Hey, everyone

News just got to me that my friend's sister, who is barely 16, has been pregnant for the past 5 months. This came as a shock to me as I wasn't aware of any such development, neither was my friend. I've informed him, and he's furious.

His mum has held back the info from him because she knows he would get angry. He's always lamenting to the mum about how she's ruining the girl's life by allowing her to have her way, but she would even defend her, restraining my friend from disciplining her.

My friend and I grew up in the same area and haven't been home since like a year now. That's why neither of us knew about this pregnancy. Info reaching us confirms that she was impregnated by a married guy whose wife just put to bed.

Now we don't know if he's had any arrangement with the mum or anything, but my friend wants to treat this case as taking advantage of a minor. Yes I agree she foolishly spread her legs, but I strongly believe she was lured with money, given how these young girls are gullible and easily bought with money.

How do we handle this issue? My friend is thinking of reporting the case to the police. This is not North. How do you sleep with and impregnate a minor?

I'll appreciate any helpful suggestions on what to do.


Update


Thanks guys for the suggestion. Nabbing the guy has proven difficult.

But, thankfully, Social Welfare Services has taken over the case. The girl will be registered in a government hospital tomorrow and given items that will aid her safe delivery ( feeding and accomodation inclusive.)

Turns out she's over 8 months in imminently due for delivery. Plus, she's 15 and not 16 as earlier believed

We have whistle blowers already, so the guy will be arrested tomorrow has he's returned home today.

I'll make further updates tomorrow with a new topic.

Nowadays kids are PROPER STREETS KIDS.Gone are those days u hide under bed,to evade good cane,🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ away to yo grandma 🏠 to shield u from maximum flogging. Do some RITUAL like removed ur eyelids /hair and hide it under the mat.So long a story.



There's nothing d police can do on this mata.Go to Gender in ur state LG/Ministry and report

If the person responsible is above 18years
You could charge the person to court for statutory rape.

But are you ready to put your family and girl through that stress

If the person is below 18,
I will advice the person accepts the pregnancy but Ur friends family should take care of their daughter
Just to avoid cases of the girl been maltreated

But in all
Please don't pursue that girl
Take care of her and the pregnancy

let your friend not take laws into his hands , report to police .

Use like three army men pick an up ,keep raining slaps and blows till he reaches station.



As for the 16 years old girl let her keep the baby since her leg no gree stay one place.

Waoh

Sleeping with a minor is another form child molestation termed statutory rape..
The deed has been done and the only thing you can do is to take him to court which i believe in this part of the world will not cause much harm to the man except you are more richer than him because he didn't rape her physically..
A 16yrs old girl gather mind sleep with a married man and u said the man lure her with money, i believe it's what she have been doing for over a long time.
Some married men will just keep on embrassing theirwives..
Las las everybody go dey ok..

Chibuzoripob:
Nowadays kids are PROPER STREETS KIDS.Gone are those days u hide under bed,to evade good cane,🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ away to yo grandma 🏠 to shield u from maximum flogging. Do some RITUAL like removed ur eyelids /hair and hide it under the mat.So long a story.



There's nothing d police can do on this mata.Go to Gender in ur state LG/Ministry and report

Gender?

farano, Rocktation, dominique

FP for helpful suggestions please

Mustiboy:

Gender?

There's Ministry like that.Go and find out

Cut his libido or kill him.
Such person doesn't deserve to live.

Mustiboy:
Hey, everyone

News just got to me that my friend's sister, who is barely 16, has been pregnant for the past 5 months. This came as a shock to me as I wasn't aware of any such development, neither was my friend. I've informed him, and he's furious.

His mum had held back to the info from him because she knows he would get angry. He's always lamenting to the mum about how she's ruining the girl's life by allowing her to have her way, but she would even defend her, restraining my friend from disciplining her.

My friend and I grew up in the same area and haven't been home since like a year now. That's why neither of us knew about this pregnancy. Info reaching us confirms that she was impregnated by a married guy whose wife just put to bed.

Now we don't know if he's had any arrangement with the mum or anything, but my friend wants to treat this case as taking advantage of a minor. Yes I agree she foolishly spread her legs, but I strongly believe she was lured with money, given how these young girls are gullible and easily bought with money.

How do we handle this issue? My friend is thinking of reporting the case to the police. This is not North. How do you sleep with and impregnate a minor?

I'll appreciate any helpful suggestions on what to do.

Mustiboy:
Hey, everyone

News just got to me that my friend's sister, who is barely 16, has been pregnant for the past 5 months. This came as a shock to me as I wasn't aware of any such development, neither was my friend. I've informed him, and he's furious.

His mum had held back to the info from him because she knows he would get angry. He's always lamenting to the mum about how she's ruining the girl's life by allowing her to have her way, but she would even defend her, restraining my friend from disciplining her.

My friend and I grew up in the same area and haven't been home since like a year now. That's why neither of us knew about this pregnancy. Info reaching us confirms that she was impregnated by a married guy whose wife just put to bed.

Now we don't know if he's had any arrangement with the mum or anything, but my friend wants to treat this case as taking advantage of a minor. Yes I agree she foolishly spread her legs, but I strongly believe she was lured with money, given how these young girls are gullible and easily bought with money.

How do we handle this issue? My friend is thinking of reporting the case to the police. This is not North. How do you sleep with and impregnate a minor?

I'll appreciate any helpful suggestions on what to do.

let's not be quick to judge. First of all be certain that the married man is aware of her age before taking any action. Yall should confirm from her if she made the man aware that she was still a minor. Children of nowadays grow so fast and alot of them lie. Nigeria law doesn't stipulate that you must present a birth certificate before sex can be initiated . Its a tad bit tricky. If however, the man is aware, just go to your local government secretariat and report him to social service. It will be taken up from there. Such crime is considered as rape and he might spend his lifetime behind bars.

Is the man denying the pregnancy? If not, don't press charges, bring him on board to support the girl upkeep

Abeg free the guy joor. Blame the girl for it. 16yrs for naija now don wise and no be small pikin again. Infact na Dem go give u pvssy u go run. Just show the girl love and care, tell the man to take care of his responsibility, that's what u guys can do now, because if u hurt the man, u hurt the girl because pikin need him papa. Except una ready to take care of the pikin and the mama

I condemn sex with minor but if it's not rape, I suggest you tread with caution. As Nigeria is now, you can't tell who took advantage of the other between the he-goat married man and the 16yr old vaginarian. Some of us strict gentlemen know what we see in the hands of the so called minors.

Namaster:


You are fool! You must be rapist or a budding one.

How will you feel if a 30+ married man relentlessly bleeped your 16-year old daughter until she gets pregnant?

He has ruined two lives. The lives 16-year old girl and the child she'll give birth to. That number will go up when the rapist is in jail.

He raped her. Fucking a minor is statutory rape. Make sure the man is arrested and charged to court, OP.

The man is a predator. This might not be his first time of having sex with a minor and it'll not be the last if he doesn't suffer severe consequences.

She wasn't a virgin after all. Our generation is gone, Titkok, social media frenzy, and lack of contentment has polluted our teenagers all around the world not only in Nigeria.

Best, let Nigeria and world government bring down age of consent to 16years to save men from all these pretentious stress, a 16yrs old girl has started fvcking different diccks and old enough to know what's right and wrong. You can't tell me otherwise.

Don't claim you don't know what Im talking about, judging by the high level of sexual immorality nowadays even in secondary schools we see all these everyday and claim she is a minor, but what about her pussy, indecent dressing, composure and silly acts that are not minors.

Fvck the hipocrysy.

Namaster:


You are fool! You must be rapist or a budding one.

How will you feel if a 30+ married man relentlessly bleeped your 16-year old daughter until she gets pregnant?

He has ruined two lives. The lives 16-year old girl and the child she'll give birth to. That number will go up when the rapist is in jail.

He raped her. Fucking a minor is statutory rape. Make sure the man is arrested and charged to court, OP.

The man is a predator. This might not be his first time of having sex with a minor and it'll not be the last if he doesn't suffer severe consequences.

Do you have a wife or ever raised a child? I guess not

If you know the work involve in caring for pregnancy and providing baby needs you won't do things by the book. Of what benefit is sending the man to donkey years in prison if ready to be alive to his responsibilities?

Professor of statutory rape and Sherlock Holmes of predator,the girl in question did not alleged she was raped. Op claimed she was probably induced with money. Maybe adult females with active sexual appetite don't get tempted when money is involved

tommy589:



Do you have a wife or ever raised a child? I guess not

If you know the work involve in caring for pregnancy and providing baby needs you won't do things by the book. Of what benefit is sending the man to donkey years in prison if ready to be alive to his responsibilities?

Professor of statutory rape and Sherlock Holmes of predator,the girl in question did not alleged she was raped. Op claimed she was probably induced with money. Maybe adult females with active sexual appetite don't get tempted when money is involved

You're so dumb.

It doesn't matter whether she was forced or not, sleeping with a minor is AUTOMATICALLY a rape in the eyes of the law. It doesn't matter whether she was induced with cash, promises or words.

You sound like you have children. If so, answer this:

How will you feel if a 30+ year old married man bleeps your 16-year old daughter SEVERALLY until she gets pregnant?

The man is a sexual predator that needs to be apprehended. Are adult women so scarce he had to go after kids?

omoh..........Jst as my guy will always say"The younger,The better.


dat guy prefer to sleep with under age grls,all in the name of looking for fresh/young blood..


i'm totaly against under age sex.

Any society that fails to protect its women and children will fail. It's not a curse, it's a spiritual principle

Namaster:


You're so dumb.

It doesn't matter whether she was forced or not, sleeping with a minor is AUTOMATICALLY a rape in the eyes of the law. It doesn't matter whether she was induced with cash, promises or words.

You sound like you have children. If so, answer this:

How will you feel if a 30+ year old married man bleeps your 16-year old daughter SEVERALLY until she gets pregnant?

The man is a sexual predator that needs to be apprehended. Are adults women so scarce he had to go after kids?

There is no problem if that is how you talk to my age mates in your lineage. To your own infantile understanding from the write up she was raped.

Someone who has never bear the responsibilities to others daily well being are not difficult to know. You have never nurse a child, not to talk of a wife.

Professor Milo Mugu, some of the western nations,like US, that stirred your "by the book" activist, have their age of consent from 16-18.

Stop exposing your ignorance. Tell us where the girl mentioned she was raped or had sex with her severally. What's posted is she was likely lured with money

tommy589:


There is no problem if that is how you talk to my age mates in your lineage. To your own infantile understanding from the write up she was raped.

Someone who has never bear the responsibilities to others daily well being are not difficult to know. You have never nurse a child, not to talk of a wife.

Professor Milo Mugu, some of the western nations,like US, that stirred your "by the book" activist, have their age of consent from 16-18.

Stop exposing your ignorance. Tell us where the girl mentioned she was raped or had sex with her severally. What's posted is she was likely lured with money

Dumb man. Old age does not guarantee wisdom. It just means you've had a lot of opportunities to accumulate wisdom. In your case, you have failed to do so.

In the western nations you speak of, what happens to an adult who molests a minor below the age of consent?

Also, common decency is not activism.

UcheKingsley1:


She wasn't a virgin after all. Our generation is gone, Titkok, social media frenzy, and lack of contentment has polluted our teenagers all around the world not only in Nigeria.

Best, let Nigeria and world government bring down age of consent to 16years to save men from all these pretentious stress, a 16yrs old girl has started fvcking different diccks and old enough to know what's right and wrong. You can't tell me otherwise.

Don't claim you don't know what Im talking about, judging by the high level of sexual immorality nowadays even in secondary schools we see all these everyday and claim she is a minor, but what about her pussy, indecent dressing, composure and silly acts that are not minors.

Fvck the hipocrysy.

Another rapist spotted.

If the government brings the age of consent down to 16, someone like you and the guy I quoted will go after 13-year olds and make the same silly excuse.

Plus, what gave you the notion that she's not a virgin. Also, it's one thing for secondary school kids to experiment with sex among themselves but another thing entirely for their Mother and Father's agemates to go after them for sex.

Also, what's stopping you from having sex with 18,19 and 20 year olds? Why don't you pursue those ones? Why do you want to go after 16-year old kids?

Mustiboy:
Hey, everyone

News just got to me that my friend's sister, who is barely 16, has been pregnant for the past 5 months. This came as a shock to me as I wasn't aware of any such development, neither was my friend. I've informed him, and he's furious.

His mum had held back to the info from him because she knows he would get angry. He's always lamenting to the mum about how she's ruining the girl's life by allowing her to have her way, but she would even defend her, restraining my friend from disciplining her.

My friend and I grew up in the same area and haven't been home since like a year now. That's why neither of us knew about this pregnancy. Info reaching us confirms that she was impregnated by a married guy whose wife just put to bed.

Now we don't know if he's had any arrangement with the mum or anything, but my friend wants to treat this case as taking advantage of a minor. Yes I agree she foolishly spread her legs, but I strongly believe she was lured with money, given how these young girls are gullible and easily bought with money.

How do we handle this issue? My friend is thinking of reporting the case to the police. This is not North. How do you sleep with and impregnate a minor?

I'll appreciate any helpful suggestions on what to do.

Well I’ll start by saying she isn’t the first teen mama nor will she be the last.

There are 2 options
1. She’s a minor so go to the Police.

2. She’s a minor so go to the police.

What happens if she dies during childbirth?
If they both were minors I’d say keep this internally.
What happens to the child , it would be reminder of her mistake and hinder her all through her life unless she gives it up for an adoption!

Her parents protect her but she refuse and went to explore the world..

Leggodeals:
Any society that fails to protect its women and children will fail. It's not a curse, it's a spiritual principle

talented321:
Her parents protect her but she refuse and went to explore the world..

Any society that fails to protect its women and children will fail. It's not a curse, it's a spiritual principle

rickleye:


Well I’ll start by saying she isn’t the first teen mama nor will she be the last.

There are 2 options
1. She’s a minor so go to the Police.

2. She’s a minor so go to the police.

What happens if she dies during childbirth?
If they both were minors I’d say keep this internally.
What happens to the child , it would be reminder of her mistake and hinder her all through her life unless she gives it up for an adoption!

Thank you for this.

Imagine some guys here trying to absolve the sexual predator and blame the wayward girl. We get it. These kids are exposed to sex and sexual contents at a very tender age.

They are wayward and we get that. But let them be wayward among themselves.

Bleep all you want but don't Bleep a minor. A 30+ year old married man has no business having sex with a 16-yeae old.

If you can't draw the line at 16, then where are you going to draw it?

I advised the OP to pursue this case and have the man arrested because he's a pedophile. Children are not safe around him.

He needs to be jailed before he ruins any more lives. If he gets away with no consequence this time, you can rest assured there'll be a next time.

Arrest the pedophile!

By the way if the girl was the daughter of a celebrity, jobless people would have taken to the streets chanting "justice for X". But that's not the case because no celebrity is involved.

While it's the new normal for 16-year olds to be sexually active. It's not normal for a 30+ year old man to pursue them for sex. More importantly, it's NOT legal.

Jail the rapist.

What about the men, they don't need protection ba. If your parents protection is not enough for you then it's left for you..

Leggodeals:
Any society that fails to protect its women and children will fail. It's not a curse, it's a spiritual principle

Namaster:


Dumb man. Old age does not guarantee wisdom. It just means you've had a lot of opportunities to accumulate wisdom. In your case, you have failed to do so.

In the western nations you speak of, what happens to an adult who molests a minor below the age of consent?

Also, common decency is not activism.

Where is it written she got molested? You comment as if you did not read the post or are you already struggling with memory loss at a young age?

You are not decent or have common sense. What we want is solution not a father in prison.

Of what economic importance is imprisoning an adult who had consenting sex with a girl of 16,whose biological make up is already prime for sex and pregnancy. Is it not better to ensure the man bears responsibilities for his philandering or the Nigerian state would render social support program to the girl and her child after imprisoning the man.

Easy to form woke when you don't have anyone depending on you for their daily bread. When you know the burden involve in raising a relative child,citing this case as an example. You will pocket that your book sense and start using common sense

Namaster:

Thank you for this.

Imagine some guys here trying to absolve the sexual predator and blame the wayward girl. We get it. These kids are exposed to sex and sexual contents at a very tender age.

They are wayward and we get that. But let them be wayward among themselves.

Bleep all you want but don't Bleep a minor. A 30+ year old married man has no business having sex with a 16-yeae old.

If you can't draw the line at 16, then where are you going to draw it?

I advised the OP to pursue this case and have the man arrested because he's a pedophile. Children are not safe around him.

He needs to be jailed before he ruins any more lives. If he gets away with no consequence this time, you can rest assured there'll be a next time.

Arrest the pedophile!

By the way if the girl was the daughter of a celebrity, jobless people would have taken to the streets chanting "justice for X". But that's not the case because no celebrity is involved.

While it's the new normal for 16-year olds to be sexually active. It's not normal for a 30+ year old man to pursue them for sex. More importantly, it's NOT legal.

Jail the rapist.

Aptly said.
He as the adult should know better.

talented321:
What about the men, they don't need protection ba. If your parents protection is not enough for you then it's left for you..

Any society that fails to protect its women and children will fail. It's not a curse, it's a spiritual principle

tommy589:


Where is it written she got molested? You comment as if you did not read the post or are you already struggling with memory loss at a young age?

You are not decent or have common sense. What we want is solution not a father in prison.

Of what economic importance is imprisoning an adult who had consenting sex with a girl of 16,whose biological make up is already prime for sex and pregnancy. Is it not better to ensure the man bears responsibilities for his philandering or the Nigerian state would render social support program to the girl and her child after imprisoning the man.

Easy to form woke when you don't have anyone depending on you for their daily bread. When you know the burden involve in raising a relative child,citing this case as an example. You will pocket that your book sense and start using common sense

You're a disgusting old man.

9-year olds get their periods. You want to Bleep them, too?

You disgust me. It's your type that'll lick a rich man's asshole while he's pressing your father's neck.

Your whole argument is that he should get away with Pedophilia because he needs to cater for the child.

What makes you think he's capable of taking care of two families? What if he doesn't stop there? What if he impregnates another 16-year old kid? And another? And another?

I say jail the beast. And throw this man in there for good measure.

You disgust me.

P.S. Having sex with a minor who cannot legally consent to sex is molestation.