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Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by legitnow1: 6:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: HUMANS ARE HUMANS BUT ARAB HAVE THEIR OWN CULTURE AND LAW DIFFERENT FROM WESTERN CULTURE AND LAW. THEY DONT DRESS ALIKE. AFRICA NEED TO MOVE ON ALREADY. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Jman06(m): 6:36pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Reelmii:Nonsense talk! After enduring childlessness for 14years, all the f00lish lady could do was start denying him sexz The man did the right thing by seeking satisfaction outside and having a child in the process. I'll not even wait that long before I start trying with other ladies should I find myself in same situation as the man God forbids. 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Kobojunkie: 6:36pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
legitnow1:Now you are not making any sense. What has culture to do with basic socialization as far as humans? |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Emaprince: 6:36pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Homologous:Who are you sympathizing and writing to? You just wasted your Grammer. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by legitnow1: 6:37pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: FURTHER, IF U CANNOT STAY TOGETHER, DONT KNACK. KNACK SOMEBODY YOU CAN STAND AND BARE IN MIND, IF SHE CARRY BELLE, NA YOU. U GET TO KNACK HER EVERY NIGHT AFTER THE PREGNACY. GET USE TO THE IDEA OF HAVING HER AS YOUR WIFE AND RAISING A FAMILY. THIS IS THE AFRICAN WAY, U CAN MARRY MORE LATER. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by bluefilm: 6:38pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
All these people that always need to talk to a therapist, wetin be una own sef? Does it mean that you guys cannot give yourselves proper advice? Nonsense. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by RevenuesBoost(f): 6:38pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
It has happened already. Let her relax and live her life as she should. She'll be fine. I guess she didn't find the right one to advise her, she would have suggested adoption to her husband or agreed to a surrogate. You didn't understand the pressure your husband was under. He needed a child and he wasn't getting any younger. We lost our first baby during childbirth and my husband was already suggesting adoption or surrogate, he said he doesn't want to see me go through such pains ever. He saw that labour wasn't funny. So nature decided to give her a shortcut and she refused to take it. Thinking what the world will say. 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Kobojunkie: 6:39pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
legitnow1:Your "African way" does not seem to work in all cases, hence the reason why Oyibo science and IVF has had to step in, am I wrong? |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by clinician2x: 6:39pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
RevenuesBoost: What happened to surrogacy and why didn't both u and the woman in the post agree to it? |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by legitnow1: 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: WE WONT NEED IVF IF YOU DID THINGS NATURALLY. THE LAW OF NATURE DOES NOT CHANGE FOR YOU TO GO TO SCHOOL AND HAVE CAREEER, PLUS SMALL OLOSHO RUNS. SOME OF YOU MAKE MATTER WORST BY COMMITING ABORTION. NOTICE I SAID COMMITTING. NO WOMAN CAN ABORT MY SEED, I WILL BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER THAT DAY. AND I DONT BEAT WOMEN. SHE IS MAD! 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by tiswell(m): 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Dchampion65:Shut da fvck up |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by ShenTeh(m): 6:43pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
It was obviously to much burden to carry for the young man. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by RevenuesBoost(f): 6:45pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
clinician2x: Read my comment again please Understand it, before you comment. Did you see any writing there that I didn't agree to surrogacy? I'm educated so I know that surrogacy is an advantage to most women. You feel every story must have a sad ending? I'm still happily married to my husband. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by psalmson001: 6:45pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
You made the greatest mistake of your life the moment you said NO to surrogacy or adoption. Both of you did several tests, and it was confirmed you were the problem, yet you still found a way to blame your husband for your own misfortune. See, the fact that your husband even suggested surrogacy & adoption shows how much he really loved you and was willing to make things work, but your village people said NEVER!!!. 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by RevenuesBoost(f): 6:46pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
clinician2x: Read my comment again please Understand it, before you comment. Did you see any writing there that I didn't agree to surrogacy? I'm educated so I know that surrogacy is an advantage to most women |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by tiswell(m): 6:47pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
nairalanda1:rest! |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Jman06(m): 6:50pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
[quote author=Zooposki post=125728827][/quote] Men have no reason to see women as any other thing than a replaceable commodity. This is because even women see themselves as commodities to be acquired by the highest bidders. Women are not in any position to complain about men not treating them with love and emotions because NO WOMAN TRULY LOVES A MAN OUTSIDE WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF PROVIDING FOR HER. We have all agreed that broke men do not deserve love nor sex from women, so why not also agree with us that a man with money has the right to change women the same way they change other commodities That is not too much to ask for from a gender that doesn't consider us beyond our bank accounts. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by clinician2x: 6:51pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
RevenuesBoost: That woman in the post is fighting over surrogacy. That is why her marriage ended. She didn't want it. Did u fight over it abi u no fight over it? |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by PepeXKermit: 6:53pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Reelmii: This can only be another female or a gay mofo behind this moniker. Prove me otherwise. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by ashawopikin(m): 6:55pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
The woman is selfish, you no fit born, u dey vex say the man give woman belle, you can't just be "unable to carry a baby" something must have happened, she no wan talk true |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Germi9: 6:56pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
legitnow1:Only in africa |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by legitnow1: 6:56pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
clinician2x: SO, U THAT IS IMPREGNATING WOMEN IS THE GOOD PERSON? WHO DID U LEAVE THEM FOR? ANYWAY, ENJOY YOUR WESTERN LIFESTYLE, BECAUSE IF I HAVE MY WAY, NA JAIL STRAIGHT. EITHER 10 YEARS IN JAIL OR 18 YEARS BEING MARRIED AND PAYING FOR THE KIDS YOU MADE. U CHOOSE ONE. 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by RevenuesBoost(f): 6:57pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
clinician2x: Why will I fight over it? Marriages are not meant for fights. In marriage, you learn to be calm and agree together. So our agreement isn't your business. If we agreed to surrogacy, it's our business. We aren't barren. Thanks for your concern 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by nairalanda1(m): 6:58pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
tiswell: |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by clinician2x: 6:59pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
RevenuesBoost: You get luck say u no fight. You and that woman for de nairaland de seek advice. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by legitnow1: 6:59pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Germi9: OP, AS IF U WILL STAY WITH HIM, IF IT WAS HIM THAT WAS IMPOTENT. I KNOW OF A FRIEND OF MINE RECENTLY, WHO FOUND OUT HE WAS IMPOTENT. HIS WIFE LEFT ALREADY. WE TELL THEM, TO BRING BACK THE AFRICAN WAY BUT THEY RATHER SUFFER. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by clinician2x: 6:59pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
legitnow1: No man should be forced to marry a woman that is not good for him. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by nairalanda1(m): 6:59pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
clinician2x: Indeed...though, knowing many reddit stories, there are things she may be leaving out. But then again, marriage never was for one self..... |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Jman06(m): 7:00pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
nairalanda1:Do women marry for love I pity any man who allows himself to stick to a woman who can't bear him a child. Women of nowadays that would not touch a broke guy with a long spoon o. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by nairalanda1(m): 7:00pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
FuckTheMod: If a girl has betrayed you in the past, don't project it on other women. Someday, you will get married, after all. |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by legitnow1: 7:01pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by nairalanda1(m): 7:01pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Jman06: If you don't want to get married, don't marry. Simple. I pity any man who allows himself to stick to a woman who can't bear him a child. Women of nowadays that would not touch a broke guy with a long spoon o. That's why we have options like divorce. 1 Like |
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