This is a real life situation but I would say it as a story.
This family has been in crisis right from year 2002.
They lost their father at a tender age.
The mother was always cruel and over bearing strict to them when the father was alive and used to beat the hell out of the kids.
The father during his lifetime was a professor and all the family is educated.
However,the father was someone who was high handed and a sadist but still loved his children
He loved the last born girl.The last born girl took after her father.
The mother was a woman who was emotionally and mentally abused by her father's doctor while the father was alive.
This sort of impacted negatively on her response to men.
She became a woman that must control men or any man she loved.
If the man cannot submit to her ,she will never love him
The mother became someone who disregarded and hated any form of affectionate gestures from the opposite sex.
She fought with the husband when he was alive most times but will be apologizing at night when the children were asleep while the last born will see her doing so.
One worse syndrome with the father is his dullness and anger towards any thing the children ambitiously attempted to do because of their heightened anxiousness.
The mother played a very bad role among the children after the father died.
She fought the first born ,her own first born and he left the house.
The first born also had his own problems but it was a family curse and spiritual matter at hand.
The firstborn chased everyone the mother knew away from the family because of the mother's attitude to him when the father was alive.
The first born hates his mother and blames her for all the sufferings in the family.
The girls in the family hates one another and fight with themselves because it was one of their matters the father was rushing to attend to which led to his demise.
The reaction of the mother to the daughters has made them be on egg shells with the opposite sex
They are not free and always have this fear that any one affectionate or open to them has another motive.
Now they are almost passing marriageable age and still no suitors
The suitors that came didn't stay because of the mother's attitude
The mother lastly has an attitude of reporting her daughters and all the children do to men of God up and down.
So the anger continues.
The mother has become a reporter and lost all control over her children and respect because she made things a bit complicated and never allowed the children come forward about the issues they were facing during school years and other issue.
Now they don't want to see their mother at all.
Worst of it all,the last born doesn't want to see her mother .
She has earned her to stop reporting her up and down!
There is a high level of anger, mistrust,feelings of betrayal and resentment among the kids
The home is divided and the mother seems not to know what to do because of all the evils she has pushed the children to do some years back and all the misinformation she fed them about visitors that came.
The children seem to have also gone to pray and seek spiritual solution.
They have discovered the mother is the part reasons for all their predicament.
What can be done to such a family?
What is the solution!
They are all adults now and it's so sad that the division among them has made them a family living apart!

Time will heal them
Any effort to bring them together may not work now.

slimjohn2k5:
Time will heal them
Any effort to bring them together may not work now.

How many people out there time don heal, and this without serious effort on their part?

The man, the woman, the girl..........