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Don't Marry An Unbeliever by AdetoyeAyomikun: 1:47pm On Nov 10, 2023
Days ago, I was reading through the Book of Matthew, chapters 1, 2, and 3.

This caught my attention: the Bible made a good remark about Joseph, stating that he is a just man. Who is a just man? The dictionary will tell us that a just man is someone who believes in what is morally right.

So, Joseph discovered that Mary is pregnant, and now he is sure that I am not the one who impregnated you, so I am not interested in this relationship. But the Bible reminds us of something very quick,

"He did not want to expose her to public disgrace; he had in mind to divorce her quietly." (NIV)

Kai! Whereas if it were that brother you are in a relationship with, he would have quickly run to his WhatsApp status or IG status and type,

"The person who said, 'Until the marriage night is pregnant oo,' and she thinks I'll accept it, someone I've never even touched. Thank God I didn't touch her; she will use that one to lie on my head 🙏 #Godthankyou"

Joseph was not even like that. Not that Instagram or WhatsApp was available in his time 😂, but you get the gist 😁.

What he even did is possible for an unbeliever to do this; it's so much possible, but let's continue. The Bible said,

Matt. 1.20 - "But while he thought on these things, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared unto him in a dream, saying, 'Joseph, thou son of David, fear not to take unto thee Mary thy wife: for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Ghost.'"

See, it takes a believer to follow this. He was thinking about it, and the angel of God appeared, telling him not to worry because the Holy Ghost is responsible for the pregnancy. Haaa, it takes a true believer to obey this. Something like this never happened before time began, even in our days, where we have seen a template in the Bible to believe this is going to be great grace.

But this man believed. See, whether he believed or not, God will do what He will do. But let me tell you how it would have affected Mary.

It's possible she loved Brother Joseph, but now that he is going, she will be unhappy. And if she is a strong person, she will say, "Things we do for the kingdom" (if she was in our days) or #sacrifice. Now she would have suffered unnecessarily because she was intending to marry a man that was not in line with the will of God and God took him away she will.

Dear Jesus, fine girl, there are many things you will suffer because you want to achieve the will of God and want to achieve this with a man who is an unbeliever. You may see this as a sacrifice or whatever; meanwhile, in the face of God, you created that suffering for yourself. Can you imagine how much Mary would have suffered if Joseph was not on her side? Truly, she will deliver Jesus, but she will go through a lot.

When God wants to perform something great in your life, He makes sure He shakes off what is not of Him from your life. He won't shake off what can be used to make your life easy ✌️.

Fine Jesus girl, there are some things you will pass through which are not necessary because you went ahead to marry someone that is not aligned with your beliefs, someone who is not a Christian (a believer).

Now, the question someone will ask is, even those that married pastors and Christians themselves are going through a lot. Some unbelievers are better than themself.

Until you understand that a pastor is a title and is no longer a lifestyle, you will be at peace. As a believer, we grow; growth is allowed to happen in what we believe. But as long as you are in the hands of a true believer, you are good to go.

BONUS TIP: ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU GET YOURSELF INVOLVED IN WON'T LEAVE YOU NEUTRAL. IT'S EITHER IT SHIPS POSITIVITY OR NEGATIVITY INTO YOUR LIFE. BEWARE OF THIS, DEAR FINE JESUS GIRL.

Adetoye Ayomikun ✌️

Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 2:05pm On Nov 10, 2023
It takes a "believer" truly.....

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by kkins25(m): 2:09pm On Nov 10, 2023
I wonder which category of Men demonize women the most. grin grin grin

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by paxonel(m): 7:37pm On Nov 10, 2023
what a religious discriminative unrealistic advice.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by LordReed(m): 9:07pm On Nov 10, 2023
Just the idea that only believers in a certain god can be good in just so funny when the evidence shows it's not true.

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Dtruthspeaker: 1:24am On Nov 11, 2023
LordReed:
Just the idea that only believers in a certain god can be good in just so funny when the evidence shows it's not true.

The evidence shows it is True.

That is the beauty and power of marriage for it is here that birds of the same beliefs bind together.

Exactly like your wife is an atheist for her to stay married to you. That's how it works.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Dtruthspeaker: 1:35am On Nov 11, 2023
kkins25:
I wonder which category of Men demonize women the most. grin grin grin

All of them in the demon possesed category.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 2:51am On Nov 11, 2023
LordReed:
Just the idea that only believers in a certain god can be good in just so funny when the evidence shows it's not true.

Are you good? No.
What does it mean to be good? You don't know.
Jokers.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:11am On Nov 11, 2023
The problem here is complicated because to be candid a so called Christian supposed to be an unbeliever from the viewpoint of a Traditionalist since he or she doesn't believe in the God the Traditionalist worship but the funny thing is that the word (UNBELIEVER) has been in use among churchgoers and Muslims only so it's only the Traditionalist that's counted as unbeliever.
When contemplating marriage each religionist should marry only among his or her own fellow believers that's what can guarantee some level of understanding.
Sex is another thing on its own when a person is sexually attracted to another they claim it's love but by the time sexual attraction is no more trouble starts which only could be solved by the force driving their thoughts: FAITH

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 6:55am On Nov 11, 2023
Image123:


Are you good? No.
What does it mean to be good? You don't know.
Jokers.
But you also don't know what it means to be "good".
You are only following orders you read in a book, you can't think for yourself to know what it is.

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 7:45am On Nov 11, 2023
Maynman:

But you also don't know what it means to be "good".
You are only following orders you read in a book, you can't think for yourself to know what it is.

Here comes reed's mentee yet again to waste valuable time and space.
When a Christian talks about good or right or righteous, it is with a reference point to God. The definition is clear for all to see and access. It is not a continued revision per year and influencer as you and your cohorts confuse yourselves about.
It's not my problem or fault that you have a phobia for books and authority, hypocrite.

Expecting your usual crazy out of point reply.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 7:50am On Nov 11, 2023
Image123:


The definition is clear for all to see and access.
Yahweh slave, if the definition is clear for all to see then isn't it stupid when you said "What does it mean to be good?"

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by LordReed(m): 7:59am On Nov 11, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


The evidence shows it is True.

That is the beauty and power of marriage for it is here that birds of the same beliefs bind together.

Exactly like your wife is an atheist for her to stay married to you. That's how it works.


Even your bible says you are utterly wrong.

1Cor7
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

Oya argue with your bible. Bwahahahahaha!
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 9:10am On Nov 11, 2023
Maynman:

Yahweh slave, if the definition is clear for all to see then isn't it stupid when you said "What does it mean to be good?"

Learn to read.
When a Christian talks about good or right or righteous, it is with a reference point to God. The definition is clear for all to see and access. It is not a continued revision per year and influencer as you and your cohorts confuse yourselves about.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 10:59am On Nov 11, 2023
Image123:


Learn to read.
When a Christian talks about good or right or righteous, it is with a reference point to God. The definition is clear for all to see and access. It is not a continued revision per year and influencer as you and your cohorts confuse yourselves about.
Learn to comprehend, "good, right or righteous" already has his own definition before Christianity was created.
And is reed a Christian? So what's your concern asking "What does it mean to be good"?

You just regurgitating what your slave masters Taught you, slave.
Without Christianity you'll be a murderer, only Christianity is stopping you from it.

Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 11:14am On Nov 11, 2023
Maynman:

Learn to comprehend, "good, right or righteous" already has his own definition before Christianity was created.
And is reed a Christian? So what's your concern asking "What does it mean to be good"?

You just regurgitating what your slave masters Taught you, slave.
Without Christianity you'll be a murderer, only Christianity is stopping you from it.

When a Christian talks about good or right or righteous, it is with a reference point to God. The definition is clear for all to see and access. It is not a continued revision per year and influencer as you and your cohorts confuse yourselves about.

Read until you may understand. Your boss was talking to a professing christian(the OP) about good.
i have reminded you both that christians pick their definition of 'good' from the Word, unlike his continued revision per year and influencer. So again, what is his and by right your current definition of 'good'? Are you good?
wink
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 11:20am On Nov 11, 2023
Image123:


When a Christian talks about good or right or righteous, it is with a reference point to God. The definition is clear for all to see and access. It is not a continued revision per year and influencer as you and your cohorts confuse yourselves about.

Read until you may understand. Your boss was talking to a professing christian(the OP) about good.
i have reminded you both that christians pick their definition of 'good' from the Word, unlike his continued revision per year and influencer. So again, what is his and by right your current definition of 'good'? Are you good?
wink
Learn to comprehend, "good, right or righteous" already has his own definition before Christianity was created.
And is reed a Christian? So what's your concern asking "What does it mean to be good"?

You just regurgitating what your slave masters Taught you without thinking, slave.
Without Christianity you'll be a murderer, only Christianity is stopping you from it.


Is your chain tight enough or they should add more to it, slave? cheesy

Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Dtruthspeaker: 4:52pm On Nov 11, 2023
LordReed:


Even your bible says you are utterly wrong.

1Cor7
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

Oya argue with your bible. Bwahahahahaha!

So that's why you stay married to your wife and go to church. Think you can deceive God and escape punishment? You haven't heard that though hand in hand, the wicked can never go unpunished?

And that is what shows that the Corinthians you are hoping for and using is going in another direction that does not involve you and your evilness.

And for your wife to still be married to you proves that she is an atheist and not a follower of God, so you are talking rubbish. Hehehehe
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 5:16pm On Nov 11, 2023
Maynman:

Learn to comprehend, "good, right or righteous" already has his own definition before Christianity was created.
And is reed a Christian? So what's your concern asking "What does it mean to be good"?

You just regurgitating what your slave masters Taught you without thinking, slave.
Without Christianity you'll be a murderer, only Christianity is stopping you from it.


Is your chain tight enough or they should add more to it, slave? cheesy

Lolz, this ignorant fellow thinks calling me names online on a faceless forum is anything. Clown. i have faced and i face more important things as a christian, grow up if you can, or seek priceless advice from your mentor. i shut him up, who are you?
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by LordReed(m): 5:16pm On Nov 11, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


So that's why you stay married to your wife and go to church. Think you can deceive God and escape punishment? You haven't heard that though hand in hand, the wicked can never go unpunished.

And that is what shows that the Corinthians you are hoping for and using is going in another direction that does not involve you and your evilness.

And for your wife to still be married to you proves that she is an atheist and not a follower of God, so you are talking rubbish. Hehehehe

Glad you agree your Bible is talking rubbish. Bwahahahahahahahaha!
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Dtruthspeaker: 5:25pm On Nov 11, 2023
LordReed:


Glad you agree your Bible is talking rubbish. Bwahahahahahahahaha!

Glad everyone can see that I said you are talking rubbish and that you could not counter my response so you tried twisting it being the evil that you are in proof that both you and your wife are devils that is if ofcourse we accept that you are married knowing how much of a liar and twisting snake you are. hehehehe
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 5:45pm On Nov 11, 2023
Image123:


Lolz, this ignorant fellow thinks calling me names online on a faceless forum is anything. Clown. i have faced and i face more important things as a christian, grow up if you can, or seek priceless advice from your mentor. i shut him up, who are you?
See this slave, as if you also didn't call me names?
Why are you complaining?

If not for Christianity, you will be a murderer wow 😂
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by LordReed(m): 6:06pm On Nov 11, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


Glad everyone can see that I said you are talking rubbish and that you could not counter my response so you tried twisting it being the evil that you are in proof that both you and your wife are devils that is if ofcourse we accept that you are married knowing how much of a liar and twisting snake you are. hehehehe

LoLz! I already said you will argue with your Bible so there is nothing to counter. Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!

BTW I didn't say anything, I quoted your Bible so yeah you are calling your Bible that I quoted rubbish. Bwahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 8:15pm On Nov 11, 2023
Maynman:

See this slave, as if you also didn't call me names?
Why are you complaining?

If not for Christianity, you will be a murderer wow 😂

Your names are truly yours and they seem to be a good fit. Your drab name calling is drab.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Dtruthspeaker: 9:06pm On Nov 11, 2023
LordReed:


LoLz! I already said you will argue with your Bible so there is nothing to counter. Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!

BTW I didn't say anything, I quoted your Bible so yeah you are calling your Bible that I quoted rubbish. Bwahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

And we all see that you said so as you knew you were talking rubbish but its normal for you to say rubbish especially when you cannot argue and you already know that your twisty twisty will not work. Hahahahahaha.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by LordReed(m): 9:44pm On Nov 11, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


And we all see that you said so as you knew you were talking rubbish but its normal for you to say rubbish especially when you cannot argue and you already know that your twisty twisty will not work. Hahahahahaha.

Lemme quote the rubbish for you again.

1Cor7
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

Oya, continue calling your Bible rubbish. Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Maynman: 1:17am On Nov 12, 2023
Image123:


Your names are truly yours and they seem to be a good fit. Your drab name calling is drab.
Your chains are truly yours and they fit you perfectly, you love Basking in slavery which is what are you enjoy especially Jewish ones.

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Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Divinerace(m): 2:11am On Nov 12, 2023
John 14:15. If ye love, me keep my commandments.





People of God, follow God's command!

Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Dtruthspeaker: 5:47am On Nov 12, 2023
LordReed:


Lemme quote the rubbish for you again.....!

See desperation! Hahahahahaha.

No Road!
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by Image123(m): 5:57am On Nov 12, 2023
Maynman:

Your chains are truly yours and they fit you perfectly, you love Basking in slavery which is what are you enjoy especially Jewish ones.

i love my Master, i will not go out free. Let this saying sink in.
Re: Don't Marry An Unbeliever by LordReed(m): 6:08am On Nov 12, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


See desperation! Hahahahahaha.

No Road!


Oya call it rubbish again na. Bwahahahahaha!

1Cor7
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

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