I have never dated a girl for as long as 6 months. I met my ex and I asked her "what really happened to us?" She replied "you never cared for me". I asked how but she didn't answer. I think she meant i didnt shower her wit gifts.

After about 2 years i met og. I bought her gifts on her birthday, all those midnight calls, attention and above all my heart but we lasted 4 3 months though we are still pals. Do I Have A Problem?

i don't think u have a big problem just a small one , well girls like attention, so she could have been talkining about showering her with gift, but if a girl is like that knowing u don't have it like that then you shouldnt be with her cause she is just a gold digger, me as a girl, i love when my partner shows me attention in a lot of ways, ofcourse big gift on birthdays and anniversaries, but on other times, do things that are thoughtful and romantic  no matter how small, like jus leaving a note saying u love or miss her, or calling her for no reason but to tell her u love her, that my dear will melt a girls heart

Tnx 4 ur advice.I will still apply then when next i have a serious girlfriend.

feel u bluenubian

I cant lie to you.you call her gave her give and attentions yes she needed that but did u give me some sexing and romance and u the shy type? if u bleeped her or rmance her maybe u need to be an expert .

i thk you should search ur sef for wat u want most in a r/ship and wen u figure it out u'd knw y,

cos personally wen i was havin dis kinda prob, it was becos i was acting on my crushes, and it only takes a while for it to go away, so then i break up

and anoda reason i thk is dat if u are kinda person dat loves to be challenged in r/ships, if you are nt gettin it, then d r/ship begins to get borin to you,

you really need to sit and think about ur ideal r/ship be4 jumpin into one,

@poster: do u have a step-mom? could be negative home support!

@wado
infact, you must be born on the month of june

zignor:

@wado
infact, you must be born on the month of june

meaning? cos i'm a gemini too

@Topic

Na wah oh!  AIDS IS REAL!   Maybe you need to take a break from the dating scene and fly solo for a while.  Marriage will be difficult oh, if you have problem with long term relationships.  Remember the "35 year old single guy" thread?  Oh boy take it easy oh!   You are still pals?  To what purpose?

@breeolan before i ans you, does your crashes after six month? lol

i dnt knw wat dis has gt to do wif ur month of birth, and oh puleeeeese, i am a gemini too,

zignor:

@breeolan before i ans you, does your crashes after six month? lol

i mean for God's sakes, dat y its called a crush it doesnt last, need more explanation??