So, I got entangled with this girl who happens to be an undergraduate student.

Three months into our relationship, she took in. At first, I told her that I don't want abortion because I'm old enough to be a father and I can take care of her and the child.

But she said she wants to terminate it because of her academics and her family. I agreed and took her to the hospital to first conduct a pregnancy test, because the test we did was the home test, after which we would ask the doctor to do the D & C.

We did the test yesterday and was asked to wait for two hours to collect the result but it was getting late so we decided to go and return today to collect the result and abort the pregnancy.

But as soon as we got home, the mum called and told her that she had a dream where she (the mum) came to my house, went to my wardrobe and picked some black clothes and left. That it was really a bad dream/omen

The mum knows me, we talk on the phone but we haven't met in person. Immediately they got off the phone, the girl started crying because fear gripped her.

When she told me the dream, I asked her if she still wants to go on with the abortion but she said no.

We picked the hospital test today and it came out positive. We just picked up some drugs that will help the baby to grow well. We are going back in two weeks time for scan and start preparing for our bundle of joy.

Even though I didn't prepare for this yet, I'm willing to take on the responsibility and see through the challenge. I definitely know that the mother will be so disappointed when she gets to know but I'd rather face that than face jail term should anything happen to her in the process of the abortion.

I plan to pay her bride price by January though.

PuZZyNegro:


Even though I didn't prepare for this yet, I'm willing to take on the responsibility and see through the challenge. I definitely know that the mother will be so disappointed when she gets to know but I'd rather face that than face jail term should anything happen to her in the process of the abortion.

I plan to pay her bride price by January though.

Nice decision 👍

Cool

Fear grip you na once u change mouth from abortion to bundle of joy

Baddest guy

eddynaira125:
Fear grip you na once u change mouth from abortion to bundle of joy

Baddest guy

I never wanted the abortion bro. I'm old enough to be a father. I only agreed to it because I was considering the girl.

But still, u need to inform her family that their daughter is preggy in case of any eventuality during child birth(God forbid) ,so they would be aware.

ogashman:
But still, u need to inform her family that their daughter is preggy in case of any eventuality during child birth(God forbid) ,so they would be aware.

I would have married her officially before she delivers

Nlfbmod

I need more advice please

Nice one 👍

In as much as I want to condemn you for fornicating, I also want to commend you for standing up to your responsibilities and working towards doing the right thing

This step and correction you make today may turn out the best decision of your life.

Do not let a pregnant woman cry because God don't let their tears end in vain, do the needful fast and right all your wrongs.

Ask God to forgive you as well and prepare to welcome your child in the proper and Godly ways.

One of my sisters also got pregnant as a teenager, she didn't want the baby and she asked Mom to accompany her to the hospital to get the pregnancy terminated... But mom refused and said she doesn't believe in abortions.

She has now been married to the father of her child for more than 10 years and they live a peaceful life... No one even pressured the man to get married to her, it was his choice.

Sometimes I wonder if she would've been married if our mother agreed to take her to the hospital and have the pregnancy terminated.

I pray the doors of heaven will open and you'll not struggle to provide for them..


Just watch out how everything you touch will turn to gold..

Kudos for the bold step

PuZZyNegro:
Nlfbmod

I need more advice please

Which advice u de find again?

PuZZyNegro:
So, I got entangled with this girl who happens to be an undergraduate student.

Three months into our relationship, she took in. At first, I told her that I don't want abortion because I'm old enough to be a father and I can take care of her and the child.

But she said she wants to terminate it because of her academics and her family. I agreed and took her to the hospital to first conduct a pregnancy test, because the test we did was the home test, after which we would ask the doctor to do the D & C.

We did the test yesterday and was asked to wait for two hours to collect the result but it was getting late so we decided to go and return today to collect the result and abort the pregnancy.

But as soon as we got home, the mum called and told her that she had a dream where she (the mum) came to my house, went to my wardrobe and picked some black clothes and left. That it was really a bad dream/omen

The mum knows me, we talk on the phone but we haven't met in person. Immediately they got off the phone, the girl started crying because fear gripped her.

When she told me the dream, I asked her if she still wants to go on with the abortion but she said no.

We picked the hospital test today and it came out positive. We just picked up some drugs that will help the baby to grow well. We are going back in two weeks time for scan and start preparing for our bundle of joy.

Even though I didn't prepare for this yet, I'm willing to take on the responsibility and see through the challenge. I definitely know that the mother will be so disappointed when she gets to know but I'd rather face that than face jail term should anything happen to her in the process of the abortion.

I plan to pay her bride price by January though.

Congratulations in advance, nice decision though

Thank you for not turning her into a babymama. You are a good man.

Mugu raise to power 100!

What you don't know is that you are planning the January marriage because she is pregnant. And that she is using the belle thing to tie you down. And that she has called her mother before the other call to inform her of the pregnancy and the mother decided to use the fake dream to turn your head.

Silly me. I may be wrong sha

ddemillie:
What you don't know is that you are planning the January marriage because she is pregnant. And that she is using the belle thing to tie you down. And that she has called her mother before the other call to inform her of the pregnancy and the mother decided to use the fake dream to turn your head.

Silly me. I may be wrong sha

Look at this one
Mumu man

What's the moral of your story? You fuccknicated without condom for that matter and are proud to announce it to the whole country. Mtchew

PuZZyNegro:
So, I got entangled with this girl who happens to be an undergraduate student.

Three months into our relationship, she took in. At first, I told her that I don't want abortion because I'm old enough to be a father and I can take care of her and the child.

But she said she wants to terminate it because of her academics and her family. I agreed and took her to the hospital to first conduct a pregnancy test, because the test we did was the home test, after which we would ask the doctor to do the D & C.

We did the test yesterday and was asked to wait for two hours to collect the result but it was getting late so we decided to go and return today to collect the result and abort the pregnancy.

But as soon as we got home, the mum called and told her that she had a dream where she (the mum) came to my house, went to my wardrobe and picked some black clothes and left. That it was really a bad dream/omen

The mum knows me, we talk on the phone but we haven't met in person. Immediately they got off the phone, the girl started crying because fear gripped her.

When she told me the dream, I asked her if she still wants to go on with the abortion but she said no.

We picked the hospital test today and it came out positive. We just picked up some drugs that will help the baby to grow well. We are going back in two weeks time for scan and start preparing for our bundle of joy.

Even though I didn't prepare for this yet, I'm willing to take on the responsibility and see through the challenge. I definitely know that the mother will be so disappointed when she gets to know but I'd rather face that than face jail term should anything happen to her in the process of the abortion.

I plan to pay her bride price by January though.

Men take responsibility for their actions regardless of any inconveniences....Nah man you be my brother😎

Enjoy your home as you make your woman your official wife.... she can still go to school after giving birth if she wants to, it just requires adequate planning that's all⚠️

ddemillie:
What you don't know is that you are planning the January marriage because she is pregnant. And that she is using the belle thing to tie you down. And that she has called her mother before the other call to inform her of the pregnancy and the mother decided to use the fake dream to turn your head.

Silly me. I may be wrong sha

We would have terminated the baby before the mother's call came in.

The day we went for the confirmation of the pregnancy was the day we intended to terminate it but because we went late and was visiting the hospital for the first time, it took a whole lot of process to get registered, see a doctor and all that.

So, we decided to leave and come back the next day to carry out our plan before her mum called that evening.

The pregnancy affects her the most more than me and I agreed to keep it from the beginning. She didn't walk up to me and say that she was pregnant.

We both saw the pregnancy signs manifesting on her. I bought the pregnancy test kit for her... She ain't roping anything on me bro.

tochez24:



Men take responsibility for their actions regardless of any inconveniences....Nah man you be my brother😎

Enjoy your home as you make your woman your official wife.... she can still go to school after giving birth if she wants to, it just requires adequate planning that's all⚠️

Exactly, one of my sisters recently graduated with first class in Nursing Science at National Open University.

She works full time in a government hospital, she has five kids (schooling while giving birth to them), so I believe schooling and child bearing can run concurrently.

Thanks for your input

PuZZyNegro:
So, I got entangled with this girl who happens to be an undergraduate student.

Three months into our relationship, she took in. At first, I told her that I don't want abortion because I'm old enough to be a father and I can take care of her and the child.

But she said she wants to terminate it because of her academics and her family. I agreed and took her to the hospital to first conduct a pregnancy test, because the test we did was the home test, after which we would ask the doctor to do the D & C.

We did the test yesterday and was asked to wait for two hours to collect the result but it was getting late so we decided to go and return today to collect the result and abort the pregnancy.

But as soon as we got home, the mum called and told her that she had a dream where she (the mum) came to my house, went to my wardrobe and picked some black clothes and left. That it was really a bad dream/omen

The mum knows me, we talk on the phone but we haven't met in person. Immediately they got off the phone, the girl started crying because fear gripped her.

When she told me the dream, I asked her if she still wants to go on with the abortion but she said no.

We picked the hospital test today and it came out positive. We just picked up some drugs that will help the baby to grow well. We are going back in two weeks time for scan and start preparing for our bundle of joy.

Even though I didn't prepare for this yet, I'm willing to take on the responsibility and see through the challenge. I definitely know that the mother will be so disappointed when she gets to know but I'd rather face that than face jail term should anything happen to her in the process of the abortion.

I plan to pay her bride price by January though.

Them don scam you.... Hahahaha.


Dream ba wo

PuZZyNegro:


We would have terminated the baby before the mother's call came in.

The day we went for the confirmation of the pregnancy was the day we intended to terminate it but because we went late and was visiting the hospital for the first time, it took a whole lot of process to get registered, see a doctor and all that.

So, we decided to leave and come back the next day to carry out our plan before her mum called that evening.

The pregnancy affects her the most more than me and I agreed to keep it from the beginning. She didn't walk up to me and say that she was pregnant.

We both saw the pregnancy signs manifesting on her. I bought the pregnancy test kit for her... She ain't roping anything on me bro.

All things said and done, you are a responsible man and I see true love in the air. Kudos

That child is destined to live!
Welcome to a happy family life!👏👏👏🍾

PuZZyNegro:
So, I got entangled with this girl who happens to be an undergraduate student.

Three months into our relationship, she took in. At first, I told her that I don't want abortion because I'm old enough to be a father and I can take care of her and the child.

But she said she wants to terminate it because of her academics and her family. I agreed and took her to the hospital to first conduct a pregnancy test, because the test we did was the home test, after which we would ask the doctor to do the D & C.

We did the test yesterday and was asked to wait for two hours to collect the result but it was getting late so we decided to go and return today to collect the result and abort the pregnancy.

But as soon as we got home, the mum called and told her that she had a dream where she (the mum) came to my house, went to my wardrobe and picked some black clothes and left. That it was really a bad dream/omen

The mum knows me, we talk on the phone but we haven't met in person. Immediately they got off the phone, the girl started crying because fear gripped her.

When she told me the dream, I asked her if she still wants to go on with the abortion but she said no.

We picked the hospital test today and it came out positive. We just picked up some drugs that will help the baby to grow well. We are going back in two weeks time for scan and start preparing for our bundle of joy.

Even though I didn't prepare for this yet, I'm willing to take on the responsibility and see through the challenge. I definitely know that the mother will be so disappointed when she gets to know but I'd rather face that than face jail term should anything happen to her in the process of the abortion.

I plan to pay her bride price by January though.

Haha na plan work, nobody dream any dream, congratulations in advance

ddemillie:


All things said and done, you are a responsible man and I see true love in the air. Kudos

Thanks brother. I know it's not going to be easy.

I'm saving money for a business but I'm going to divert that fund to shoulder the responsibility ahead.

I believe when there's life, money and business will always come.

ashawopikin:
Haha na plan work, nobody dream any dream, congratulations in advance

I would have believed if I wasn't involved in the whole process.

You don't know what the pregnancy means to the girl at this time. We're yet to tell the mother about it.

The girl just told the mum that I'm interested in her and that I want to marry her.

The mum said she will pray over it. We will let them prepare for the marriage ceremony before breaking the news to them.

Gee64:
That child is destined to live!
Welcome to a happy family life!👏👏👏🍾

I believe so.

As a Catholic, the church frowns against fornication and abortion but the later cannot be forgiven by just going for confession. It's a serious mortal sin and I am not a fan.

I just had to agree to the abortion initially so she can see that her happiness matters to me more than my own interest which is the baby.

And also, she won't throw tantrum when the burden of the pregnancy and child bearing weighs in on her.

You know women like throwing blames. At least, I will tell her that I agreed to the abortion and was willing to fund it. Took her to a good hospital self so there wouldn't be any story.

But thank God the decision to keep it came from her mother. I only have to focus on ensuring she's well taken care of until she delivers.

To start with, na fake dream. Dem wan use am tie you down.

dear puZZynegro , i use God beg you, save money and do DNA.

Lungdick:
To start with, na fake dream. Dem wan use am tie you down.


dear puZZynegro , i use God beg you, save money and do DNA.

I told her point black that I will do DNA once the baby is 3 months old.

I strongly doubt this tieing me down thing. I accepted responsibility from the beginning and told her that I don't want to abort.

So, why would she lie again for her to keep the pregnancy that I told her to keep already.

If I never wanted to take responsibility or marry her, no amount of dream would have changed my mind.

PuZZyNegro:


I told her point black that I will do DNA once the baby is 3 months old.

I strongly doubt this tieing me down thing. I accepted responsibility from the beginning and told her that I don't want to abort.

So, why would she lie again for her to keep the pregnancy that I told her to keep already.

If I never wanted to take responsibility or marry her, no amount of dream would have changed my mind.

yeah! I like this path but please save money and do DNA.


May God bless you, your wife and incoming kid.