any of my two sisters has not and can never exist. Their husbands know me that I don't tolerate nonsense
2 Why can't the woman walk away?
She is still very young, how can a lady of less than 32 be sujecting herself to such suffering when there are a lot of men looking for hard-working women.
3. If and I believe sooner or later the man may kill or inflict a long lasting injury on her, WHAT HAPPENS NEXT, I believe she may regret all the rest of her life.

Finally, as we speak she is still in same house with the man.
DEAR LADIES, If u fail to use ur head; ur head MUST use u!.
Life is one, suffering foolishly Is a very terrible madness.

Wise word but they won't hear, marriage is not for everyone

Too bad,why whip a lady.if u no like her divorce her.na wa ,the man na animal.Nobody can do that to my sis.never in this life if I find out

Persephone1:
I hope the women still in toxic marriage or relationship read and learn.

BTW Op I love your passion It's like every word stem from a very deep range of anger and concern

Yeah, I hate seeing nonsense and she is someone's Sister, I KNOW HOW DEAR MINE ARE TO ME and I know what it takes to be a woman, Mehn; I WILL reject $100billion 10× to come to life as a woman!.
I know the way I feel and pamper girls wen they are in their period and I have been in Labour Room surrounding before.
Sometimes I wonder, as easy as women; a lot of men find it difficult to tame them,
A lot of perceived POWERFUL AND RUGGED Ladies had been humbled like a lamb wen dating me. It's just simple logic and playing ur roles perfectly.
I have made some cried for hours begging me and even one cried and begged me for almost a week (This one almost took her life sef) JUST becos. They got me angry even to the point when a lot of men would beat them up mercilessly and funny enough all these were done with SIMPLE QUIETNESS!, ZERO SHOUTING!.
Whenever I reason how naive and childish women are; I always pity men that lack total control of themselves around women.
MEN ARE THE ONES MAKING WOMEN TO LOOK POWERFUL!
WELL, REAL MEN ARE GOING INTO EXTINCTION!.

don't be surprised that this same lady might be keeping the maltreatment away from her (father's) family.

her siblings might not be aware of what's happening to her.

There was a time in my life were I was even more passionate than the OP as regards women matters ...

Once I hear a tale of woe of a woman, I gnash my teeth and threaten fire and brimstone on the man ...

"How can a man do xyz?!" I would ask in anger ... But a very interesting incident happened that made me change my mind ... Maybe I'll share it one day ...


But my dear OP, before you threaten fire and brimstone on the man, please hear his side of the story first, cause if the man was as bad as she painted it she would've left already ...

So learn to ask for the full story...
The misunderstanding you talked about may not be as little as she painted it to be ...

Women (in general) always want to play the victim in ALL CIRCUMSTANCE, so what they'll do is they'll downplay their role in the matter whilst magnifying that of the man ...

If you check well, she prolly instigated that misunderstanding and the whipping is just an effect to what she caused ...

One thing people (especially women) haven't come to an understanding is that actions have consequences...

So whilst you're running your mouth and shredding that man's self esteem with your oratory prowess, don't be surprised when he retaliates with the only way he knows how - with his fist ...

Fahvvy:
There was a time in my life were I was even more passionate than the OP as regards women matters ...

Once I hear a tale of woe of a woman, I gnash my teeth and threaten fire and brimstone on the man ...

"How can a man do xyz?!" I would ask in anger ... But a very interesting incident happened that made me change my mind ... Maybe I'll share it one day ...


But my dear OP, before you threaten fire and brimstone on the man, please hear his side of the story first, cause if the man was as bad as she painted it she would've left already ...

So learn to ask for the full story...
The misunderstanding you talked about may not be as little as she painted it to be ...

Women (in general) always want to play the victim in ALL CIRCUMSTANCE, so what they'll do is they'll downplay their role in the matter whilst magnifying that of the man ...

If you check well, she prolly instigated that misunderstanding and the whipping is just an effect to what she caused ...

One thing people (especially women) haven't come to an understanding is that actions have consequences...

So whilst you're running your mouth and shredding that man's self esteem with your oratory prowess, don't be surprised when he retaliates with the only way he knows how - with his fist ...

You nailed it!!!
Being objective and logical is key

Fahvvy:
There was a time in my life were I was even more passionate than the OP as regards women matters ...

Once I hear a tale of woe of a woman, I gnash my teeth and threaten fire and brimstone on the man ...

"How can a man do xyz?!" I would ask in anger ... But a very interesting incident happened that made me change my mind ... Maybe I'll share it one day ...


But my dear OP, before you threaten fire and brimstone on the man, please hear his side of the story first, cause if the man was as bad as she painted it she would've left already ...

So learn to ask for the full story...
The misunderstanding you talked about may not be as little as she painted it to be ...

Women (in general) always want to play the victim in ALL CIRCUMSTANCE, so what they'll do is they'll downplay their role in the matter whilst magnifying that of the man ...

If you check well, she prolly instigated that misunderstanding and the whipping is just an effect to what she caused ...

One thing people (especially women) haven't come to an understanding is that actions have consequences...

So whilst you're running your mouth and shredding that man's self esteem with your oratory prowess, don't be surprised when he retaliates with the only way he knows how - with his fist ...

Bro. U are very far from the truth.
There is absolutely nothing that a woman would do that will justify beating her.
Women are like children; they MUST offend u at one point but there are million BEST ways to correct children without the Cain.

I have dated girls lthat get scared mere looking at my angry face, our Grand fathers were like that too, just that majority of men lost their ability to control women a long time ago and if u are not mature enough to bear women's drama, WHY NOT STAY FAR FROM THEM?Because I know how dramatic women are, Even my own mom!. I always tell my dad most times to bear and tolerate her.

I call my sists. A lot of times admonishing them; WHENEVER I FEEL, THEY ARE WRONG.
I ALWAYS TELL THEM TO APOLOGISE EVEN WITHOUT THE MEN KNOWING. This is because.; I know how women's brain work and how painful it is to be stepped on as a man.

If u think u are that pained and can no longer take it, then divorce her quietly and move on.
Please let me ask; Can u stand the sight of seeing ur daughter or sister in that condition?.
THERE IS NO REASON TO TREAT A WOMAN THAT WAY.

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luminouz:


You nailed it!!!
Being objective and logical is key

Anything I do in life is 100% Objective and logical, I speak the truth even if I am deeply in sin because I believe; NO ONE IS PERFECT but trying to paint black white can NEVER change the true colour!.
THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR BEATING UR WIFE.
I will always say this, even if the whole world disagree. I ONLY LOOK UP TO GOD AND HIS WORDS.

MSN1:

Bro. U are very far from the truth.
There is absolutely nothing that a woman would do that will justify beating her.
Women are like children; they MUST offend u at one point but there are million BEST ways to correct children without the Cain.

I have dated girls lthat get scared mere looking at my angry face, our Grand fathers were like that too, just that majority of men lost their ability to control women a long time ago and if u are not mature enough to bear women's drama, WHY NOT STAY FAR FROM THEM?Because I know how dramatic women are, Even my own mom!. I always tell my dad most times to bear and tolerate her.

I call my sists. A lot of times admonishing them; WHENEVER I FEEL, THEY ARE WRONG.
I ALWAYS TELL THEM TO APOLOGISE EVEN WITHOUT THE MEN KNOWING. This is because.; I know how women's brain work and how painful it is to be stepped on as a man.

If u think u are that pained and can no longer take it, then divorce her quietly and move on.
Please let me ask; Can u stand the sight of seeing ur daughter or sister in that condition?.
THERE IS NO REASON TO TREAT A WOMAN THAT WAY.

First of...
Liking a full grown adult female to a child sounds demeaning ... So in a bid to defend the gender you're so in love with and claim to understand, you ended up insulting them even more, wehdone sir ....

Secondly...
I TOTALLY DISAGREE with you when you say there is "absolutely nothing" a woman can do that would warrant beating her up ...

There are lines that if ANYONE, male or female were to cross, they'll get what's coming for them ...

Lemme give an instance...
If a person were to attack me, be it MALE or FEMALE, I would defend myself to the best of my ability and in the process if I can kick the as.s of the one assaulting me, I would GLADLY do so REGARDLESS OF GENDER ...

Thirdly...
It is because of ideologies like yours that have allowed lots of females to behave like they're possessed ...

Or why do you think that a female will see a guy who is physically stronger than she is, but still wouldn't hesitate to shred him to pieces with her words and even hit him over little arguments? ...

It's simply because they know that they wouldn't be any consequences!! ...

In other words, they know that guys like you exist ... Guys who would allow them walk away without facing the full consequences of their actions ...

It's time to start holding females accountable!
It's time to allow women bear the consequences of their actions!

We can always agree to disagree ...

But like I said, I was once as passionate as you are about women matters ...

Fahvvy:


First of...
Liking a full grown adult female to a child sounds demeaning ... So in a bid to defend the gender you're so in love with and claim to understand, you ended up insulting them even more, wehdone sir ....

Secondly...
I TOTALLY DISAGREE with you when you say there is "absolutely nothing" a woman can do that would warrant beating her up ...

There are lines that if ANYONE, male or female were to cross, they'll get what's coming for them ...

Lemme give an instance...
If a person were to attack me, be it MALE or FEMALE, I would defend myself to the best of my ability and in the process if I can kick the as.s of the one assaulting me, I would GLADLY do so REGARDLESS OF GENDER ...

Thirdly...
It is because of ideologies like yours that have allowed lots of females to behave like they're possessed ...

Or why do you think that a female will see a guy who is physically stronger than she is, but still wouldn't hesitate to shred him to pieces with her words and even hit him over little arguments? ...

It's simply because they know that they wouldn't be any consequences!! ...

In other words, they know that guys like you exist ... Guys who would allow them walk away without facing the full consequences of their actions ...

It's time to start holding females accountable!
It's time to allow women bear the consequences of their actions!

We can always agree to disagree ...

But like I said, I was once as passionate as you are about women matters ...

Bro. U misunderstood my clear post.
I used wives and not Females, there is a big difference when we say a random female toy with u and ur wife.
I WILL STAND ON MY POINT; WOMEN ARE LIKE CHILDREN, THEY MUST ALWAYS OFFEND U.
Nature made them like children, u must learn to accept that fact, it's not an insult in any way.
It's ONLY a weak man that thinks women has physical strength. Majority of their strength is in their EMOTIONS AND MOUTH.
WOMEN ARE EMOTIONALLY STRONGER THAN MEN! but their easy tears always fool a lot of men to think otherwise.

Learning how to tame ur wife is the number one skill EVERY man MUST learn because; there is no one way process, same as f*cking and satisfying a woman!; They enjoy it and get satisfied differently!
Bro. It takes ONLY eyes for a REAL MAN to communicate anger to his wife., Nature made them that simple but a lot will never know.
- It takes ONLY shouting to make a lot of ladies cry and beg for ur mercy.
- It takes JUST being quiet to get a lot, begging for forgiveness (Only gurus know how this works)

Being with women is a school u can graduate from in just few months while a lot will stay in that school till eternity, wallowing in frustration.
Bros. There can NEVER be ANY Justification to beat up ur wife, if it's not working; LET HER GO IN PEACE.
*The trend of forcing ourselves on women rather than earning our spot in their heart (Like our Grand parents used to do), is the major reason why women are playing with this generational men.
-If u witness the kind of blows and kicks a lot of men give ladies; u would know that ur point is very wrong.
Remember; If she were ur daughter of Sister, u wouldn't have been saying the same thing!.
Remember; ANOTHER MAN'S FOOD IS ANOTHER'S POISON!

IF u think I am a simp or woman wrapper, then I wud say; Lol!... There is no woman on Earth that won't mellow in my hands, it will take me very limited time to learn how to tame whoever am with.
Men are loosing their masculinity daily.

anthonyuncle:
don't be surprised that this same lady might be keeping the maltreatment away from her (father's) family.

her siblings might not be aware of what's happening to her.

They ALL know bro.
The lady has told me severally that she has reported to her family, that she wants a quit but they are insisting she remains there.
Even the man's Family have cautioned the man severally, most of them don't even realte with him anymore.
ALL THESE ARE FACTS I WAS DIRECTLY TOLD BY A LOT OF BOTH RELATIVES.

MSN1:

They ALL know bro.
The lady has told me severally that she has reported to her family, that she wants a quit but they are insisting she remains there.
Even the man's Family have cautioned the man severally, most of them don't even realte with him anymore.
ALL THESE ARE FACTS I WAS DIRECTLY TOLD BY A LOT OF BOTH RELATIVES.

wow

MSN1:
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Anything I do in life is 100% Objective and logical, I speak the truth even if I am deeply in sin because I believe; NO ONE IS PERFECT but trying to paint black white can NEVER change the true colour!.
THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR BEATING UR WIFE.
I will always say this, even if the whole world disagree. I ONLY LOOK UP TO GOD AND HIS WORDS.

Don't waste your time quoting that small boy, he's very toxic and violent
He always subtly support men who beats their wife, I pity the unlucky woman that'll marry him

Persephone1:
I hope the women still in toxic marriage or relationship read and learn.

BTW Op I love your passion It's like every word stem from a very deep range of anger and concern

Op and chatinett are the only eligible marriageable men we have left on nairaland
If you think otherwise then mention any man here on nairaland you think is eligible and I will tell you why they are not

Kindly mind your biz B4 you get into trouble you never bargain for.

The truth is that, those Virgina people cannot be trusted. They are very wicked and useless... All of them.

Savedday2:
Kindly mind your biz B4 you get into trouble you never bargain for.

The truth is that, those Virgina people cannot be trusted. They are very wicked and useless... All of them.

They are wicked and useless, thanks 4 d info.
But I will put it forward to u that, ANY relationship-Active man (25yrs+) that has dated more than 5 girls and has this ur ALL NAIJA girls useless mentality; IS A TOTAL FOOL!
and should check himself properly (He is his own problem)

Supporting the Evil and a lot of heartless men I have seen and come acrossed; is the highest act of wickedness and genderly biased.
I wasn't brought up to judge with sentiment or emotion.
I have been with bad girls and also dated some Amazing souls and I can tell u for free ; TRUE LOVE IS D BEST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYBODY.

BTW, I don't comment or argue with everybody. I rate I. Q's after my first quote and leave people to wallow in their own world.
Have a nice day.