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| Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by thegame(m): 1:45pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Ok, this is about me. I have this superhot girl who is in love and acts it. We've been together for close to 3months now and we decided to open up on anything. Now the deal is, she told me yesterday that she is getting bored n all.that she loves me but the relationship is getting boring;we do the same things everyday, go to same places, bla bla bla and I told her we would work on it and frankly, don't know how bt I trust my fellow romanlanders. And I just thought I should ask people here on what better way to spice up a boring loving relationship! |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by MrCork17: 1:53pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
puuunnny eatin is always a great start. Trusss me It works.  |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Dyt(f): 2:09pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
^^ smh well op ask er wat she wants she only knows ow 2 b happy |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by yme1(f): 2:29pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
This is kinda tricky, but per say when I get bored of a relationship there is hardly a way to bring me back to that of course she is gonna tell you she is bored of the relationship and not you but indirectly you are the one she is bored of not the relationship both of you make up the relationship innit? my advice for you is to sit her down and tell her what she really wants and her suggestion on how to spice up the relationship P.S. Three months is kinda early for one to get bored of a relationship if it involves love  It kinda took a year for me to get bored of my relationship that was based on likeness alone  1 Like |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by thegame(m): 2:43pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
@ y me, really nice one. Tho weird name. I've tried sitting her down to talk about this and how she would find it interesting. She said its nt about us but her personality n all. And then we cool again. I'm just trying to see if there's anything I can do to help. Thnks tho  @dyt, she dsnt know too. She's just happy and at the same time, getting bored. Tho I'm d one taking the boredom thing far, she only mentioned it like once and all. Cork,  |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by slimyem: 3:22pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
what common imterests do you both have? I think those interests need to be explored, |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Dyt(f): 3:26pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
well den i go wit cork |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by MrsChima1(f): 3:32pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
To spice up a relationship is like dressing the turkey for Thanksgiving. It requires compromises on both side and compassion. Intimacy is not about sex, it is about learning each other and growing together to achieve the objective which should be "loving each other until the end of time". Intimacy is about spending quality time with your partner and finding alternative approach to keep the fire going in the relationship. It is also about loving the person even with flaws because at the end of the day, love is what counts. The relationship isn't just about you but also your partner. Discover life together and build your trust with each other. A loving relationship takes time and work. Put in the work collectively then you shall see the harvest of your labor. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Give her hot slap to open up her eyes |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by 27naira(m): 3:43pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
thegame: Juu man. Mugu!! you don fall your hands finish. The babe no gel you at all. Just waka comot |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by MrCork17: 3:45pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
slimyem: yea right. are you a scientist? |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by abhosts(m): 3:52pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Just 3 Months and she is Tired? |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Nobody: 4:00pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
dirty talks, makes brains, and also, wearing super hawt clothes, drives me kolo |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Parisgoodman(m): 4:02pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
guy b4 she open her gutter tekk u say she de bored 4 d mata, dat means anoda bad sharp nigga don de giv her scope, do wat u can b4 she go tell u say ''read my lips, its over'' |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by mikkymoi(m): 4:08pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Indirectly shes telling you shes tired of the whole thing, wise up, and be careful, |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by kpolli(m): 4:11pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Have an exclusive wild weekend wiv her n stop seeing her everyday |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by opribo(m): 4:18pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
i think this particular girls needs are insatiable, if she is complaining that a relationship that is 3 months is boring what will happen if you marry her for a lifetime. the girl must be something else, such a girl cant get enough until you kill yourself for her. My advise to you is to just siddon look before she sends you to the great beyond. What exactly does she mean boring, is it that you are not spending enough or you are not doing it wella. Let her define the what she wants, else run for dare life. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by HighChief4(m): 4:21pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Take a trip outside your city, if possible no phones, computers et al. Then have a heart to heart talk with her, trust me you guys gonna re-discover your love again. But 3months is kinda weird thou |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by BABE3: 4:22pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
opribo:  opribo: OP, my advise is, do not follow the advice above. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by jude4real: 4:24pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
[quote][/quote] Guy, shine your eye very wellooooo. For the girl to tell you say she dey bored of the relationship, that is to say one bad nigger don dey ginger her for one corner when make her head turn upside down. My advice to you be say, make u use brain take dey find another better girl because no be am at all. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by BABE3: 4:25pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
jude4real: |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by moderatorr: 4:26pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
make her suspect you are dating her closest friend or sister! If you toast her closest friend or sister she'll fall. Believe me, women are jealous. But dont toast her, just start calling her daily, send her everyday life sms(not love). Make sure you are doing this to someone she will see her phone one day(soon bc u dnt have the time again). If 3 of u are face book friends, write her friend poems on her wall!(not in message box). When your gal finds out, she will attack you, and her friend or sister. Since you didnt incriminate yourself, you can defend yourself easily. (you just wantd 2 know how she fared the other day, so you called, and called yesterday again). Nice setup. Make sure she attacks you two seperately. Later in the evening, accuse her of attacking a poor innocent gal, and spoiling your name, then look her in the eyes and tell her 'its over', She will start begging, accept her within 24hrs, make her delet d gals number by her self, there is your brand new relationship. Dnt ever go bk 2 that her friend. Women sabi acid oooh. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Nayah(f): 4:29pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
thegame: The bold one is actually funny As for the topic, brother you have to be unpredictable: means that you can do things she even would have though you could do it, like candies in bathroom with a lot of colors to heat the room, or treasure hunt with fruits everywhere until she finds you in ADAM attire you know what I mean? But sometimes get back to classics like flowers, "I love you" (if you do of course) restaurant Hope I helped you out a bit |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by BABE3: 4:32pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
moderatorr: Haha? lol. What's strong with hefrybory today? Nayah: LOL. hehehehe. They don't need heat; PHCN is taking care of that. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by lindabon: 4:33pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Visit new places. Travel out of town together (you guys can stay @a hotel), change your environment. Try different things in bed (very essential this one)! . . . . If you try all and it still isn't working for her. Just let it go. Its not just meant to be . |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by HighChief4(m): 4:35pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
@Nayah, my email is now up in my profile. Please send me a mail |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Nayah(f): 4:35pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
BABE!: Lol Babe yes I know but being unpredictable could be fine, a lot of ladies like that |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Nayah(f): 4:36pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
High_Chief: lol not any hello, how are you? |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by HighChief4(m): 4:39pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
^^^Pls dont mind me dear  |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Nobody: 4:42pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
EVERY relationship is bound to be boring IF/WHEN it is monotonous. Introduce varieties into ur lives. Varieties are the spices of romance. Whatever u do, always make out time personally to be with her more often. |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Dyt(f): 4:45pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
High_Chief: High_Chief: hmmming |
| Re: Female Opinions Needed On How To Spice Up A Boring Relationship! by Ebeeluv: 4:48pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Spend more time together sharing views and opinions on other issues and try to be funny and a good listener. |
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