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Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Raalsalghul: 11:38am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed: |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:50am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Hullcity: Why don't women marry into a poor family and lift everyone out of poverty? His job is to lift every of his inlaw out of poverty . See mindset, how many persons in such scenario do that successfully and how many persons enter the financial rock trying to do that? The number of success is microscopic compared to the number of failures. The man's concerns are genuine, those concerns needs to be answered. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:55am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Justkatty: Why won't you support a view that will get to better you as a woman? The goal on this thread is to help the OP make an informed decision that will benefit him and not what will deccelerate his financial capacity. The moment a man deminishes in his ability to provide, the society looks upon you as irresponsible then I ask why will same man accept the advice from the society that will help in depleting that same ability to provide leading to same society lambasting him and terming him irresponsible man 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:01pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins: What did I just read |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Wujio: 12:09pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll: Why are you crying? Did i select the wife for him. Didnt he see ladies from rich families before choosing one from a poor background? Stop crying more than the bereaved 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Allisgud: 12:17pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Kobicove:bro it's hard to find,and if u find,she may be the type wey Dem get chef for their house from childhood how she go take sabi cook and do homework,those types self go dey look for higher class than u |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Mobahd: 12:17pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Those things U see is not humility my bro How do they treat other people There taste There interactions with people Etc 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by PECON1(m): 12:42pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
ednut1:like seriously πΉπΉ am not doing again |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Wujio: 12:43pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Allisgud: You sabi @ self go dey look for higher class than u THE PROBLEM BE SAY EVERYBODY DEY FIND PEOPLE WEY DEY HIGHER THAN THEM... 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by PECON1(m): 12:46pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Mobahd:yes ooooo, that's what he should know, they might be humble to him because he is well to do but treats others like trash. Alot of things are wrong with poor people that's why am suffering to escape. Poverty is worst than HIV 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Caleb15(m): 1:20pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Marriage are not for kids |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by PECON1(m): 1:46pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins:ππ the mom doesn't need to tell u that for u to figure it out. Hw can u be comfortable and ur wife family will be suffering. This statement alone is enough for u to carry the whole family burden on ur head. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Gerrard59(m): 12:39am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Unless you are very rich, abort the mission. Also, check the extended family: how many are they? How close are they to this girl's family? Just like you, I hate being irresponsible for another person's irresponsibility. This is why I cannot date a woman who has 3+ siblings except they are above middle class. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Gerrard59(m): 12:44am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Emyzoloye5: Not in a typical Nigerian family setting. The wife's emotional state will be severely affected by her husband's refusal to assist. The man will be forced to assist whether he likes it or not. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Emyzoloye5(m): 7:09am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Gerrard59: I'm not saying the man shouldn't assist but not all the time. However, in such Situation, the man should just help the wife secure a good paying job or a business so she can help her family herself |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by folake4u(f): 7:18am On Nov 04, 2023 |
She is religious and I am sure she is still a virgin Lol. I'm sure this is your major reason or concern. Anyways, don't bite what you can't chew. If you know that rendering assistance is going to be a problem, it's better you back out now and leave the poor family alone. Nothing is more irritating than this "I picked you and your family out of the slums" line. Avoid situations that'd lead to despising your prospective in-laws. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Karlifate: 9:35am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Bankowner:And marrying the guy won't turn out to be a blessing to the girl. The girl's head is full of blessings, yet wallowing in poverty. π€£π€£
Gerrout with your yeye "love" As if women marry based on "love". 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Karlifate: 9:37am On Nov 04, 2023 |
PECON1: No be lie. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Karlifate: 9:39am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed: No mind dem. All waters should find their level. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Lostchild(m): 12:41pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Britishcoins: You will not take my advice until experience veil from eyes. 1. Put all those deeper life whatever crap religion they claim to practice, put them all aside. 2. Put affection all aside. Check the spiritual state of the two women. Choose the one that is kind soul among the two. The one among the two that is full of selfless love for humanity may be a sure bet of adding to your life. I say this because most unkind women has hardship in their spirit. I remember what happened to a friend of mine. I had to rescue his business. My Advice; Choose a woman that has genuine love for human beings. Final words; As long as you are marrying from a Nigeria family, be ready to fight their family (idols+altars) That is the truth. Hate it or love it. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Britishcoins(m): 12:56pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Lostchild:Wow, are you a spiritual man? How can I know the one that has good spirit.. Pls help |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Bankowner: 5:39am On Nov 06, 2023 |
I can understand why you reason the way you do. Love isn't really important when you're allowed to have more than one wife. Karlifate: |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by WarrenP: 6:36am On Nov 06, 2023 |
No let desperation lead you to wetin you go regret. Most poor people are always humble, just wait till them see wetin dem they find. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by SonofGod231: 7:00am On Nov 06, 2023 |
If you have a good career and you should be involved, It's no biggie. Treat them like your own parents. It's not accidental now,If you know you ain't comfortable just back out. I don't have much sympathy for people who constantly whinge about their parter's parents. You must have known what they were like before you married them?! Use your head as well as your heart. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Chingyyy878: 10:57am On Nov 06, 2023 |
A single prosperous young man Wants to settle with a liability, I pity you. That love and humility wey dey shack you go soon clear for your eyes. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Caleycash(m): 12:08pm On Feb 23 |
Hullcity:See talk!... lift them up as a saviour or what??, who lifted him up??, carry that your 419 blackmail of "you have a small mind" get out of here, manipulators everywhere. Mtcheww 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Caleycash(m): 12:09pm On Feb 23 |
Justkatty:Will be sensible to you because na manipulators una be! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Caleycash(m): 12:13pm On Feb 23 |
tasalanoni:See dem... ndi motivational speakers and 419, like if he falls anyone will stick around to rise him up again, we all know the reality! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Caleycash(m): 12:16pm On Feb 23 |
Bankowner:Leave that love matter... reality beats all these if and if, certainty is the ultimate, you want someone who struggle and made it in life to do things based on ifs and uncertainty??, alot of you live in fairy lands hahaha 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Justkatty(f): 12:27pm On Feb 23 |
Caleycash:Guy rest! |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Nyascobar1414: 12:39pm On Feb 23 |
Caleycash: Sadly,you saw the light.. You can now see vvomen for who they are and not for who society said(lied) they are 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Caleycash(m): 12:47pm On Feb 23 |
Nyascobar1414:I have known women from an early age... they are so selfish and covetous, 99.99 percent of them belive what they watch in movies to be practical in life, tells you how funny women are, they hate truth and reality with passion, I call them people living in fairyland hahaha |
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