I noticed people act a fool when they are in love.
Let me center it on men, women do act a fool when they are madly in love with someone too, but men own is on another level.
I see men and women tolerate rubbish from their partners, something they wouldn't tolerate from others, some don't even see the bad side of their partners. Them talk say love is blind 😁😂 something that is good shouldn't blind you, but rather open you to lots of things
I read stories of relationship everyday, "my husband do this, she did that, I noticed this behavior but I didn't know it will be like this when we get married."
The stories now are becoming like an iterative complains of never ending doom for all before and in awaiting.
I see memes teaching men to learn how to apologize to their wife even if their wife is wrong😑
The reason while all this is happening is because when we love too much, we become too tolerant, i mean the traditional sense of being tolerant, which surprisedly is a problem.
When that tolerant threshold or limit is exceeded you have a mixture of love professionally sprinkled with hate.
That's were the trouble lies, the mixture of love and hate is an unholy concortion for your mental state.
You don't know what to do with your spouse, you don't want to leave and you don't want to stay, it's not about courage to take a side, it's just that there is still hope in your despair. You are in a perpetual prison, which sometimes it's paradise, sometimes it's a cell.
Tolerance doesn't mean keeping your mouth shut or overlooking things.
Tolerance in relationship have to do with identifying a toxic trait and working together, putting effort to be a better partner. How long it takes to achieve this tell of your tolerance.
And when working on a trait to be better, we shouldn't be working on ourselves to be a better person for our spouse, we are working on ourselves to be a better person in general.
A better person is automatically a better spouse, it is more easier to put effort on yourself and for yourself than for anybody (your partner included).
Communication in relationship isn't always the solution in a relationship, it's how you communicate that's the solution.
You can communicate from now to tomorrow and your partner isn't listening, or they are not making effort, you should reconsider how to communicate better to them.
I would like to say more but I rest my case.
No mumu for love.
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