Luckysbab:


To respect and be dutiful, similar to how she was with her parents, cos the husband is now in the position of assuming the responsibility of care for her, like her parents were.

It doesn't mean not having a voice. The key is finding a worthy man to submit to.

I'm sure, these don't define what to "submit" is.. Many people respect me, but they don't submit to me.. The question still lingers, what does it mean to submit?

Say Husband say A, and Wife's stands on B. do you imply that Husband's A trumps Wife's B?

kkins25:

I'm sure, these don't define what to "submit" is.. Many people respect me, but they don't submit to me.. The question still lingers, what does it mean to submit?

Say Husband say A, and Wife's stands on B. do you imply that Husband's A trumps Wife's B?

How do you "submit" to your parents and make them see your point when on opposing sides?

Luckysbab:
■ So marital happiness or otherwise is now a religious thing too? A foolish person has no limits to how low they can go indeed.

OP, the "feminist" in this case even went as far as to congratulate the friend. Why you come carry the issue for your head?

By the way, tradition and religion are pretty much the same.

Luckysbab:
■ How do you "submit" to your parents and make them see your point when on opposing sides?

Why in the world would you think it makes sense to submit to your parents?

Kobojunkie:
Why in the world would you think it makes sense to submit to your parents?

You go head to head with your parents?

Kobojunkie:
OP, the "feminist" in this case even went as far as to congratulate the friend. Why you come carry the issue for your head?

By the way, tradition and religion are pretty much the same.

I answered a bigot who decided to make it a religious issue. How's it carrying the matter on my head?

Everyone has a belief system, whether it is called tradition, religion or wokeness.

Luckysbab:
■ You go head to head with your parents?

So, the only other alternative there is is going "head to head" with one's parents?

Kobojunkie:
So, the only other alternative there is is going "head to head" with one's parents?

It's one way or the other.

Luckysbab:
■ I answered a bigot who decided to make it a religious issue. How's it carrying the matter on my head? Everyone has a belief system, whether it is called tradition, religion or wokeness.

Not every belief system qualifies as tradition/religion.

re·li·gion

◍the belief in and worship of a superhuman power or powers, especially a God or gods.
◍ a pursuit or interest to which someone ascribes supreme importance.
e.g. "consumerism is the new religion"

Luckysbab:


So marital happiness or otherwise is now a religious thing too? A foolish person has no limits to how low they can go indeed.

Very religious thing as long religious exist.


If you don't know this at this stage of our existence, then you are ignorant of your very nature.


You are clearly the foolish one hear who don't know, or willfully ignorant that religious or culture affects everything in life.

Luckysbab:
■ It's one way or the other.

Really?

Imagine a situation where a child is born into a home where the father kidnaps and sells others as a side gig, and the mother aides the father as well even if by turning a blind eye. Are you expecting us to believe that your tradition mandates this child submit to this way of life he was born into?

Kobojunkie:
Really?

Imagine a situation where a child is born into a home where the father kidnaps and sells others as a side gig, and the mother aides the father as well even if by turning a blind eye. Are you expecting us to believe that your tradition mandates this child submit to this way of life he was born into?

This is a hypothetical case with a 1/100000 occurrence rate. It doesn't qualify as as a standard to determine the subject of submitting to parents.

That said, a child is allowed to disagree on matters that are prohibited by law, as is with this case.

Luckysbab:
■ This is a hypothetical case with a 1/100000 occurrence rate. It doesn't qualify as as a standard to determine the subject of submitting to parents. That said, a child is allowed to disagree on matters that are prohibited by law, as is with this case.

What you are now saying is that your tradition does not support your case for children submitting to their parents since it at least makes allowance for disagreement where necessary. That runs counter to your original claim that a child is to submit to his parents an idea that implies the relinquishment of the child's right by Law, to exist as an individual, in the relationship.

Kobojunkie:
What you are now saying is that your tradition does not support your case for children submitting to their parents since it at least makes allowance for disagreement where necessary. That runs counter to your original claim that a child is to submit to his parents an idea that implies the relinquishment of the child's right by Law, to exist as an individual, in the relationship.

I don't know where you picked your interpretation from, but I am definitely not responsible for what you have chosen to make of what I said.

If we say a student is to submit to his teacher, it does not cover been lured to have sexual relationship with such a teacher.

There's a line that common sense should tell you not to cross. It's that simple. It doesn't change the base factor of "submission".

And I have explained what I mean by submission, which clearly never suggested taking leave of one's brain entirely.

Luckysbab:
■ I don't know where you picked your interpretation from, but I am definitely not responsible for what you have chosen to make of what I said. If we say a student is to submit to his teacher, it does not cover been lured to have sexual relationship with such a teacher. There's a line that common sense should tell you not to cross. It's that simple. It doesn't change the base factor of "submission". And I have explained what I mean by submission, which clearly never suggested taking leave of one's brain entirely.

I happened to pick the definition contained in the dictionary.

sub·mit

1. accept or yield to a superior force or to the authority or will of another person.
"the original settlers were forced to submit to Bulgarian rule"
2. subject to a particular process, treatment, or condition.

And as you can see, no such allowances as the ones claimed by you included given that once your will is submitted, you cease to exist as an individual in the machine.

Luckysbab:


How do you "submit" to your parents and make them see your point when on opposing sides?

My parents had authority over me for a while. And, today, I do things that I like, when I like. So, even if they hold point B, I stand on my Point A. Can the Wife do the same?

Luckysbab:


How do you "submit" to your parents and make them see your point when on opposing sides?

It's like you don't know what it means.

kkins25:
It's like you don't know what it means.

Enlighten me.

I love it when a real feminine woman snatches the man of a feminist!
This are the kinds of things that should happen more often!

Lol..... I use to wonder,how ND why on earth a reasonable person wl think that female ND male have equal rights, most especially in 9ja?.

Even mad man walking naked on the street wl never think of such a thing.

Indeed another woman's poison has become another woman's meat. Enjoy your new man 😉😉😉

Luckysbab:

Agreed.


The feminism ideology practiced these days is mostly about gender wars, while peculiar problems facing womanhood still persists around the world.

Exactly

delishpot:


As na man do am now, e dey sweet all of una for ears.
You all are cheering him on, claiming it's the woman's fault. I
f say na the wife marry her hubby's friend cos husband was not doing right as she married him, you all will start yapping like a pack of wolves experiencing starvation.

😂 😝 😆
You sound like my younger sister.
No vex ‼️

Capernum:
Again... Femisim is demonic... It's not an attack against men but against women.

It's also not an attack against women. It's an attack against the society. Just like woke-ism

cc kobojunkie cococandy

CorrectionFLuid:


It's also not an attack against women. It's an attack against the society. Just like woke-ism

cc kobojunkie cococandy

Apt... But like they they thought they are revolting against men, but it's really against the society. Wisdom will not kill you. Smiles.

[Marry herself u say?quote author=NFBI post=127512030] Very good that's how it suppose to be let her go and marry herself [/quote]

Kobojunkie:
So?

You will never see anytin wrong wit the story there cos you are also the same character and that's why you are still single after leaving your marriage(if you were ever married) and no children.

You tink you are okay till when old age hits you and then reality will set in.

Enjoy ur confused mentally unstable life.

LogicallySXT:
■ You will never see anytin wrong wit the story there cos you are also the same character and [b]that's why you are still single after leaving your marriage(if you were ever married) and no children. You tink you are okay till when old age hits you and then reality will set in. Enjoy ur confused mentally unstable life.[/b]

I have no clue what you are rambling about but what exactly is wrong with leaving a marriage without a child?

The mentally unstable existence insists one must birth a child or get married just because. Don't you see?.

Kobojunkie:
I have no clue what you are rambling about but what exactly is wrong with leaving a marriage without a child?

The mentally unstable existence insists one must birth a child or get married just because. Don't you see?.

I see no nonsense like you do and your husband was lucky to have left you.

Your ignorant and confused thinking baffles me most times while you think you are intelligent.

S.M.H.... my attention is more valuable than you can afford so I got no more words for you.


Peace...

LogicallySXT:
■ I see no nonsense like you do and your husband was lucky to have left you. Your ignorant and confused thinking baffles me most times while you think you are intelligent. S.M.H.... my attention is more valuable than you can afford so I got no more words for you. Peace...

Whose husband left? What are you rambling on about?

According to the OP, the woman left her husband after trying for 4 months to accommodate submission in marriage. And not only did she leave but she also congratulated her friend for taking the man after she left him. Why do you let your bitterness leave you blind to even that which is right in front of you?

Fredoh:


😂 😝 😆
You sound like my younger sister.
No vex ‼️

Lol