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Experience is the best teacher.

There is nothing new under the sun.

See mumu talk. So cause she get belle she no fit be somebody again?

Give her my blessings in advance. Kobojunkie must chook mouth for this kind thread.

Children are blessing from God. Becoming a doctor or whatever can be achieved after delivery

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Pls what is the alternative that you guys adviced her on?

Any woman destined to be a doctor will not be sleeping with a security guard

hmm if care is not taken, she go enter street full time and all those medical doctor crap will be story for the gods...

na abortion be the alternative wey una dey talk abi? wo, I don't even know what to advice you guys on, but the damage has been done already, she should birth the kid and the man should take responsibility of the child... is this not the consequences of being sexually indisciplined? and one olosho even created a thread saying people should wait till 18 to have sex instead of waiting till after marriage?? smh

Future doctors do not get pregnant for bums.

They move differently.

Are you sure the pregnancy belong to the security guard? because, the way all these 18years old girls dey knack different guys up and down these days, is alarming.

I know is not only that guy that is knack your sister.

If am the guy, I will reject the pregnancy immediately or run away till a full DNA test is done.

Just because she carry belly no mean say una go leave am make her future become useless nii

Let her have the baby. It may turn out to be her only son!

Of course, that doesn't stop her career.

Abortion is not a better option please.

Don't worry Bro the baby would become assistant security guard.

The deed has been done
Please try and encourage her and always be by her side.

Her dreams are not cut short maybe they're delayed.
I wish her the best

Calabar1stSon:
Don't worry Bro the baby would become assistant security guard.

To take over from where ever you stopped.

As much as we all want to believe that an 18 year old is an adult and bla bla bla, this is a major decision that she shouldn't be allowed to take alone ...

If I'm to take a wild guess, your sister is still very much dependent on your parents and thus it's very possible to (for want of a better phrase) force her hand into doing what her parents want her to do ...

This shouldn't be too difficult ...

But if she's still hell bent on taking on this huge responsibility before she's actually ready for it, then allow her face the full force of it ...

As for her dreams of becoming a doctor, it's not dead in my opinion, but it's definitely going to be delayed ...

This is a good development. Let your parents take the child and send the mother back to school. Now she has learnt her lessons.

Dyfynezz12:
Pls what is the alternative that you guys adviced her on?

abort, she is less than a month pregnant. and the father is just a gate man

her reason for wanting to keep the child according to her, is love.

she will be reading, give your best advice

mannasseh:
her reason for wanting to keep the child according to her, is love.

Op, forget about that girl because her mind is made up. When she born and she will carry another belle for that gateman. Na God answer gateman prayer.

mannasseh:
my little sister is pregnant at 18 years old for a security Guard and we've advised on an alternative but she has refused. and her dream of becoming a doctor will be dead. please advice her.

Dominique, farano pls move to front page

How does such shatter her dreams..?
What does pregnancy have 2do with cerebral acumen?
When did pregnancy become a panacea 4 Iberiberism?
Please kindly elaborate on how pregnancy causes apoptosis of the frontal lobe, Hippocampus and Amygdala of the brain?

IF it were so, why wouldn't the dream of the man who got her pregnant be shattered as well?
We have to start changing that myopic reasoning.
Let's advance for once. Is it a crime to advance?

APOPTOSIS:

How does such shatter her dreams..?
What does pregnancy have 2do with cerebral acumen?
When did pregnancy become a panacea 4 Iberiberism?
Please kindly elaborate on how pregnancy causes apoptosis of the frontal lobe, Hippocampus and Amygdala of the brain?

IF it were so, why wouldn't the dream of the man who got her pregnant be shattered as well?
We have to start changing that myopic reasoning.
Let's advance for once. Is it a crime to advance?

will the man be the one carrying the child, be logical pls

She's likely going to carry another belle for another man again after this first one.

The devil loves establishing and repeating patterns


Did your mum or dad or anybody in your their lineage have an out of wedlock children?

Your sister needs Jesus Christ. That's the only Help she can get at this point.

You too needs Jesus Christ. Jesus is the only one that saves and can save these situations

mannasseh:


will the man be the one carrying the child, be logical pls

Medicine is of 7 years duration...
Pregnancy is of 9 months duration...

Pregnancy has nothing to do with cerebral stagnation, hence she can always go back to get her medical training done. All she needs is same financial support.
Be logical too.

Let her abort the pregnancy as soon as possible.

Abortion should be a right.

ednut1:
Any woman destined to be a doctor will not be sleeping with a security guard

He's using the fancy word for gateman. If she can be attracted to a gateman, then it tells alot about her ambition.

abort the foetus ,
not every foetus is supposed to come to this earth

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He's using the fancy word for gateman. If she can be attracted to a gateman, then it tells alot about her ambition.

a gate man who still lives with his parents

Mistake wey una for avoid.

Well this matter no concern me

For people who have younger siblings, always read their chat and know who they mingle with.
Make your male kids no go join bad gangs without you knowing, your female ones monitor and direct them.

NB: check my signature and text me on WhatsApp let me show u how to read your cheating partner WhatsApp messages directly on ur phone. Or your younger siblings whatsapp


Hold your 1k ooo before I teach u.

Make you for know who them dey follow talk on time.
Before it becomes late