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How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 7:47pm On Nov 08, 2023
Please advise:
Re: How Do I Handle This? by jackmrandy: 7:57pm On Nov 08, 2023
bingbagbo:
Please advise:

A new staff has joined my work environment. She is with a different company but same office complex.

I happened to be in her office a few days ago, she gazed at me for long. I interracted with someone else in her office. Later , a friend in her office told me she had asked about me the other time when I left her office. She was like: "is that the so so and so guy? Then you should have made me greet him,"

Today whiles entering the complex, I looked and she was looking at me but quickly turned her face.

Could she be interested in me?

How do I manage it so I don't hurt her or make her hate me?

Please advise me


For your information work and relationship in same company, same company premises don't mix. You will learn the hard way. A young lad now is in prison as I am talking to you. An alpha was dating a girl in same company, something something happened I don't want to go in details. Remain on friendship level. Date her if you changed company or she changed company.

Do well to study your company policies so that you will not come here and cry to us

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:00pm On Nov 08, 2023
jackmrandy:



For your information work and relationship in same company, same company premises don't mix. You will learn the hard way. A young lad now is in prison as I am talking to you. An alpha was dating a girl in same company, something something happened I don't want to go in details. Remain on friendship level. Date her if you changed company or she changed company.

Do well to study your company policies so that you will not come here and cry to us

I am not interested in her please
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:07pm On Nov 08, 2023
DestinedForGrea:

Then there's absolutely no need for all that epistle you wrote up there.

Read my last two lines
Re: How Do I Handle This? by illicit(m): 8:10pm On Nov 08, 2023
Take her our and tell her your mind politely
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:11pm On Nov 08, 2023
illicit:
Take her our and tell her your mind politely



I am not interested in her please

Read the post again
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:12pm On Nov 08, 2023
DestinedForGrea:

I already did. Still, there's no need for a fuss.

If you're not interested in her, then try as much as you can to prevent what she seems to be subtly initiating.

As long as you don't give her derogatory and mean feedbacks, then it's cool to not give her that attention she's seeking.

Ok
Re: How Do I Handle This? by illicit(m): 8:13pm On Nov 08, 2023
bingbagbo:


I am not interested in her please

Read the post again

Telling her your mind doesn't mean you are interested

Tell her how u feel
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:15pm On Nov 08, 2023
illicit:


Telling her your mind doesn't mean you are interested

Tell her how u feel

I don't anything for her
I just surmise she could be interested
If it's the case, how do I manage it so I don't hurt her
Re: How Do I Handle This? by HugeElephant(f): 8:16pm On Nov 08, 2023
Bro don't let your guard down. Avoid work place romance with that motherfuxker, don't let her win.

Don't even get her number. Because obviously she is scheming to get you...

If she comes at you treat every convo based on official level. Don't smile at any of her silly jokes. Don't entertain her, keep her at an arms length.
Re: How Do I Handle This? by illicit(m): 8:18pm On Nov 08, 2023
bingbagbo:


I don't anything for her
I just surmise she could be interested
If it's the case, how do I manage it so I don't hurt her

You don't seem to understand me

Take her out, tell her how u feel about the way u think she feels about you
Politely

Can you understand?
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:20pm On Nov 08, 2023
illicit:


You don't seem to understand me

Take her out, tell her how u feel about the way u think she feels about you
Politely

Can you understand?

Oh ok, won't that hurt her?
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:21pm On Nov 08, 2023
HugeElephant:
Bro don't let your guard down. Avoid work place romance with that motherfuxker.
Don't even get her number...
Because obviously she is scheming to get you...


Based on what do u think she is scheming to get me
Re: How Do I Handle This? by duduade: 8:21pm On Nov 08, 2023
Una get time to still dey shalaye to the OP

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by illicit(m): 8:24pm On Nov 08, 2023
bingbagbo:


Oh ok, won't that hurt her?
Depends on ur choice of words and presentation
Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 8:27pm On Nov 08, 2023
illicit:

Depends on ur choice of words and presentation

Ok
Re: How Do I Handle This? by mischief003: 9:18pm On Nov 08, 2023
Op nor lie we know say the attention dey sweet you grin

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by bingbagbo(m): 9:37pm On Nov 08, 2023
mischief003:
Op nor lie we know say the attention dey sweet you grin

Nope

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