All my life I have dated only one unicorn, I call her a unicorn because she exuded characteristics that aren't typical of our dearly beloved Nigerian girls, first, I never asked her out, I was a teenager in secondary school and her mum was my mum's best friend so we were friends, dating just happened, and we were together till I was 19, her mom died and she moved away, this girl is hardworking, brilliant, emotionally intelligent, clean, and has high intellect, I don't talk much but with her I come out of my shell, we have engaging conversations that you won't believe she's a Nigerian girl, even though we couldn't make the distance thing work we're still friends, I'm not insulting anyone btw, lastly she doesn't bill me, and when she get me things she doesn't consider if I have given her something earlier, I mean what kind of Nigerian girl would even ask you out to start with? Talkmore of the rest.

now men in Nigeria are brought up with standards that are entirely different from women, you're supposed to grow up with virtue and wait for a man to marry you? But it is totally different from a guy's upbringing, take me for example, I was compared to my mates since I was old enough to want something or have ambition, I was taught to stop being a weakling and be a man, and when I reached a certain age my parents started expecting me to take care of the family or make meaningful contributions, I was so uncomfortable and I moved out, and it didn't stop there, my mom started expecting me to look for someone and settle down, although it isn't as brazen as the other pressures I get from my parents, and this is all because I am a man born of an ambitious and tough father who never smiles because he doesn't do all this with my sisters, and I have tried to know why he's so tough with me and my only explanation is that's how he was raised, so they pass that tough upbringing to their male children and their male children pass it to their children and the circle never ends, imagine working your ass off everyday with stress and everything to fend for an entitled wife and your children and someone expect you to still manage to be smiling and being obsessed with a wife who doesn't do anything to aid your predicament.

I don't have room for emotional attachment because I don't have it good as my sisters who were pampered all their life, for instance when I was schooling my dad expected me to survive with the peanuts he gave me every once in a while and when I complained he will ask me to hustle and stop waiting for him for everything, when I needed to rent a self contain he forced me to get a roommate so we can split bills, I thought that's just how he is until my sisters got into the university and I started seeing the same father sending them money upon money and renting secure and high quality apartments for them, when I graduated he expected me to get a job and move out, point is, my life was hard from the beginning simply because I was a guy.

I hardly see my dad smile, although my mum is the opposite which is why I confide in her most times and through her I learnt how to be caring and respectful towards ladies, but I don't have the time or willpower to be as mushy as a typical Nigerian girl would want, and considering what I went through I'd expect a supportive and hardworking wife to ease the hard life I had, Nigerian girls can't offer me that, because all they do is wait for a man to go and work his arse off then come and marry them, and when you marry them they become another financial burden, she will add her family join and they'll suck you like leeches, she and her family will pull you from the left and your family will pull you from the right until they tear you apart, that's why they get fat and you the head of the house will remain slim, they'll blame childbirth for gaining weight like wtf?

why I go carry my hand buy burden for myself, I'd rather marry from a society where women don't feel entitled and that's not Nigeria, no offense but yes Nigerian women are very entitled despite the fact that they have nothing to offer than birth children and make you pay bills till you die.

There are Jews and there are Gentiles in every multitude.

Not all Nigerian girls are bad and not all Nigerian men are good. Every country in the world has good people and bad people. Stop sounding as if some countries have only angels and saints as citizens. Stop sounding as if all Nigerian girls are bad.

If you want to marry from outside Nigeria, it is your choice. But don't give a silly excuse for it. To prove to you that what you said here is very silly, your post implies that all your sisters are bad because they are Nigerian girls. Your post also implies that your unborn daughters will be very bad because they will be Nigerian girls since their future father is a Nigerian.

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The only reason why Nigerian women are still being married is because an average Nigerian man has no means of japa.

Once a Naija man goes outside this nation he will never look at Naija girls again.

Naija girls are the lowest in every good quality worlwide

immortalcrown:
There are Jews and there are Gentiles in every multitude.

Not all Nigerian girls are bad and not all Nigerian men are good. Every country in the world has good people and bad people. Stop sounding as if some countries have only angels and saints as citizens. Stop sounding as if all Nigerian girls are bad.

If you want to marry from outside Nigeria, it is your choice. But don't give a silly excuse for it. To prove to you that what you said here is very silly, your post implies that all your sisters are bad because they are Nigerian girls. Your post also implies that your unborn daughters will be very bad because they will be Nigerian girls since their future father is a Nigerian.

Idiot. Your are shameless. Is the state of Naija girls ok to you?

Tell your women the honest truth. They need to buckle up

immortalcrown:
There are Jews and there are Gentiles in every multitude.

Not all Nigerian girls are bad and not all Nigerian men are good. Every country in the world has good people and bad people. Stop sounding as if some countries have only angels and saints as citizens. Stop sounding as if all Nigerian girls are bad.

If you want to marry from outside Nigeria, it is your choice. But don't give a silly excuse for it. To prove to you that what you said here is very silly, your post implies that all your sisters are bad because they are Nigerian girls. Your post also implies that your unborn daughters will be very bad because they will be Nigerian girls since their future father is a Nigerian.

My daughters can't be bad because their mom won't be a Nigerian girl to imbibe Nigerian mentality in them, stfu beetch.

L1TTLE:
My daughters can't be bad because their mom won't be a Nigerian girl to imbibe Nigerian mentality in them, stfu beetch.

Meaning that your sisters are all bad because your parents are Nigerians?

immortalcrown:
Meaning that your sisters are all bad because your parents are Nigerians?

It's extremely possible, they believe husbands should take care of everything too, do your sisters split bills with their husband or take care of the house for their husband? Lie make amadioha strike you right now.

elipheleh:


Idiot. Your are shameless. Is the state of Naija girls ok to you?

Tell your women the honest truth. They need to buckle up

You calling me "Idiot" in this logical conversation shows you are not better than the girls you term bad. A bad boy looking for a good girl.

immortalcrown:
You calling me "Idiot" in this logical conversation shows you are not better than the girls you term bad. A bad boy looking for a good girl.

All this your pussee arse predisposition won't make them like you either, they hate weak men, no one will give you free pussee too, if that's why you're being a simp please quit it.

L1TTLE:
It's extremely possible, they believe husbands should take care of everything too, do your sisters split bills with their husband or take care of the house for their husband? Lie make amadioha strike you right now.

My married sisters assit their husbands in funding their homes. My single sisters are raised with the same way as the married ones. If you lack good sisters, weep but don't think other families are like yours.

L1TTLE:
All this your pussee arse predisposition won't make them like you either, they hate weak men, no one will give you free pussee too, if that's why you're being a simp please quit it.

Only a bad man like you will think that whoever disagrees with you does so for ladies' attention.

immortalcrown:
Only a bad man like you will think that whoever disagrees with you does so for ladies' attention.

Yes I'm bad, you wey be good man shey your life sweet like otedola own, wuss.

immortalcrown:
You calling me "Idiot" in this logical conversation shows you are not better than the girls you term bad. A bad boy looking for a good girl.

This is not a bad or good boy/girl issue.

Teach your girl child the benefits of hard work. Let them work with their hands and get the benefits.

Let them be useful to themselves and others.

A nation where half of the population (females) are unproductive and lazy, what becomes the hope of such a nation?

People like you dont care about the good of others. You are an idiot really

immortalcrown:
My married sisters assit their husbands in funding their homes. My single sisters are raised with the same way as the married ones. If you lack good sisters, weep but don't think other families are like yours.

lmao, yea keep telling yourself that too, my married sisters do the same.

L1TTLE:
Yes I'm bad, you wey be good man shey your life sweet like otedola own, wuss.

You are obviously insane. You are gradually moving away from your own topic.

If you not insane, mention any country in which all the girls are good.

L1TTLE:
lmao, yea keep telling yourself that too, my married sisters do the same.

This your claim proves you wrong in your post.

elipheleh:


This is not a bad or good boy/girl issue.

Teach your girl child the benefits of hard work. Let them work with their hands and get the benefits.

Let them be useful to themselves and others.

A nation where half of the population (females) are unproductive and lazy, what becomes the hope of such a nation?

People like you dont care about the good of others. You are an idiot really

Aren't there industrious Nigerian girls who legitimately make good money and not depend on men? Answer this question.

immortalcrown:
You are obviously insane. You are gradually moving away from your own topic.

If you not insane, mention any country in which all the girls are good.

In Nigeria all the girls have the same mentality, all the new generation girls are not like our mothers, you're the ediot diverting, like I said your potato wussie behavior won't make them fall in love with you, they don't like weak men.

immortalcrown:
This your claim proves you wrong in your post.

You're being unrealistic naw, I'm following your lead.

L1TTLE:
You're being unrealistic naw, I'm following your lead.

I said my married sisters support their husbands financially and the unmarried ones are raised with the same mindset. You said your sisters are not different. But you, in your post, claim no Nigerian girl supports her man financially. So, aren't your sisters Nigerians?

immortalcrown:
I said my married sisters support their husbands financially and the unmarried ones are raised with the same mindset. You said your sisters are not different. But you, in your post, claim no Nigerian girl supports her man financially. So, aren't your sisters Nigerians?

Because you're lying, you're not there with them so you're either spewing thrash to appear good or being lied to, I'm also doing whatever you're doing.

immortalcrown:
Aren't there industrious Nigerian girls who legitimately make good money and not depend on men? Answer this question.

1 in a thousand is not good enough. Loud this message until at least 50% of them become productive. Then that's a pass mark.

Other nations, it is very normal to see women working. It is expected of them as human adults.

Not here in Naija where it looks like a miracle to see a working woman

immortalcrown:
This your claim proves you wrong in your post.

No it proves me right you're twisting everything to look good, it ain't working.

elipheleh:


1 in a thousand is not good enough. Loud this message until at least 50% of them become productive. Then that's a pass mark.

Other nations, it is very normal to see women working. It is expected of them as human adults.

Not here in Naija where it looks like a miracle to see a working woman

I've realized this witless man has no thinking faculty, save your breadth abeg.

L1TTLE:
In Nigeria all the girls have the same mentality, all the new generation girls are not like our mothers, you're the ediot diverting, like I said your potato wussie behavior won't make them fall in love with you, they don't like weak men.

Maybe this is true in the places you have been to. But it is a fat lie in my own part of the same Nigeria. The only thing about my own surrounding is that some girls are good and others are bad just as some boys in my surrounding are good and others are bad.

L1TTLE:
No it proves me right you're twisting everything to look good, it ain't working.

You are probably drunk for denying what is glaring at your face.

elipheleh:


1 in a thousand is not good enough. Loud this message until at least 50% of them become productive. Then that's a pass mark.

Other nations, it is very normal to see women working. It is expected of them as human adults.

Not here in Naija where it looks like a miracle to see a working woman

In those other nations, there are also less jobless boys, unlike in Nigeria. So, you are myopic in your post.

immortalcrown:
Maybe this is true in the places you have been to. But it is a fat lie in my own part of the same Nigeria. The only thing about my own surrounding is that some girls are good and others are bad just as some boys in my surrounding are good and others are bad.

you exhaust me seriously, I haven't been this overwhelmed since I was born.

L1TTLE:
you exhaust me seriously, I haven't been this overwhelmed since I was born.

Don't be exhausted. Ride on in your inductive reasoning while I expose your myopia.

immortalcrown:
Don't be exhausted. Ride on in your inductive reasoning while I expose your myopia.

Lol you're exhausting, I'm not exhausted, you're exhausting, there's a difference, you no even go school, why I dey even waste my time.