In a recent gathering of a women’s fellowship, Christian mothers opened up about their perspectives and strategies if they were to discover their husbands engaging in an affair with their own sisters. The candid responses shed light on a range of emotional, spiritual, and practical approaches these women would consider in such challenging situations.

During the discussion, Woman 1 expressed a reliance on prayer, stating, “I’ll use prayer to be following my husband, and I believe one day God will touch his heart.” Another woman, Woman 2, redirected blame toward her sister, pledging to lavish her husband with special love while confronting her sibling directly.

When the pastor sought validation for the second woman’s response, the group collectively chorused, “yes.”

Woman 3, however, emphasized a more cautious approach. She emphasized the importance of respecting privacy, stating, “First, what am I looking for in my husband’s phone? You’re not supposed to check his phone; that’s what we were taught here.” If she were to discover such an affair, she outlined a plan involving a visit to her parents, urging them to counsel her sister to leave the marriage.

Woman 5 took a different stance, emphasizing secrecy. “First, I will not allow any other person to hear it. I will hide it. After sealing it, I will now go and fight my sister.” She also suggested seeking counseling at a religious institution favored by her husband.

Drawing from a real-life incident, Woman 5 recounted a scenario where a couple sought pastoral counseling, leading to a resolution that involved the sister being asked to leave.

The Reverend overseeing the discussion affirmed the correctness of the answers, prompting a shift to another topic.

Woman 6 contributed a perspective on avoiding confrontations that might escalate the situation. “If you chase your sister, your husband could go behind you and continue the relationship with her. So, apply wisdom. Call your sister and talk to her in a language she can understand so she can stay away.” Additionally, she recommended seeking advice from someone the husband respects.

These responses highlight the diverse strategies employed by these women, all of whom are members of a women’s fellowship dedicated to enhancing their roles as wives. The video recording of the discussion provides a glimpse into the complex dynamics and thoughtful considerations within this community.

Watch the video for an in-depth look into the nuanced perspectives and strategies shared by these Christian mothers.


https://thisweekng.com/christian-mothers-share-strategies-to-address-husbands-sleeping-with-their-sisters-video/

This will continue to happen as long as women refuse to set boundaries thinking that getting married to them means the husband has married all her siblings with the infiltration of the man's home with siblings of the wife.

Let your siblings give your husband's space so that you can bond with him in order to build your home. The practice where a man gets married to a lady and her 3 sisters relocates and joins the man as his wives(inlaws) in same house should be discouraged, let your siblings stay with those that are empowered to take care of them(parents) in order to allow the union to strive.

Most importantly everyone should choose a spouse that his or her thought process is sound in order to be caught in this rat race. Some people even if they ain't staying with them can go a long way to still having sex with their inlaws because they aren't disciplined, this goes both ways and should be stopped.