Tempulated:
Has any well to do Single man noticed this in most Nigerian women and ladies?

I mean why does it pain them so much when a bachelor is doing very fine financially but refused to relate with them or get married?

Bliss52:
If you were rich, you would live in a gated community, in a fenced house with gate and have no time for people discussing your relationship status

Better yet a service apartment were you don't even know who your neighbors are

Tempulated:
Has any well to do Single man noticed this in most Nigerian women and ladies?

I mean why does it pain them so much when a bachelor is doing very fine financially but refused to relate with them or get married?

SweetBuns:
What a solipsistic post
Nigerian men ehn….

They make money and you ignore them, they begin to shout that women are “hypergamous” and they don’t want men on the same level as them

On the other hand, if they make money and you give them a bit of attention, all of a sudden we are all “gold diggers” and “useless parasites” who are after one thing

Which one is it, oh XY clan of nairaland?

Let’s even assume that the women in question are pissed. How did you know that it’s because of the so called “money” you make?
Could it be your character instead?
Or how you treat other people because you’re now making small change?
Or how you give condescending airs to who ever is unfortunate enough to cross paths with you?

Or she’s simply too busy being pissed off with the problems bugging her own life whilst not noting your existence?

Nooo


That can’t be true
It must be because of money. Yes

Ballzproblemm:
no access to chop your money e dey pain them.

Bliss52:
If you were rich, you would live in a gated community, in a fenced house with gate and have no time for people discussing your relationship status

Better yet a service apartment were you don't even know who your neighbors are

Tempulated:


I just got promoted recently at my workplace and i upgraded everything in my apartment. They saw all the new electronics and furnitures when it was been offloaded. Ever since then, they have been trying to get more closer to me but i am not the type that womanize. So i rejected their advances. Most of them have been grumbling ever since then, I can't even walk properly in my street anymore, It's gossip here and there. I even heard one of them saying this one too dey form while i was passing by.

Well I'm planning to get a car soon because of this development. I will just drive in and drive out whenever i'm going to work.

SweetBuns:
What a solipsistic post
Nigerian men ehn….

They make money and you ignore them, they begin to shout that women are “hypergamous” and they don’t want men on the same level as them

On the other hand, if they make money and you give them a bit of attention, all of a sudden we are all “gold diggers” and “useless parasites” who are after one thing

Which one is it, oh XY clan of nairaland?

Let’s even assume that the women in question are pissed. How did you know that it’s because of the so called “money” you make?
Could it be your character instead?
Or how you treat other people because you’re now making small change?
Or how you give condescending airs to who ever is unfortunate enough to cross paths with you?

Or she’s simply too busy being pissed off with the problems bugging her own life whilst not noting your existence?

Nooo

That can’t be true
It must be because of money. Yes

Ballzproblemm:
they want you be miserable lol they just can't stand men doing well without them,just continue what you are doing till you are ready make nobody pressure you

Bliss52:
If you were rich, you would live in a gated community, in a fenced house with gate and have no time for people discussing your relationship status

Better yet a service apartment were you don't even know who your neighbors are

caesymore:


Kids Don full nairaland, so to berate the OP you put your reasoning aside to comment full rubbish.

Make I allow you think this through the rubbish you commented .

SweetBuns:
What a solipsistic post
Nigerian men ehn….

They make money and you ignore them, they begin to shout that women are “hypergamous” and they don’t want men on the same level as them

On the other hand, if they make money and you give them a bit of attention, all of a sudden we are all “gold diggers” and “useless parasites” who are after one thing

Which one is it, oh XY clan of nairaland?

Let’s even assume that the women in question are pissed. How did you know that it’s because of the so called “money” you make?
Could it be your character instead?
Or how you treat other people because you’re now making small change?
Or how you give condescending airs to who ever is unfortunate enough to cross paths with you?

Or she’s simply too busy being pissed off with the problems bugging her own life whilst not noting your existence?

Nooo


That can’t be true
It must be because of money. Yes

Xwizard:
my own questions is which work you Dey do to get upgraded all at once for this Nigeria, if you had said business I for keep shut, bro explain the job part.

People are now cashing out somewhere recently, you people should tell others na. I no get voter card ooo, so am not ur problem

sulakishop:
Na the Same 0loo5how spirit whey still dey dia body dey pain dem ;

humilitypays:
Funny enough, whether you give a financially buoyant man attention or not doesn't count because the whole world want him. I mean, as Miss A is saying no to him, Miss B, C, D, E, F, G,H,j, etc are praying and fasting to get his attention.

Men with money control the world.

The world belongs to rich men.

The whole world is rich men's playground.


When a man gets the money, he gets the women and the whole world is his

Ballzproblemm:
they want you be miserable lol they just can't stand men doing well without them,just continue what you are doing till you are ready make nobody pressure you

Tempulated:
Stop capping nonsense on what you do not know. There are over eight flats in my compound because the compound is very big. I occupy one of the flats anm Most of the flats are occupied by single ladies and unmarried women. We have only few married people. I moved into the compound not long ago.

From the day i moved in, i noticed they have been trying to get close to me by always greeting me, helping them to charge their phones when the power is off. I don't usually allow them to enter my apartment because i don't like strangers invading my privacy. They later shrugged it off by understanding my kind of person and we were good.

But recently things took a new dimension when i bought many new items into my apartment. Most of them doesn't greet me again, Whenever i greet them, they will just squeeze their faces. They have been gossiping about me ever since then.

Magnoliaa:


Interesting.

So that even means the rich man DID NOT ignore Ms. A. She was the one who rejected him by will, so:

- There are people your money cannot get

The rich guy also has Ms. B, C, D, E, F praying and fasting to get his attention. Since you said rich men control the world, that means none of the other women are as financially buoyant as he is. The women he gets eventually, they will ending up getting his attention, no? I don't care who initiated it first.


So if at the end of the day, a number of rich guys have access to a number of women they lavish on and shit, which women are getting mad that a person like the OP ignores them?


Women that have been "spoilt" by other rich men and politicians?

humilitypays:
My dear I no wan understand wetin u write, but the bitter truth all over the world is that rich men control the world and every woman's dream is to get a rich guy as boyfriend, sugardaddy, lover or husband, including u trying to argue, but if u say its not true then I wish you a broke man

Magnoliaa:


My bad.


Didn't realise you were an unintelligent fellow.

humilitypays:
my sister my Papa was so poor he couldn't afford to send me to ordinary Primary school, no be my fault sis

Tempulated:
Has any well to do Single man noticed this in most Nigerian women and ladies?

I mean why does it pain them so much when a bachelor is doing very fine financially but refused to relate with them or get married?

Is it by force for them to always want to relate with successful men. They believe now that you are okay. Automatically they are meant to be in your life.

Magnoliaa:


So you wanting to marry me is what? Intentionally putting yourself into a miserable situation?