I am glad seeing fellow men standing up for our woman. Most of these boys from broken homes do not know the importance of women in the society.

Its seriously alarming the women bashing thread on Nairaland these days.

Slaveman343:
Too many disrespectful Nigerian men on the internet space today. I see them insulting women on Fb, Instagram, Twitter, Nairaland. Let's wait for the consequences of these careless utterances in a while. You want women to submit to this level of vileness. Always counseling women yet you are the most immoral.

I wash my hand off the nemesis coming upon most of you. God should see that I'm not part of this.

Get the hell outta my mention weak man. I don't argue words with men of your kind. Nothing can reset your brain unless a woman that have done you dirty. For your information whatever i will say will be above your brain level sir. Bye, do have a good night rest!

Actually it is a misconception that there are more women than men. The reverse is actually the case. In Nigeria there are more men than women.

Gafferde:
Women are surplus but ready men are scarce.

More men keep running away from relationships and marriages because of financial responsibilities and obligations. Many of them are waiting to make money, and afterwards pick any woman they like. You can't blame them.

Call them weak men. Call them insecure men. It doesn't and will never change the fact that society measures the seriousness of a suitor by his financial readiness and capability.

If you're a woman and you're already married or in a committed relationship, you don't know how blessed you are. You are really blessed. Be grateful to that man. Be grateful everyday for finding love. It's very difficult to experience real love from a man whom other women rejected because he was not financially up to standard.

Your marriage or relationship may be rocky at the moment, but always thank your creator for bringing him to you. Be grateful that he still loves you and he still sticks around.

Fight for what you both have and share. Protect your man and your intimacy. Pray for your man.

Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result of delay in child birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

I just dey laugh U, just thank god that you are doing well and feeding your family..... Many people really want to get married, but how can that be possible when you find it difficult to feed yourself.... Try dey bring your shoulder down my brother.

Nice2023:



This shows that u are inexperienced.

Okay.

Make sure to do DNA test.

Atleast to make sure you are not the pawn

Apart from the economy, men have up their games too.
No one wants to settle and take care of a beautiful lazy gurl for the rest of her life.

You want rich guys, Rich guys want ladies with economic value

MyExpression:
Apart from the economy, men have up their games too.
No one wants to settle and take care of a beautiful lazy gurl for the rest of her life.

You want rich guys, Rich guys want ladies with economic value

Men dont won't liabilities as wives this days

Slaveman343:
Many men want to marry. Speak for yourself only

you mean wizkid?

Wujio:
Because many women don't want to submit properly. You can't safely have them

Baba the primary reason why men are avoiding marriage is lack of funds.

They may try to give other reasons but the moment they have money, they will miraculously find a submissive woman to marry.

Men do want to get marry... but not like before. There is an agenda to destroy the traditional family and many are buying into it and don't even know. Redpillars ... brainwashing young guys to see young women as undercover whores... why would they be interested in a marrying a potential LovePeddler? Such guys usually bond and in time lust for each other... undercover gay masquerading as alpha male. Then there are the losers... ones who make a pile of money then believe they can buy love .... get burn by the women and carry a grudge against all women .... cannot trust another in a relationship let alone to get marry. Then there are the ones that sit on the sidelines and witness all the failed relationships only ... never the blissful long lasting ones .... and conclude marriage is a scam .... marriage is not for him. Then there are the ones that do rush into marriage for the wrong reasons .... pointy tits... small waist and balloon nyash etc... but then realize there is nothing more to offer. Those who are really interested in marriage need to start seeking a partner when young to build a relationship. Most don't.... have fun then when 30 plus be looking for a "good girl" and be crying there is none.... Nigerian girls are no good.