Some women enjoy the floor before wedding. The exciting floor, the joyous floor, the floor to sleep with EX or someone else. At this point, most of the struggle may be on the man (fiance) as he prepares for the wedding. It may be the struggle to get and pay for wedding hall. It may be the struggle to plan all expenses for food, transportation payment for all relatives, getting a D.J, getting drinks, paying for hall decoration etc. If he is struggling at these points, his fiancee may be jumping from one sex to another to enjoy the last feel of it. Then if she meets a crazy guy during that time, the crazy guy may be sexing her so hard, while she may receive call same time from her fiance who may be struggling to see that the wedding succeeds. Her fiance may be so exhausted with expenses, while she may be exhausted because of being rough-handled on bed by her EX or maybe some bad guys..
When she now marries and decides to build a home, the "fiance" may start his own sleeping around with different ladies in the marriage. He may even have different side chicks and probably abuse the matrimonial bed.
This may be the reason some men have side chicks. It may be the consequences of what their fiancee did that opened the "door" for side chicks.

Men and Women should be faithful.

Let's not blame the dirty behavior of one adult on adult..... everyone knows what they are doing...and choose to do it anyways..bad it good

.love or no love..................When two Sexually indisciplined parties marry each other...the out come is adultery....A ring on the fingers or a signed paper marriage certificate wont reset sexual habit u have built for years while jumping from one penis/pvssy to another......

There's no justification for that..

Cuz once a hoe, always a hoe.........

And it's only a foolish man who'll think he can privatize a public latrine.