Guys, please do you really trust or believe in going to religious leaders to help you forsee the future of your relationship, or help you check whether you're compatible with your spouse?

Davenro:
Guys, please do you really trust or believe in going to religious leaders to help you forsee the future of your relationship, or help you check whether you're compatible with your spouse?

Foresee? LOL... you have better luck getting chatgpt abi wetin dem dey call am getting it right about your particular future. I can't for the life of me understand how, even with information everywhere, someone would still think it makes sense to visit a religious nutjob for clues about his/her future. Some things can never make sense.

I should be counseling 99.99% of religions leaders in Nigeria about marriages and not the other way round.

Kobojunkie:
Foresee? LOL... you have better luck getting chatgpt abi wetin dem dey call am getting it right about your particular future. I can't for the life of me understand how, even with information everywhere, someone would still think it makes sense to visit a religious nutjob for clues about his/her future. Some things can never make sense.

I just lost my 4 years old relationship because of this. Moving on is not easy for me.

Davenro:
Guys, please do you really trust or believe in going to religious leaders to help you forsee the future of your relationship, or help you check whether you're compatible with your spouse?

same pastors that cant forsee their own marriages will forsee yours Who swear for Nigerians

If it is a religious leader who has years of experience + is a wise person, then, you can seek his counsel.

However, there's nothing like vision or prophecy. It is all about the power of the human imagination. If you are heading to him for such purpose in regards to your relationship "Otilor".

The bulk of the work is in your hands. You know your partner better than any other. And it's sacrosanct you do a thorough scrutiny of the woman you desire to marry.

Don't allow your knowledge of her to be about her beautiful face, place of work, and sweet sex. Get to know her experiences, her family background, the places she always frequents, her friends, her religiosity, etc.
Test her. Try to know her limits. Check her level of loyalty to you. Determine her ambitions. Know where is coming from and going to.

All these might seem like a herculean task but that's what you must do. If you outsource it to a pastor, imam, prophet, or prophetess, you will end up regretting it.

Thanks.

ednut1:
same pastors that cant forsee their own marriages will forsee yours Who swear for Nigerians

My brother your'e right. In fact am greatly depressed, the Lady just decided to quit the relationship of 4years even without given a second thought.

Davenro:
■ My brother your'e right. In fact am greatly depressed, the Lady just decided to quit the relationship of 4years even without given a second thought.

There is no such thing as a religious leader who has years of experience, is wise etc. Such are things of fantasy. These same men cannot predict what will happen in their own lives or the lives of their own children so why would they understand or know the future of a total stranger?

Anyways, No human has power to foretell the trajectories of another humans life let alone map out the exact course of any relationship. I hope you have learnt your lesson. Sadly, all you can do is pick up the pieces of your broken heart and move on but be sure to preach the lessons you have learnt from this to others around you so they don't end up making your same mistake please.

Kobojunkie:
There is no such thing as a religious leader who has years of experience, is wise etc. Such are things of fantasy. These same men cannot predict what will happen in their own lives or the lives of their own children so why would they understand or know the future of a total stranger?

Anyways, No human has power to foretell the trajectories of another humans life let alone map out the exact course of any relationship. I hope you have learnt your lesson. Sadly, all you can do is pick up the pieces of your broken heart and move on but be sure to preach the lessons you have learnt from this to others around you so they don't end up making your same mistake please.

Thank you my brother.