My cousins brought a list of compensations that has to be paid to thier family because my grandfather chose my father as the one to be sent to school in the 1940s which they claimed made us to be well educated and successful than them while thier father was left to help out at farm and others.
List
1. Build a compound for them, this we have done
2. The three boys from my uncle must be established businesses, this we have done but they have not been successful.
3. The last one which is causing problem is for us to bring money and send one of them to Canada for Japa. This can cost upto N20M and we say no. This is where wahala dey now.

Sell the compound and the businesses you opened for them, use the proceeds and send one of them to Canada.

Ndi igb0 people and their policies enh.

compensations For what happened in 1940s some Nigerians will not fail to amaze me

Entitlement....



So because there father was sent to Farm the kid didn't av brain of dere own to develop dem sef and mak it.....

Some kids don leave home since 18 just to make it and beat poverty while some grown up adult are still feeling entitled....

ican2020:
compensations For what happened in 1940s some Nigerians will not fail to amaze me

and you dare not do it.. Village people are stronger than you think. Na sense person dey use handle them.

This post reminds me of another true story. Who is a polygamist between your uncle and dad

This is kinda strange

MatrixCircle:
My cousins brought a list of compensations that has to be paid to thier family because my grandfather chose my father as the one to be sent to school in the 1940s which they claimed made us to be well educated and successful than them while thier father was left to help out at farm and others.
List
1. Build a compound for them, this we have done
2. The three boys from my uncle must be established businesses, this we have done but they have not been successful.
3. The last one which is causing problem is for us to bring money and send one of them to Canada for Japa. This can cost upto N20M and we say no. This is where wahala dey now.

If this is true then they will never stop. Their children will inherit same blackmailing technique to feed off your own children and children's children.

If you can, then help them. Truth is they are not entitled to anything, because 80 years is a long time for the dynamics of life to have changed. Independence, civil war, different government policies. So because their grandfather from 80 years ago na farmer is there no single graduate there that can find his way to success? Rather than keep trying, they're giving excuses. Such a shame.





If you can, help them.

tommy589:


This post reminds me of another true story. Who is a polygamist between your uncle and dad

Both were polygamists because they are both late now. These people making these demands are above 40s and 50yrs of age.

MatrixCircle:
My cousins brought a list of compensations that has to be paid to thier family because my grandfather chose my father as the one to be sent to school in the 1940s which they claimed made us to be well educated and successful than them while thier father was left to help out at farm and others.
List
1. Build a compound for them, this we have done
2. The three boys from my uncle must be established businesses, this we have done but they have not been successful.
3. The last one which is causing problem is for us to bring money and send one of them to Canada for Japa. This can cost upto N20M and we say no. This is where wahala dey now.

Wahala