[size=14pt]“I caught my wife with a man in an hotel, but I still love her” – husband tells court[/size]
on OCTOBER 25, 2011 · in NEWS

Lagos – ’My wife is unfaithful; I once caught her coming out of a hotel with another man around 6:30 pm.

“She told me that the man was her brother’s friend.

“But I still love her,” 42-year-old Wasiu Oyekanmi told an Igando Customary Court on Tuesday in Lagos.

Oyekanmi’s wife, Sherifat, 34, had asked the court to dissolve their twelve-year-old marriage due to “irreconcilable differences.”

‘’We did introduction and he paid dowry on me but I don’t love him anymore,’’ said Sherifat, a fashion designer

The marriage, which did not produce any child, started crumbling when the husband began accusing his wife of infidelity.

‘’He always monitor my movement, he accuses me of extra marital affairs,’’ she said.

Sherifat also told the court that her husband did not care for her.

“When I lost my mum, he did not contribute a dime to the funeral’’ Sherifat said.

Oyekanmi, however, denied it all, saying he was doing his best to cater for his wife.

“When her mother died, I have the highest number of guests and I catered well for them.

“I gave my wife N50,000 to buy and sell Ankara material and I later gave her N10,000; I do care for her in my own little way,” Oyekanmi said.

The president of the court, Mr Adewale Eko, adjourned the case to Nov. 1 for further hearing. (NAN)

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/10/i-caught-my-wife-with-a-man-in-an-hotel-but-i-still-love-her-husband-tells-court/

aloy/emeka:

[size=14pt]“I caught my wife with a man in an hotel, but I still love her” – husband tells court[/size]
on OCTOBER 25, 2011 · in NEWS

Lagos – ’My wife is unfaithful; I once caught her coming out of a hotel with another man around 6:30 pm.

“She told me that the man was her brother’s friend.

“But I still love her,” 42-year-old Wasiu Oyekanmi told an Igando Customary Court on Tuesday in Lagos.

Oyekanmi’s wife, Sherifat, 34, had asked the court to dissolve their twelve-year-old marriage due to “irreconcilable differences.”

‘’We did introduction and he paid dowry on me but I don’t love him anymore,’’ said Sherifat, a fashion designer

The marriage, which did not produce any child, started crumbling when the husband began accusing his wife of infidelity.

‘’He always monitor my movement, he accuses me of extra marital affairs,’’ she said.

Sherifat also told the court that her husband did not care for her.

“When I lost my mum, he did not contribute a dime to the funeral’’ Sherifat said.

Oyekanmi, however, denied it all, saying he was doing his best to cater for his wife.

“When her mother died, I have the highest number of guests and I catered well for them.

“I gave my wife N50,000 to buy and sell Ankara material and I later gave her N10,000; I do care for her in my own little way,” Oyekanmi said.

The president of the court, Mr Adewale Eko, adjourned the case to Nov. 1 for further hearing. (NAN)

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/10/i-caught-my-wife-with-a-man-in-an-hotel-but-i-still-love-her-husband-tells-court/

interesting

Most Yoruba marriages dont last cos of infidelity

High_Chief:

Most Yoruba marriages dont last cos of infidelity

Hmmn!
you had one b4?

one tin abt luv is dat it has to b mutual bt if its one sided !SIGHS

bekay911:

one tin abt luv is dat it has to b mutual bt if its one sided !SIGHS

Isn't love blind again?

LOL. Interesting story.

Dgunnerz:

Hmmn!
you had one b4?

roflmao

And they keep saying marriage is based on "trust". They keep saying marriage is ordained by "god". They keep saying "money isn't everything".

harakiri:

And they keep saying marriage is based on "trust". They keep saying marriage is ordained by "god". They keep saying "money isn't everything".

How is money to blame in this scenario?

harakiri:

And they keep saying marriage is based on "trust". They keep saying marriage is ordained by "god". They keep saying "money isn't everything".

Marraige should be based on trust, God ordained marraige and Money answereth all things., Just so you understand it well.

aloy/emeka:

Isn't love blind again?

My own love wears a microscipic binocular.

The wives main reason for not loving is that the husband doesnt Spend money on her

How much has she spent on the Husband

Aint saying she is a gold digger,

^What then are you saying?

@Topic,Just hoping the man actually meant what he's saying.It's hard(not impossible though) to see an African man "forgive,forget and still love" a wife caught engaging in such things.Is he planning on getting his own pound of flesh laterz,lure her home and kill her one cold midnight?

If she say's she wants out,why not allow them go their seperate ways,temporal maybe?

Her kini must be scent curry,btw.

ifyalways:

^What then are you saying?

@Topic,Just hoping the man actually meant what he's saying.It's hard(not impossible though) to see an African man "forgive,forget and still love" a wife caught engaging in such things.Is he planning on getting his own pound of flesh laterz,lure her home and kill her one cold midnight?

If she say's she wants out,why not allow them go their seperate ways,temporal maybe?

Her kini must be scent curry,btw.

Give Nigerian men some credit na; You mean there are not many of them who can forgive and forget?.

dayokanu:

The wives main reason for not loving is that the husband doesnt Spend money on her

How much has she spent on the Husband

Aint saying she is a gold digger,

Why should she spend on her husband.?. Shouldn't it the other way round?

hmmm

ow can i post a thread, please help!

my husband has been sexually harassing his step daughter who is 13yrs. my daughter told me and i confronted him. he said its a spiritual attack.  i further found out that he attempted to Be Intimate with my younger sister who lived with us some years ago. when i confronted him, he was being aggressive initially and then blamed me for the cause.  we have children together. i also realised he has been texting other women. he has said he is sorry after i told him i will report him to the police and social services. what do i do. i honestly love him, but i don't know if i still am. he is on holiday when i all these issues came up and he is yet to return.

some should help please, how do i start a new thread

^^^ at the top right hand corner, there is 'start topic' button there.

leeluv:

my husband has been sexually harassing his step daughter who is 13yrs. my daughter told me and i confronted him. he said its a spiritual attack.  i further found out that he attempted to Be Intimate with my younger sister who lived with us some years ago. when i confronted him, he was being aggressive initially and then blamed me for the cause.  we have children together. i also realised he has been texting other women. he has said he is sorry after i told him i will report him to the police and social services. what do i do. i honestly love him, but i don't know if i still am. he is on holiday when i all these issues came up and he is yet to return.

Otiooo

leeluv:

my husband has been sexually harassing his step daughter who is 13yrs. my daughter told me and i confronted him. he said its a spiritual attack.  i further found out that he attempted to Be Intimate with my younger sister who lived with us some years ago. when i confronted him, he was being aggressive initially and then blamed me for the cause.  we have children together. i also realised he has been texting other women. he has said he is sorry after i told him i will report him to the police and social services. what do i do. i honestly love him, but i don't know if i still am. he is on holiday when i all these issues came up and he is yet to return.

perhaps, you have not been servicing your husband very well in the bedroom.
if the dog bites all the time, then the owner should be held responsible for abusing the dog.

you are the fault here, not your husband.
whenever a man is that randy to the extent of incestuous s[i]e[/i]x, then the wife is doing something wrong.