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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by SmartODINO: 5:15am On Nov 12, 2023
Music
N
Gym
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Starboytwo(m): 8:10am On Nov 12, 2023
Playing football (not watching)

Music

Canadian loud(very early around 5-6 am)

Reading.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by kmaster007: 8:42am On Nov 12, 2023
Japa another one
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:53am On Nov 12, 2023
Making money

I only participate in the last of those listed btw.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by DaTruths: 11:10am On Nov 12, 2023
Game, Cod mobile in cool evening, FIFA, Red Dead redemption 2, or Just GTA 5 to drive around and calm my nerves.

Swimming in a Hot afternoon.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Ay04z(m): 11:13am On Nov 12, 2023
thesicilian:
For me there's nothing more pleasurable than a quiet evening alone
u will get bored on the long run
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Ay04z(m): 11:16am On Nov 12, 2023
Make. Client Sha dey. Enter my office... Make I dey cash out reasonable money..... No. Pleasure beat dat to. Me....
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 11:18am On Nov 12, 2023
Thanks for your submission, I still believe Ka Valungu is the best Amapiano sound Ive listend to. I dont know what hes saying, but certainly the best sound from SA. You can make music your hobby too, it helps cleans the soul. Ive got a sound bar, head set, ear piece just because of my love for music. I cant sing at all, Ive got a very horrible voice, but I get immersed in the musical spirit.

Samantha124:
No, thank you.

Nigerian amapiano is different from SA amapiano and most of the time I still prefer local sound or the one from Botswana, because their sound is similar to ours.

Maybe if you were talking about afrobeat, because even though I don't usually listen to it, but every now and then when I'm bored I'd go to YouTube and play some Nigerian afrobeat.

Your amapiano is for you guys there in West Africa and maybe the world, I don't know... It has got a fusion of afrobeat in it, while our amapiano derived from kwaito... For me it's about the originality of the sound, the culture, and the message it conveys rather than who's nominated for a Grammy.

And in my opinion, amapiano is not complete without SA vernaculars.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 11:28am On Nov 12, 2023
I love that song too, especially when it's playing in a car or big speakers.

The person is singing in the Tsonga language, I can translate it for you, if you want.
Error401:
Thanks for your submission, I still believe Ka Valungu is the best Amapiano sound Ive listend to. I dont know what hes saying, but certainly the best sound from SA. You can make music your hobby too, it helps cleans the soul. Ive got a sound bar, head set, ear piece just because of my love for music. I cant sing at all, Ive got a very horrible voice, but I get immersed in the musical spirit.

Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by OloYeOfEgbE: 11:31am On Nov 12, 2023
Defeating the enemies here.....e dey sweet me
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by kkins25(m): 11:51am On Nov 12, 2023
pansophist:
Reading.

If you don't find pleasure in books, then you actually don't know what true pleasure is. Smoking, drinking, and sexing are pleasures of the body, but not of the soul.

If you havent paused while reading a book, to think deeply about a particular line, then relate it to lots of experiences before, then get super confused, drop the book, enter Google, and begin to read commentaries about that line, get confused further, then maybe in a week time, it now clicked, you just understand everything.

If the above havent happened to you, you havent started feeding your soul. The more you read, you more silent you become, hence people confuse nerd with boredom.

Like every woman's favorite muderer, Nikolas Michealson, once said, "Reading eddifies the soul." He learnt this from his elder bro, Elijah Michealson.

The age of internet has destroyed me sha. Plus, there's the study smart not study hard mantra. Why read a 500 page book, and come to the same conclusion as someone who watches a 5 minute book review? That aside,

I listen to music. I'm a day dreamer, so I spent most of my time doing that.

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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by MrBroke(m): 1:51pm On Nov 12, 2023
I don't smoke or drink but sex is my second food.

0. Foods (Junked and cooked food)
1. Playing Games
2. Listening to Music
3. Watching Stand up Comedy
4. Watching a Live Football Match
5. Travelling to Tourist Destinations
6. Playing Football

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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by hafeeanubasy: 2:02pm On Nov 12, 2023
shibyc:

I personally love

-watching football
-Strolls In The Evening
Bathing with hot water.

My work out(brisk walk) routine
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Chasito(m): 2:55pm On Nov 12, 2023
Playing video games on my ps 4
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 3:03pm On Nov 12, 2023
Really, please go ahead if you have some time to spare.
I will like to get one translated for me. It was a sound trending on tiktok a while ago.
It was about a young girl inclass saying her dad raped her or something like that
Ill be grateful

Samantha124:
I love that song too, especially when it's playing in a car or big speakers.

The person is singing in the Tsonga language, I can translate it for you, if you want.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by tonystark007: 3:18pm On Nov 12, 2023
pansophist:
Reading.

If you don't find pleasure in books, then you actually don't know what true pleasure is. Smoking, drinking, and sexing are pleasures of the body, but not of the soul.

If you havent paused while reading a book, to think deeply about a particular line, then relate it to lots of experiences before, then get super confused, drop the book, enter Google, and begin to read commentaries about that line, get confused further, then maybe in a week time, it now clicked, you just understand everything.

If the above havent happened to you, you havent started feeding your soul. The more you read, you more silent you become, hence people confuse nerd with boredom.

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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Nov 12, 2023
Lomu ka valungu- in a white man's land.

It talks of how in a white man's land they slaughter cats to eat in the train because there are no chickens to slaughter and eat while in a train.

Apparently the song talks about a woman during the apartheid era who took a train to visit her sister who worked in a white community as a maid somewhere In Johannesburg... Upon getting to the house, she found that the owners of the house had cats.

Shocked, she turned down the food while there because she thought the cats were kept in the house for the purpose of consumption like they usually keep chickens in her village for consumption.

Upon returning to her village, she told people there that In a white man's land they slaughter cats to eat while in trains because there are no chickens to slaughter and eat while in the train. ( lomu ka valungu, dlayani ximanga mi ya dya xitimeleni hi kuku hayi kona yaku dya xitimeleni).

It's an apartheid song turned into amapiano.
Error401:
Really, please go ahead if you have some time to spare.
I will like to get one translated for me. It was a sound trending on tiktok a while ago.
It was about a young girl inclass saying her dad raped her or something like that
Ill be grateful

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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 9:23pm On Nov 12, 2023
Thanks so much for the summary, lol I had to listen to the song again to feel the vibe

Samantha124:
Lomu ka valungu- in a white man's land.

It talks of how in a white man's land they slaughter cats to eat in the train because there are no chickens to slaughter and eat while in a train.

Apparently the song talks about a woman during the apartheid era who took a train to visit her sister who worked in a white community as a maid somewhere In Johannesburg... Upon getting to the house, she found that the owners of the house had cats.

Shocked, she turned down the food while there because she thought the cats were kept in the house for the purpose of consumption like they usually keep chickens in her village for consumption.

Upon returning to her village, she told people there that In a white man's land they slaughter cats to eat while in trains because there are no chickens to slaughter and eat while in the train. ( lomu ka valungu, dlayani ximanga mi ya dya xitimeleni hi kuku hayi kona yaku dya xitimeleni).

It's an apartheid song turned into amapiano.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Nov 12, 2023
You're welcome... smiley smiley smiley
Error401:
Thanks so much for the summary, lol I had to listen to the song again to feel the vibe

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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 10:10pm On Nov 12, 2023
Lets chat outside Nairaland, you have been airing me since 2001. Maybe you will agree by 2030 grin grin grin

Samantha124:
You're welcome... smiley smiley smiley
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 12, 2023
2001 when I was still in preschool? grin grin grin
Error401:
Lets chat outside Nairaland, you have been airing me since 2001. Maybe you will agree by 2030 grin grin grin

Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 10:24pm On Nov 12, 2023
Of course yes, been a long time.

Samantha124:
2001 when I was still in preschool? grin grin grin
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 12, 2023
Calm down, just because of a single song, you now want to chat outside nairaland?πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ
Error401:
Of course yes, been a long time.

Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by DonroxyII: 10:37pm On Nov 12, 2023
Samantha124:
Calm down, just because of a single song, you now want to chat outside nairaland?πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ
Phobia
That's Right Anyway !
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Nov 12, 2023
Phobia for what?
DonroxyII:
Phobia
That's Right Anyway !
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 11:36pm On Nov 12, 2023
Lol, how did I know you? I didnt relate with you like I dont know you before. we've been in touch for a long time.
was asking to chat on telegram sometimes ago, dont know if you still remember
Samantha124:
Calm down, just because of a single song, you now want to chat outside nairaland?πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Nov 12, 2023
Nah, I don't remember anything.
Error401:
Lol, how did I know you? I didnt relate with you like I dont know you before. we've been in touch for a long time.
was asking to chat on telegram sometimes ago, dont know if you still remember
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Godsongang: 8:57am On Nov 13, 2023
Sleeping and maybe movies at times
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Iamblessed85: 10:22am On Nov 13, 2023
Samantha124:
I love that song too, especially when it's playing in a car or big speakers.

The person is singing in the Tsonga language, I can translate it for you, if you want.

Kindly translate. What’s the meaning of β€œHaibo”?
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Nobody: 10:46am On Nov 13, 2023
It's just an exclamation.
Iamblessed85:


Kindly translate. What’s the meaning of β€œHaibo”?

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Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Error401: 2:50pm On Nov 13, 2023
grin grin grin grin grin alright

Samantha124:
Nah, I don't remember anything.
Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by DonroxyII: 4:11pm On Nov 13, 2023
Samantha124:
Phobia for what?
See Finish of Course, Security too & Casting .... grin

I Understand You Jhoor ... wink

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