Daddyejima4:
https://www.nairaland.com/6393827/mother-law-wont-allow-me


https://www.nairaland.com/7487524/breach-court-order-should-report



I have 6 years old twins daughters who are staying with their late mum twin sister , the court has granted me visitation rights during school holidays and I am paying her children without fail.

But she is not allowing me to see my girls during holidays even on their birthday , she keeps making excuses giving me mot valid reasons why I can't see my girls.

I have been patient with her because she is taking good care of them, they are happy and healthy but my cup is full and I will not be quiet anymore.

I really want to go back to court to report her about breaching of the court order and to also ask for custody of my girls.

Your advice would be greatly appreciated please

Exodus15v11:
Your story has always been incomplete. They took their now late daughter away and also took away the kids/your kids that she left behind. Surely, their must've been reasons for these.

You're their father; you should've gotten full custody of your children. Why were you not given custody?

Since you weren't given any custody at all but only visitation rights, do you at least help out the sister who has been taking care of them financially?

Timoleon:
You are worried over nothing.

Firstly, you know where they are.

Secondly, you know they are well taken care of and they are happy.

I do agree that seeing them and spending time with them is also for your happiness. But like someone said up there, the present situation also gives you time to work and yourself and be more productive even for them.

If you really want to see them, simply go to where they are. Spend time with them there. You can do that as frequently as possible. The only way you can be stopped from seeing the children is through a court which will find your late wife’s twin guilty of flouting an initial court order (I don’t think she wants this).

If you want to see them, just do it.

Daddyejima4:


Going where they are is impossible because she packed out of her old house and changed their school , she refused to give me her address or the children new school.

I have already missed out 6 years of their life and I don't want to miss anymore, they are still young and this is a good opportunity for me to bond with them now than later when they will become adults it won't work and I am talking from experience.

Going back to court is the only option I have left or else I will never see them again until they are adults which I don't want.

Daddyejima4:


Her mother had accused me of being a ritualist that I wanted to sacrifice her daughter that's why she seized them for almost 5 years.

The court didn't grant me custody because my girls didn't know me, we've met for the very first time when they were almost 5.

I was a stranger to them that's why the court had given me visitation rights to bond with them first then I can have custody when they are 7.

Yes I have been paying her child support for a year plus now but she doesn't allow me to see them, which is not fair at all.

godofuck231:
Instead of being happy that they are in the best of health condition and happy so you can move on with your life and work harder to provide the best of the future for them , you de behave like woman when man mistakenly finger for public , na now you wan show talent and birth rights , come who post this rubbish for nairaland?

22o62021:
Straight to court

How do you plan to take care of the girls when you are granted full custody?

Exodus15v11:
That's awful. Can you involve a Lawyer then? She doesn't have the right to prevent you from seeing them. They've lost their mother. They need their Father in their lives.

Daddyejima4:
https://www.nairaland.com/6393827/mother-law-wont-allow-me


https://www.nairaland.com/7487524/breach-court-order-should-report



I have 6 years old twins daughters who are staying with their late mum twin sister , the court has granted me visitation rights during school holidays and I am paying her children without fail.

But she is not allowing me to see my girls during holidays even on their birthday , she keeps making excuses giving me mot valid reasons why I can't see my girls.

I have been patient with her because she is taking good care of them, they are happy and healthy but my cup is full and I will not be quiet anymore.

I really want to go back to court to report her about breaching of the court order and to also ask for custody of my girls.

Your advice would be greatly appreciated please

Daddyejima4:



Money is not a problem for me .I am married and I have 2 other children , I will take care of them the same way I am taking care of their siblings.

Mindlog:


How old are your 2 other children? Is your wife aware and comfortable being the twins' primary care giver when you eventually get full custody of them?

Daddyejima4:



They are 2 years plus and 4 months old, yes my wife is aware and she doesn't have any problem with it.

godofuck231:
Instead of being happy that they are in the best of health condition and happy so you can move on with your life and work harder to provide the best of the future for them , you de behave like woman when man mistakenly finger for public , na now you wan show talent and birth rights , come who post this rubbish for nairaland?