My friend is currently navigating a complex marital struggle. He tied the knot with his wife in 2015, but significant issues emerged in 2018. Despite impassioned pleas from him, family members, pastors, and friends, his wife chose to end the marriage, relocating from Ibadan to Abuja and pursued a divorce. Despite court intervention and counselling, she remained steadfast in her decision, even leaving their only son with my friend in an attempt to ease the situation for him. The marriage officially concluded in 2020, and his ex-wife has since remarried her ex-boyfriend.

Now, as he seeks to move forward, a challenge arises as his Pentecostal Church in Ibadan prohibits remarriage while his ex-wife is alive. This poses a significant predicament, especially considering his role as a Deacon in the church. The fundamental question arises: Does the Bible genuinely prohibit remarriage in such circumstances?

He should change his church.

I don't agree with the church. Meanwhile since he has a son, I would suggest that he consider staying single, focusing on personal growth, and living a fulfilling life instead of getting entangled in another marital struggle. He can look out for female friends to keep for psychological reasons instead of remarrying. Nevertheless, If the idea of remarriage is a serious consideration for him, perhaps leaving the current church is an option to explore.

Lovemeharder:
He should change his church.

People just like being in bondage. He won't do that because he has been brainwashed to think he'll go straight to hell if he leaves the church.

After divorce the next thing is to remarry

Please tell your friend to use his brain
What type of religion are we talking about
Living in bondage in the name of deacon.

wwwkaycom:
My friend is currently navigating a complex marital struggle. He tied the knot with his wife in 2015, but significant issues emerged in 2018. Despite impassioned pleas from him, family members, pastors, and friends, his wife chose to end the marriage, relocating from Ibadan to Abuja and pursued a divorce. Despite court intervention and counselling, she remained steadfast in her decision, even leaving their only son with my friend in an attempt to ease the situation for him. The marriage officially concluded in 2020, and his ex-wife has since remarried her ex-boyfriend.

Now, as he seeks to move forward, a challenge arises as his Pentecostal Church in Ibadan prohibits remarriage while his ex-wife is alive. This poses a significant predicament, especially considering his role as a Deacon in the church. The fundamental question arises: Does the Bible genuinely prohibit remarriage in such circumstances?

Winners Chapel will never allow you remarry, he should just go and get married in another Church

He should divorce his Church same way his wife divorced him.

wwwkaycom:
■ Now, as he seeks to move forward, a challenge arises as his Pentecostal Church in Ibadan prohibits remarriage while his ex-wife is alive. This poses a significant predicament, especially considering his role as a Deacon in the church. The fundamental question arises: Does the Bible genuinely prohibit remarriage in such circumstances?

No friend no wan marry and he is trying to use Jesus Christ as excuse. Na the woman wey wan marry am I pity since him dey carry religion for head so while she dey wait for am. If he truly wants to remarry, he go abandon all that him nonsense excuses, enter court go register his marriage...the end.

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People just like being in bondage. He won't do that because he has been brainwashed to think he'll go straight to hell if he leaves the church. [/L

HELL MEANS GRAVE, OR UNDERGROUND HOLE, THERE IS NO FIRE IN HELL BUT DARKNESS

Person tie Knot 2015......2018, Significant issues emerged.......

@the bolded above is what I'm still trying to figure out.......What is a significant issue??

To think the wife even went to remarry her Ex Bf.......

Put the pastor girl belly.

GOFRONT:
Person tie Knot 2015......2018, Significant issues emerged.......

@the bolded above is what I'm still trying to figure out.......What is a significant issue??

To think the wife even went to remarry her Ex Bf.......

At the outset, the woman's mother opposed the relationship, citing a perceived social status mismatch with the man. Initially resistant, the woman's perspective shifted after marriage, leading her to start considering her mother's objections.

At this point, her previous boyfriend who had terminated a relationship with her resurfaced, and started seeking reconciliation. Meanwhile this ex-boyfriend had marital problems that prompted his wife's relocation to Europe. So with the support of the mother-in-law, he and the woman engaged in extramarital affairs at first and hell was let loose when the husband got to know. It was also at this point that she relocated to Abuja, claiming she was transferred by her employer. She actually relocated so that she could stay close to ex-boyfriend who is now divorced too.

Ultimately, the woman summoned the courage to terminate her marriage with my friend. While these events constituted significant issues, there were numerous others. The man harboured undisclosed problems, contributing to unmet post-marital expectations. The blame isn't solely the woman's; the man apologized, albeit too late.