Please nairalander how do i deal with someone who is manipulative and always trying to bend people to do what he wants i got and elder brother who is just like that if you post something on WhatsApp he will find a way to complain about it .

With my loud.. Are u living with him?...

talented321:
With my loud..
Are u living with him?...

No og it really sucks the matter long oo he always try monitor things they worse part that broke my heart is a money deal that supposed change everyone life cuz of security shit I won't say it here nigga keep everything ti him self but will want me to see him as a god or something 💔💔

If u are not living under him and u are above 20, then u gats make decision for urself.
But i hope u are not doing something that will bring down the family when caught?..
From my observation u are so afraid of ur brother. You are a man and have needs, even ur parents can't control you when u are living alone. They only advice and it's left for u to use ur head.
How i deal with manipulative people be it my mother, father sibling or uncle, i give them space. There is a character u'll exbit that will make everybody respect u only if u are ( feeding urself and living in a separate area) because my elder brother can't manipulate me and i can't manipulate my younger brother.

Blake755:

No og it really sucks the matter long oo he always try monitor things they worse part that broke my heart is a money deal that supposed change everyone life cuz of security shit I won't say it here nigga keep everything ti him self but will want me to see him as a god