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Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Wallteck: 9:25pm On Oct 31, 2023
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Marynwachukwu21(f): 9:36pm On Oct 31, 2023
They are jealous and they dont like hearing good things about someone because evil people are everywhere pretending to be happy with you.Thats why you have to stay lowkey

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Nairalander248: 9:38pm On Oct 31, 2023
Wallteck:
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed

Coz they can't be you

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Little21: 10:20pm On Oct 31, 2023
Cuz they are evil. They can't stand people that aren't like them, so they try too make you feel like you are the one at fault.

It's best too stay away from people that are making you feel like you are the one at fault.
There's absolutely no reason why, you should be friends with such people.

Just be happy with yourself the way you are. And don't try too change to who they are, it's a bad decisions.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Tayorshd87: 10:22pm On Oct 31, 2023
If u say ladies hated u because u are humble and nice I would have given u good comments and idea but this one wey bsay na everybody so 🤔

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by osmosis101(m): 10:46pm On Oct 31, 2023
We naija are addicted to bad bad things. Bad govt,bad roads,bad electoral,bad electricity,bad boys,bad girls.. Bro. U need to be bad.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by olaztek(m): 10:59pm On Oct 31, 2023
Most Nigerians are bullies who love tormenting gentle and nice people to feel powerful among their fellow bullies.

Stop being their food by acting strictly around them. You should only act nicely to other kind people like you.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by soundOsonic: 11:06pm On Oct 31, 2023
Wallteck:
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed

I don't like people who are too kind and too humble.
If you are people will ride you, I use to be angry when people exploit others for too kind and humble, and also these people used to be weird.
If you are too kind and humble you become someone others look down on, or not take for granted simply because you lack personality.
These overly kind people don't know how to make a stand, create boundaries, they are mostly timid, they don't express themselves properly, they are weak, as a guy if you are one you loose every form of attraction.
Grow up

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by otipoju(m): 11:47pm On Oct 31, 2023
Na bad people dey do like that. Look for your kind and hang with them.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by thesicilian: 4:56am On Nov 01, 2023
Ask some of those people you think hate you why they do and you'll be shocked. Sometimes people think they're disliked because they are too good and humble whereas in reality it may even be the opposite.
You're not the in the best position to "check yourself" , because our brains lie to us usually to make us feel better. Ask a trusted friend.
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Jewessgratitud3: 6:13am On Nov 01, 2023
It's because you give a damn about them. Just pretend they don't exist and stop looking for their likeness because human beings are naturally bitter and hateful especially when they notice you posses some good qualities they lack, the hate will increases.

It happened to me then I thought everyone has a heart like me and I was always nice and very friendly to everyone untill I began to notice some serious hate for no reason. At a time I was worried about it then I remembered non of them is feeding me, I'm not even gaining anything from the morons. Omor i lock up! In fact, now I make myself unapproachable to avoid seeing nonsense. It got to a point they tagged me proud and looking down on people. I say una never see anything. My own come worse sef.

People are evil. Forget them and you'll have peace.

Even here on Nairaland, them dey. Someone will just start hating on you for no reason. See, I dey pack them one side like sardines. No time for bad energy.abi dem never show you for nairaland? You will soon experience it unless you don't have something they lack.

Bone them and stop worrying over nothing.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Nobody: 7:20am On Nov 01, 2023
People hate them?

Please I need nice and humble people in my life ooooo. grin grin

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:22am On Nov 01, 2023
Persephone1:
People hate them?

Please I need nice and humble people in my life ooooo. grin grin

You know, we know you are lying! grin

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 01, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


You know, we know you are lying! grin
I don't know you , there's is no we.
So your submission is based on your opinion and it is fine grin
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:25am On Nov 01, 2023
thesicilian:
Ask some of those people you think hate you why they do and you'll be shocked. Sometimes people think they're disliked because they are too good and humble whereas in reality it may even be the opposite.
You're not the in the best position to "check yourself" , because our brains lie to us usually to make us feel better. Ask a trusted friend.

See evil dey talk. You think people have not be seeing this thing he is talking about and therefore you are trying to cover it
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:29am On Nov 01, 2023
Persephone1:
I don't know you , there's is no we.
So your submission is based on your opinion and it is fine grin

I just spoke up on behalf of the silent wes'! grin Remember we have seen you reject and run away from good boys as the other thread says.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:29am On Nov 01, 2023
Little21:
Cuz they are evil. They can't stand people that aren't like them, so they try too make you feel like you are the one at fault.

It's best too stay away from people that are making you feel like you are the one at fault.
There's absolutely no reason why, you should be friends with such people.

Just be happy with yourself the way you are. And don't try too change to who they are, it's a bad decisions.

My people are seeing!
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:30am On Nov 01, 2023
Marynwachukwu21:
They are jealous and they dont like hearing good things about someone because evil people are everywhere pretending to be happy with you.Thats why you have to stay lowkey

You are lying and you don't want him to know the Truth
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:34am On Nov 01, 2023
Wallteck:
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed

It is because you are looking like God and people hate God.

So as they see you and they see God, then they have to hate you. John 15:18
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Natbrowny: 9:41am On Nov 01, 2023
Be careful how deep ur nice and humble self goes.

PEOPLE USE NICE PEOPLE.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by UcheKingsley1: 9:50am On Nov 01, 2023
Wallteck:
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed

Guy is not about your environment or not. People both men and women hate cool guys, you appear boring and predictable, I was once like that, which inturn disgusts people, so change the game , be the fire and fvck the world. grin

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by UcheKingsley1: 9:54am On Nov 01, 2023
Persephone1:
People hate them?

Please I need nice and humble people in my life ooooo. grin grin

To be your simpy ba? grin
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Uchenna10(m): 10:12am On Nov 01, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
It's because you give a damn about them. Just pretend they don't exist and stop looking for their likeness because human beings are naturally bitter and hateful especially when they notice you posses some good qualities they lack, the hate will increases.

It happened to me then I thought everyone has a heart like me and I was always nice and very friendly to everyone untill I began to notice some serious hate for no reason. At a time I was worried about it then I remembered non of them is feeding me, I'm not even gaining anything from the morons. Omor i lock up! In fact, now I make myself unapproachable to avoid seeing nonsense. It got to a point they tagged me proud and looking down on people. I say una never see anything. My own come worse sef.

People are evil. Forget them and you'll have peace.

Even here on Nairaland, them dey. Someone will just start hating on you for no reason. See, I dey pack them one side like sardines. No time for bad energy.abi dem never show you for nairaland? You will soon experience it unless you don't have something they lack.

Bone them and stop worrying over nothing.


Same here bro,I just vex confront one woman, they keep carrying fake news about someone in the name of gossips

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Evolutionism: 11:15am On Nov 01, 2023
Wallteck:
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!!embarassed embarassed embarassed

OP you be MuMu.

Most Nigerians detest Honest, Calm, and Nice Person.

It's the System and their Background Orientation.
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by LordIsaac(m): 11:24am On Nov 01, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
It's because you give a damn about them. Just pretend they don't exist and stop looking for their likeness because human beings are naturally bitter and hateful especially when they notice you posses some good qualities they lack, the hate will increases.

It happened to me then I thought everyone has a heart like me and I was always nice and very friendly to everyone untill I began to notice some serious hate for no reason. At a time I was worried about it then I remembered non of them is feeding me, I'm not even gaining anything from the morons. Omor i lock up! In fact, now I make myself unapproachable to avoid seeing nonsense. It got to a point they tagged me proud and looking down on people. I say una never see anything. My own come worse sef.

People are evil. Forget them and you'll have peace.

Even here on Nairaland, them dey. Someone will just start hating on you for no reason. See, I dey pack them one side like sardines. No time for bad energy.abi dem never show you for nairaland? You will soon experience it unless you don't have something they lack.

Bone them and stop worrying over nothing.

I think this summarizes all you need to know.
In summary: Bone them and stop trying to please them, it will never work!

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:01pm On Nov 01, 2023
Natbrowny:
Be careful how deep ur nice and humble self goes.

PEOPLE USE NICE PEOPLE.


It is only an evil person who uses a person who is doing his God given duty of giving to humanity.

Since people do not appreciate and protect the good, therefore they should have all the evil they want and no one should help them which is how the world is now
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:05pm On Nov 01, 2023
Evolutionism:


OP you be MuMu.

[b]Most Nigerians[/b]detest Honest, Calm, and Nice Person.

It's the System and the Background Orientation.

See why bad bad and evil things should be living with you forever and that no good thing should go to you?

how do you call a person who has done the right thing mumu? More Tinubus and buharis to your life.
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by GodWrites: 4:01pm On Nov 01, 2023
You are a people pleaser, and no one likes people pleasers. It shows lack of self-esteem.
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Evolutionism: 6:12pm On Nov 01, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


See why bad bad and evil things should be living with you forever and that no good thing should go to you?

how do you call a person who has done the right thing mumu? More Tinubus and buharis to your life.

Carry your uselessness and frustrations elsewhere hoeloriburuku.

I'm not the cause of your miserable pathetic life.
Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Nonexisting1: 6:13pm On Nov 01, 2023
I understand it's very difficult for a nice guy to be mean but at least pretend to be. I'm in your shoes. Deep down, I know I'm a nice guy by default but since I started putting up this act of meanness, everybody dey behave well around me now. Learn when to alter your God given character a bit to suite your environment. This is Nigeria. If leopard dull itself, some big pussy cats fit dey take am play.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by WeirdAlien: 7:03pm On Nov 01, 2023
Showing you're timid and nice brings out the lion even in people that are not necessarily blood thirsty.

Many things could be said. But try to become unpredictable. Say very little about yourself and remain a mystery to many. Learn to say NO more often. Anybody treat you badly, cut them off.

Most importantly, love yourself.
The more you love and believe in yourself, the more confidence and charisma you would exhibit. People respect that.

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Re: Why Does People.hate Nice And Humble People?? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:25am On Nov 02, 2023
Evolutionism:


Carry your uselessness and frustrations elsewhere hoeloriburuku.

I'm not the cause of your miserable pathetic life.

See confession say Tinubu don frustrate your life finish. cheesy

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