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STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by ikeno(m): 11:09am On Nov 30, 2023
Guys are the reason why some ladies have this entitlement mentality.why should you date a girl that feels since you're dating her it's your responsibility to take care of her.
First few weeks of dating her, she has started demanding such as. My phone faulty I need to get a new one, my father/mother is sick,my cream is finished,I need to change my wardrobe,send me money for food/data/call card/tf.someone that can't help you financially when you're cash strapped or spend her money to cook for you.
Such girls will pull you down financially, emotionally.
My advice is to use your tongue to count your teeth.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by Tb19(m): 11:26am On Nov 30, 2023
Better just shut up and hustle

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by MSN1(m): 11:39am On Nov 30, 2023
Tb19:
Better just shut up and hustle
Y una nor de like use una head?
U that ought to shut up, is here telling a reasonable person to shut. How una brain dey work sef.

Tell me one thing OP said wrong🤷‍♂️.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by SweetBuns(f): 11:41am On Nov 30, 2023
It's the job of the male to provide for the female and offspring
That's how nature intended
Learn from the ducks and chicken that stay in your backyard and stop being stupid

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by MSN1(m): 11:43am On Nov 30, 2023
ikeno:
Guys are the reason why some ladies have this entitlement mentality.why should you date a girl that feels since you're dating her it's your responsibility to take care of her.
First few weeks of dating her, she has started demanding such as. My phone faulty I need to get a new one, my father/mother is sick,my cream is finished,I need to change my wardrobe,send me money for food/data/call card/tf.someone that can't help you financially when you're cash strapped or spend her money to cook for you.
Such girls will pull you down financially, emotionally.
My advice is to use your tongue to count your teeth.
Posting Reasonable threads these days is becoming pointless because, NL of recent has been dominated by a lot of kids and unreasonable pipo, gone are the days of NL filled with creative and reasonable minds.

You have made a lot of senses.
But as usual, Pipo wen get sense nor plenty, Its a hard pill u have to swallow.

Supporting ANY gender, be it your siblings, friends etc is VERY paramount in life because; We all need each other.

D day i stopped arguing with unreasonable pipo, was d day i started having inner peace.

Ask d ladies dat are saying and wud keep saying thrash, HOW DEY WUD FEEL/REACT, If their sons earning 100k, sponsoring and catering for all the needs and wants of GIRLFRIEND. You will see how they wud go dumb.

Taking care of urself as an Adult is strictly the jobs of parents/ family or yourself (If u happen to have a skill/job), supports from external familes and partner is OPTIONAL, Unless she is your wife.
Even married ladies these days don't see the need to support households with their resources, even when they know, the man is exhausting ALL he earns.

Women in men's clothing have completely destroyed RELATIONSHIPS and MARRIAGES with the mentality they create to ladies.

----This is not and can neva b a gossip, but an example to point out how 2day's men are killing themselves and dying in foolishness----

I have a foolish colleague that works like Camel and goes home to meet a full time house wife with 3 kids.
In the nite, he still begs for svx (his right). The woman even gave him time table for sex!.
Most times, he goes months, without getting it and even if he does, He must beg seriously for it.
What a world these men are creating.

There is another that told me proudly one day that, NOTHING happens in d house without d wife's approval. There was a day an old time friend of his (unknown by the wife) was in their city and decided to just check up and say hi. He told the wife and she disagreed, he had to call the freind to cancel his coming!. What a world these people are creating 4 us.

A WORLD, BEING CRUMBLED BY WEAK AND UNREASONABLE MEN OF THIS GENERATION.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by motionarena: 11:58am On Nov 30, 2023
ikeno:
Guys are the reason why some ladies have this entitlement mentality.why should you date a girl that feels since you're dating her it's your responsibility to take care of her.
First few weeks of dating her, she has started demanding such as. My phone faulty I need to get a new one, my father/mother is sick,my cream is finished,I need to change my wardrobe,send me money for food/data/call card/tf.someone that can't help you financially when you're cash strapped or spend her money to cook for you.
Such girls will pull you down financially, emotionally.
My advice is to use your tongue to count your teeth.

You don't want to support but want to bang dem abi.
Stop dating young girls n students then and look 4 working class.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by slaawomirr: 12:04pm On Nov 30, 2023
motionarena:


You don't want to support but want to bang dem abi.
Stop dating young girls n students then and look 4 working class.

Damnnn niggar

Why are we humans so stupid at times

You are talking as if you don't know women enjoy sex more than us

If you haven't bang a woman please go and try it

The sweet sensation they feel is greater than the sweet sensation we male feel

Bros op was really correct. The way some men make this women feel is the reason most women now feels the world revolves round them

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by Fahvvy: 12:07pm On Nov 30, 2023
SweetBuns:
1. It's the job of the male to provide for the female and offspring
That's how nature intended

2. Learn from the ducks and chicken that stay in your backyard and stop being stupid

1. Is there any proof to validate this claims or is this one of the very many societal BS that you've chosen to swallow hook, line and sinker? undecided...

2. Last time I checked, chicks and ducklings follow their "mum's" not their "dad's" and thus are fed and protected by their mums undecided...

So in actually sense, you're the one who needs to "learn from the ducks and chickens that stay in your backyard and stop being stu.pid" undecided...

@OP...
It will take a while before men come to the realization and acceptance of this truth undecided...

Personally, if a girl is not as well to do as I am, our relationship ends at "Good morning and how are you" undecided...

Cause I can't be with someone whose profession of love is from an empty stomach. God forbid!!!!!!! undecided...

And it's so pathetic that the average modern female will love anything that can provide her with gala and zobo undecided...

No wonder they keep wh.oring around like dogs on heat and they keep staying in abusive relationships undecided...

Cause in their minds, they can put up with anything as long as the man as a bit of money to throw around undecided...

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by online4business: 12:38pm On Nov 30, 2023
The book of John puma man wey no wan wise must suffer.

If you want a friend get a dog he will be loyal till the end of time.

If you want to enjoy relationship let the woman be the one WHO WANT THE RELATIONSHIP THE MOST.

SO YOU HAVE CHOICES TO PICK WHO YOU WANT.

There are billions of women in the world don't be a provider... That era is so old school like ako oche. (Carpenter wife)

Love with your head as a man no carry liability in the name of relationship.

Fools will suffer when they fail to listen and would become philosopher later in life.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by luminouz(m): 1:11pm On Nov 30, 2023
MSN1:

Posting Reasonable threads these days is becoming pointless because, NL of recent has been dominated by a lot of kids and unreasonable pipo, gone are the days of NL filled with creative and reasonable minds.

You have made a lot of senses.
But as usual, Pipo wen get sense nor plenty, Its a hard pill u have to swallow.

Supporting ANY gender, be it your siblings, friends etc is VERY paramount in life because; We all need each other.

D day i stopped arguing with unreasonable pipo, was d day i started having inner peace.

Ask d ladies dat are saying and wud keep saying thrash, HOW DEY WUD FEEL/REACT, If their sons earning 100k, sponsoring and catering for all the needs and wants of GIRLFRIEND. You will see how they wud go dumb.

Taking care of urself as an Adult is strictly the jobs of parents/ family or yourself (If u happen to have a skill/job), supports from external familes and partner is OPTIONAL, Unless she is your wife.
Even married ladies these days don't see the need to support households with their resources, even when they know, the man is exhausting ALL he earns.

Women in men's clothing have completely destroyed RELATIONSHIPS and MARRIAGES with the mentality they create to ladies.

----This is not and can neva b a gossip, but an example to point out how 2day's men are killing themselves and dying in foolishness----

I have a foolish colleague that works like Camel and goes home to meet a full time house wife with 3 kids.
In the nite, he still begs for svx (his right). The woman even gave him time table for sex!.
Most times, he goes months, without getting it and even if he does, He must beg seriously for it.
What a world these men are creating.

There is another that told me proudly one day that, NOTHING happens in d house without d wife's approval. There was a day an old time friend of his (unknown by the wife) was in their city and decided to just check up and say hi. He told the wife and she disagreed, he had to call the freind to cancel his coming!. What a world these people are creating 4 us.

A WORLD, BEING CRUMBLED BY WEAK AND UNREASONABLE MEN OF THIS GENERATION.
Nice take

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by motionarena: 2:29pm On Nov 30, 2023
slaawomirr:


Damnnn niggar

Why are we humans so stupid at times

You are talking as if you don't know women enjoy sex more than us

If you haven't bang a woman please go and try it

The sweet sensation they feel is greater than the sweet sensation we male feel

Bros op was really correct. The way some men make this women feel is the reason most women now feels the world revolves round them

I know they love the sex but not withstanding they must still bill u as that is nature.

Then you as a guy must carefully choose your kind of woman.

You canoot be dating a student and complaining of bills here and there
Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by zed7: 2:47pm On Nov 30, 2023
SweetBuns:
It's the job of the male to provide for the female and offspring
That's how nature intended
Learn from the ducks and chicken that stay in your backyard and stop being stupid

You have a point though, a man provides for his wife and kids, it's not debatable.

For girls that are not married, it's the duty of her father to provide for her. You cannot have a failure as a father and then expect your boyfriend to be the messiah. If she doesn't have a father, then the mother should fill the role.

God forbid I fail my female children and then a small boy who is an outsider begins to take care of my responsibilities.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by lordnkem000(m): 7:46am On Dec 01, 2023
SweetBuns:
It's the job of the male to provide for the female and offspring
That's how nature intended
Learn from the ducks and chicken that stay in your backyard and stop being stupid
Just shut up u leech. That's naija girls mentality here, abroad everything is 50/50. U want a man to love u and provide for u and get what in return? Smelling pussy about 4 others are banging alongside me? Atleast the girls I know don't have this mentality so I won't insult everyone

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by lordnkem000(m): 8:01am On Dec 01, 2023
MSN1:

Posting Reasonable threads these days is becoming pointless because, NL of recent has been dominated by a lot of kids and unreasonable pipo, gone are the days of NL filled with creative and reasonable minds.

You have made a lot of senses.
But as usual, Pipo wen get sense nor plenty, Its a hard pill u have to swallow.

Supporting ANY gender, be it your siblings, friends etc is VERY paramount in life because; We all need each other.

D day i stopped arguing with unreasonable pipo, was d day i started having inner peace.

Ask d ladies dat are saying and wud keep saying thrash, HOW DEY WUD FEEL/REACT, If their sons earning 100k, sponsoring and catering for all the needs and wants of GIRLFRIEND. You will see how they wud go dumb.

Taking care of urself as an Adult is strictly the jobs of parents/ family or yourself (If u happen to have a skill/job), supports from external familes and partner is OPTIONAL, Unless she is your wife.
Even married ladies these days don't see the need to support households with their resources, even when they know, the man is exhausting ALL he earns.

Women in men's clothing have completely destroyed RELATIONSHIPS and MARRIAGES with the mentality they create to ladies.

----This is not and can neva b a gossip, but an example to point out how 2day's men are killing themselves and dying in foolishness----

I have a foolish colleague that works like Camel and goes home to meet a full time house wife with 3 kids.
In the nite, he still begs for svx (his right). The woman even gave him time table for sex!.
Most times, he goes months, without getting it and even if he does, He must beg seriously for it.
What a world these men are creating.

There is another that told me proudly one day that, NOTHING happens in d house without d wife's approval. There was a day an old time friend of his (unknown by the wife) was in their city and decided to just check up and say hi. He told the wife and she disagreed, he had to call the freind to cancel his coming!. What a world these people are creating 4 us.

A WORLD, BEING CRUMBLED BY WEAK AND UNREASONABLE MEN OF THIS GENERATION.
God bless u for this comment, u are absolutely right

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by Qatar2022: 8:12am On Dec 01, 2023
Tb19:
Better just shut up and hustle
Hustle to take care of a woman? , you must be a fool forever

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by Mcslize: 8:41am On Dec 01, 2023
Qatar2022:

Hustle to take care of a woman? , you must be a fool forever

Na small boy sense still dey worry that Tb19. We wey be OG for the game dey advise the upcoming, make them invest first in their lives and family, them said na woman they wan die for. They will learn the hard way.

He won hustle, na cuz of some women wey get shot memory span he wan take hustle not cuz he want to better his life and that of his family. All these small boys no wan learn and they will learn the hard way.

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by SweetBuns(f): 10:11am On Dec 01, 2023
lordnkem000:

Just shut up u leech. That's naija girls mentality here, abroad everything is 50/50. U want a man to love u and provide for u and get what in return? Smelling pussy about 4 others are banging alongside me? Atleast the girls I know don't have this mentality so I won't insult everyone
You look ugly
Maybe that's why you're so angry and bitter

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Re: STOP! Dating Girls That Are Liability by lordnkem000(m): 10:45pm On Dec 01, 2023
SweetBuns:

You look ugly
Maybe that's why you're so angry and bitter
Me ugly? U don't know me, am super cute and down to earth and am not bitter. Only the bad situation of the country, the hardship and hunger I see around makes me angry, not a woman. Let's exchange pic and see who's ugly, I challenge u

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