To make anyone do your wish, recognize or honor you, adore you every day, praise you, respect you as you expected, and submit and be loyal to you for a lifetime is not difficult at all.

Nobody on earth is difficult to associate with, except you married someone whose conscience is virtually dead because they don't fear God almighty.

In as much as the person is born in the image of God and his likeness, total respect, honor, loyalty, and submission will naturally and easily come to you and cheaply if you do the following things listed here.

1) Take Your Financial Responsibility Seriously. A loving woman can naturally submit to a husband who is responsible and does not wait for the landlord to scream at the top of his lungs before paying rent, neither does he wait for the children to be sent out of school before paying their school fees.

If you want your wife to genuinely respect you from the bottom of her heart, you must take your financial life seriously. Pay your bills on time, and provide adequate money for food, clothing, and shelter.

Your wife can assist you but it is not her responsibility to shoulder all the responsibility.

Men who take their rent, feeding, clothing, and the welfare of their wives and children seriously do not lack genuine respect from their wives. Women naturally respect men who care about them and take good care of them.

2. DO NOT DEPEND ON HER INCOME 100%: your wife can assist you in paying bills. She can share the financial responsibility by 50% but doesn't ever depend on a woman to carry all the financial responsibility in the home. She will not respect you.

3. OVERLOOK HER IDIOSYNCRACIES: we all have some little attitudes that may look annoying to others. A man who can overlook some idiosyncrasies and act maturely while correcting his wife in love will win his wife's love, respect, and submission forever.

4. SHOW HER COMPASSION: women need lots of empathy and compassion daily. A woman goes through a lot physically, spiritually, socially, emotionally, and financially among others to keep her home together. It takes compassion to know when she is exhausted and needs help. It takes compassion to show sympathy and empathy. Men who are compassionate towards their wives win their respect without stress.

5. BE A TRUE LEADER: good leaders lead by example not by shouting and screaming. When you are a good leader and role model to her, she will find it easy to submit to you without stress.

Do not tell her to do things you won't do.

Don't be a liar and expect her to always tell you the truth. You can't be sleeping around and expect her not to follow your example. Whatever you do not want your wife to do, never be caught dead doing it. That is how to win her respect for life!

6. PRAY WITH HER: Husbands who pray with the family, conduct morning and night devotion and organize special prayers and programs will win their wives' respect for life! Spiritually lazy men, who can't pray, and read their bible are a turn-off for their wives.

7. YOU ARE GENEROUS: generous husbands who buy their wives gifts and give her money even when she did not ask will naturally respect him. Love gives, love is generous, love is not stingy.

8. YOU PROTECT AND DEFEND HER before your people. This is crucial. Some in-laws can be very troublesome and seek ways to discredit your wife. A loving husband will stand by his wife. He will defend her in public but correct her in private in case she does what is wrong. And if she is right, keep standing for her.

9. HE LISTENS TO HER: not just for listening sake but to understand her and relate better with her. Husbands who listen to their wives when they communicate and show understanding win their wives' respect without stress.

10. YOU SHOW HER AFFECTION. Women need plenty of affection daily to survive in marriage. Men who are affectionate towards their wives will win their respect day in and day out.

True submission in marriage does not come by force, coercion, threat, manipulation, abuse, screaming, shouting, and abuse. It comes naturally by loving your wife like Christ loves the church.

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OP you never heard "he was too good to me" as reasons for misbehaviour from our sisters abi?

Your points are valid to spme extent, but I can assure you that they are not enough to achieve your stated aim with 95% of women especially naija women.

Their must be some touch of hardness before ya woman will be all that. Either being hard in principle, in stance against some repeated deviant behaviour, in za oza room, etc

No doubt men are completely 100%slaves to women.
The only thing I see here said consistently is women are supposed to be supportive.
But if there is something very juicy to share between a man and woman,u will not say because it's a man he should take the largest share and the woman because she plays a supportive roll to take the smallest share.
There will surely be no discrimination when it comes to this

What women desire the most is attention and if you can find a way to subvert that attention, you'd find that woman in your pocket

But hope u know that many girls in this modern times are into coded prostitution. Does this ur manual work for these modern day ex hookup girls if they become wives

There is only one way to make her submissive and loyal: money! money! money!

That is all. It is all about MONEY!

Very accurate