ceejay80s:
■ Make una leave me abeg..... I just don't like supporting all women say

... and so it becomes ok for you to support men who violently assault and even verbally abuse women?

Kobojunkie:
... and so it becomes ok for you to support men who violently assault and even verbally abuse women?

Free meeeee

Why would you beat your wife?
Why?

Person wey no be your pikin neither is she your fellow man.

Nigerian police are very useless.

Case wey Dem for use shine.

Very useless.

That woman should leave and never look go.

Many women have gone to the great beyond.

ahnie:
Imagine enduring abusive marriage for eleven years ..this here is the reason why wives are recently commiting suicide.

Because they're ashamed to speak out,to being laughed out,so they felt the best thing is to nuke themselves.


Imagine the DPO shushing her up.

Any woman that killed herself the husband should be the first culprit
to be questioned n arrested.

But many of you ladies know and deliberately get yourselves involved with the wrong men for all the wrong reasons.

You turn down good men and follow jerks only to start complaining along the way.

SultanOfPuna:
Women sef

Una go balance well chop una man money

But to Chop ordinary beating, dey hard una

Dey play in 3D

Make Dangote flog your mama 10 times a day
Your mama go dey prostrate for am 24 hours

Na poor man, wey no get SHISHI
Na them women dey quick leave

When you see the way women defend their rich husbands that beat them daily
You go understand why Devil was able to convince Eve to chop apple.

Hmm
End of quote

ceejay80s:
■ Free meeeee

You came here inciting men to violence against women, and when questioned on the reasoning behind your stance, you demand you be freed?

BlackhatMentor:
He'll still beat her again.


I seriously wonder what motivates men to beat their wives... Maybe because I'm yet to get married sha.

I heard after a while marriage either brings out the beast in you or the Angel in you.


You'll either learn how to be extremely forgiving or be extremely aggressive or unforgiving

Just pray you don't jam bad wife.You might be tempted to beat

ud4u:
Woman should not tolerate men that beats them up, life has no duplicate

But they should automatically always be submissive to their husbands abi?
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Probably she wasn't showing that submission. Hence the man resorted to beating her.
In any case, even if she forgives him and the man also constrains himself,.... again she will display no submission and the man will beat again.
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So it's not only the man at fault.
Both of them are at fault with each other.
The man should leave her, because she is just going to tempt him again and again and again.

Lastmankc:
Just pray you don't jam bad wife.You might be tempted to beat

That's the main thing.
Men expect their wife to be submissive. Once she is not, the man is tempted to beat.
Some will beat, others will not.
But in any case, the man will be sad for his actions.
The woman that was displaying strong head, will display it again!! And tempt the man Again.
So It's better the man just leave her. She will not change and he too will not change.

Jman06:
But many of you ladies know and deliberately get yourselves involved with the wrong men for all the wrong reasons.

You turn down good men and follow jerks only to start complaining along the way.

They may not know, but they definitely will be displaying strong head.
Of what use is it to a "perfect" good guy, if the lady is displaying strong head for him daily?
His life will be miserable.
Fine, he won't beat her. But the marriage will sha still end in divorce.

When you see a man beg his wife not to leave him in situation like this then he is guilty but when you see a man end a marriage by himself then the woman is really toxic. No man leaves a peaceful woman.

Kobojunkie:
... and so it becomes ok for you to support men who violently assault and even verbally abuse women?

The man is doing that because he's reacting to something.
Even if the man was a pure angel, the same woman would display same behaviour that gets the guy upset.
And finally, he will divorce her (instead of beating).
Beating is bad. But beating will still not change the woman's behaviour.
So he should just divorce her fast and save himself from social media embarrassment.

uuzba:

They may not know, but they definitely will be displaying strong head.
Of what use is it to a "perfect" good guy, if the lady is displaying strong head for him daily?
His life will be miserable.
Fine, he won't beat her. But the marriage will sha still end in divorce.

So they should endure the beating from their "ideal men" and stop disturbing us

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but he's going to kill her eventually. Then leave behind traumatized children with a father behind bars. You can't look after your kids when you're dead. Go and watch Marriage Virus on YouTube.

Jman06:
So they should endure the beating from their "ideal men" and stop disturbing us

It's a very sad situation for a man to feel the need to beat the woman.
And it is a very sad situation for a woman to have a kind of behaviour that automatically triggers beating from a man.
Both people should separate from each other. Because they will continue to trigger each other.

ceejay80s:
Don't only blame the husband ,
I know some of u will say *what ever they might have done u still don't touch her*
Women are very manipulative, the 9nly way they toture Igbo men is leaving the house or leaving with the children,
I trust yoruba men, Dem no send, Dem go find another woman put for house the next day,
U know what ur husband likes and dislikes, don't do silly things he doesn't like and expect him not to talk and when he does, u provoke him more, before 70,% of man will touch beat or fight their wives, the woman would have done something that deserves the beating, when these women start sleeping out with other men, they start seeing their husbands as rubbish and start looking for excuse or fight, then claim victim...
Oya nairaland come bash me

Said like a proper wife beater. I will give you the attention you so badly crave. Is provocation an excuse to hit someone? Or to constantly beat a person for 11 years? Yet, you've quoted fake stats from your sawdust brain to back up your stupid claims. You clearly think you've made sense when every sentence lacks simple logic. Perhaps your father should have beat your mother into a miscarriage or to death instead of having you as a child, and an anomaly to this world. You think your misogynistic views make sense? People like you get in trouble from the day they step foot on foreign soil. You should go see a psychiatrist because you're clearly sick in the head. And while you're at it, fix your grammar too. You sound like an illiterate.

If that foolish woman knows what's good for her,she better leave immediately.

In fact,why didn't she leave before he came back?
It's very simple,take your children to the NGO,and be free forever from the evil man.
But she has decided to remain stupid.

uuzba:

The man is doing that because he's reacting to something.
Even if the man was a pure angel, the same woman would display same behaviour that gets the guy upset.
And finally, he will divorce her (instead of beating).
Beating is bad. But beating will still not change the woman's behaviour.
So he should just divorce her fast and save himself from social media embarrassment.

Said like a proper wife beater. Is provocation an excuse to hit someone? You've concluded the man might be a saint and it's the woman's behavior that warranted the beating? Are you normal? Did you take your meds today? Because you sound psychotic. You think your misogynistic views make sense? You should go see a psychiatrist because you're clearly sick in the head. A disgrace to real men. I only pity the woman who ends up with you.

Exceed15:
When you see a man beg his wife not to leave him in situation like this then he is guilty but when you see a man end a marriage by himself then the woman is really toxic. No man leaves a peaceful woman.

The man is guilty of losing his temper and beating the woman.
But the woman is very guilty of raising the man's temper in the first place.
He should either separate or divorce the woman so he doesn't get tempted to lose his temper again.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjQnha99sTY&pp=ygUTYmlsbCBidXJyIG5vIHJlYXNvbg%3D%3D

ProtonX:


Said like a proper wife beater. Is provocation an excuse to hit someone? You've concluded the man might be a saint and it's the woman's behavior that warranted the beating? Are you normal? Did you take your meds today? Because you sound psychotic. You think your misogynistic views make sense? You should go see a psychiatrist because you're clearly sick in the head. A disgrace to real men. I only pity the woman who ends up with you.

You misread my post and have resulted in insults.
1. This man beat his wife for whatever reason. It is bad for her and for him.
2. The woman irritated the man.
3. This man should not get back together with this woman again. because she will irritate him over and over again.
1a - If the man was a saint, the woman would still do whatever she did to irritate the man. Because that is her behaviour.
2a - The saint man will not beat her. But the woman will still be doing that irritating thing, whatever it is.
In both cases, good man or bad man, he should still separate from the woman for his own sanity sake.
-That is what I said.
So where is the insult coming from?

uuzba:
■ The man is doing that because he's reacting to something.
■Even if the man was a pure angel, the same woman would display same behaviour that gets the guy upset.
■ And finally, he will divorce her (instead of beating). Beating is bad. But beating will still not change the woman's behaviour. So he should just divorce her fast and save himself from social media embarrassment.

So, if I react by shooting you dead for this statement, it is reasonable to state it is a reaction to what you said?

2. So, in essence, the man beating her is a reasonable reaction to whatever it is the woman did?

3. Divorce should come after beating her and not before?

Doxy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oNjcqDR7_8?si=NAVhrF-6TVN1WeuP

A husband who beat up his wife has apologised to her as she insists on leaving him.

The wife, a mother-of-five, cried out that she has been suffering abuse for the 11 years she has been married to her husband. She then called for help from Nigerians.

However, speaking following the incident, the battered wife said she was intimidated by the DPO.

She claimed the DPO silenced her and told her she must go and live with her husband

suffering abuse with a man who you gave birth to 5kids, nah true, anyways I understand some women enjoy beating by their husbands as it's opportunity to buy them gifts, nonsense!!

Kobojunkie:
So, if I react by shooting you dead for this statement, it is reasonable to state it is a reaction to what you said?

2. So, in essence, the man beating her is a reasonable reaction to whatever it is the woman did?

3. Divorce should come after beating her and not before?

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Divorce should come before any beating.
He should not beat her at all.
Now he has beat her already, there is also no point begging her to come back. The marriage is already over.
For the case that the woman can get the man SO MAD that he either considers or totally commits to beating the woman, the marriage is already ended. (He's the one who toasted her before they married. And she definitely wasn't' irritating him that time)
He should have just separated/divorced.
He too was doing himself thinking, "I can bear it, I can bear it" until he finally lost his temper and beat her.
He cannot bear it (whatever the woman did to upset him). And should have sent her away instead of deceiving himself and getting his face plastered all over social media.

Doxy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oNjcqDR7_8?si=NAVhrF-6TVN1WeuP

A husband who beat up his wife has apologised to her as she insists on leaving him.

The wife, a mother-of-five, cried out that she has been suffering abuse for the 11 years she has been married to her husband. She then called for help from Nigerians.

However, speaking following the incident, the battered wife said she was intimidated by the DPO.

She claimed the DPO silenced her and told her she must go and live with her husband

Help me tell him, she will do whatever made him to beat her over and over again. He is finished!

uuzba:
■ Divorce should come before any beating. He should not beat her at all.
■ Now he has beat her already, there is also no point begging her to come back. The marriage is already over. For the case that the woman can get the man SO MAD that he either considers or totally commits to beating the woman, the marriage is already ended. He should have just separated/divorced. He too was doing himself thinking, "I can bear it, I can bear it" until he finally lost his temper and beat her. He cannot bear it (whatever the woman did to upset him). And should have sent her away instead of deceiving himself and getting his face plastered all over social media.

OK

2. At least we are on the same page that this man deserves to be in jail for laying hands on the woman, no matter the foolish reason he gave himself.

one4GOD:
suffering abuse with a man who you gave birth to 5kids, nah true, anyways I understand some women enjoy beating by their husbands as it's opportunity to buy them gifts, nonsense!!

They are both deceiving themselves.
They will both not change.
He will keep getting angry
She will keep irritating him to get angry.
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Before they married, he must have toasted her. She wasn't irritating him that time.
But a certain day came and she started doing something, whatever it was.
He should have called it quits right there and then. Instead of dragging on and on, losing his temper and eventually beating the woman.

Kobojunkie:
OK

2. At least we are on the same page that this man deserves to be in jail for laying hands on the woman, no matter the foolish reason he gave himself.

I didn't say he deserve's jail.
He surely deserves divorce/separation from the woman.
That one is clear.
As for jail, Let the woman make that opinion and decision.
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Angry men are not angry for NO reason. The woman did something which she and the public always like to hide/ignore as if it never happened.
She knows what she did.
That's why I said, let the opinion and decision of jail/arrest be left to the woman herself to make.

He will likely beat her again.