Please Help,

Good day Nlers, honestly I don't know where to start from, but I'd be brief as possible.

There's this young girl I'm dating and intended getting married to, I have gone to see her parent to make my intentions known. She has met my family as well.

History of how we met and started dating. She's in her 20s, a student in a private Uni in the South
.We were introduced by a cousin-sister of mine. In which We saw/met in lagos briefly as her parents live in Ikeja, Lagos, while I live in Surulere. At the early stage, while I return from work, i would drive to her parents house, we chill and hangout, Before she went back to school.
We continued communication, chatted and all. Shared deep conversation, secrets etc. Introduced me to course mates all of them knew me. She couldn't do without, Talking or Video calling me daily. If my number is unreachable, she would call my cousin-sister to know my where abouts or complain 1 or toos. We'd settle, we were inseparable. My parents observed I was always on Video Calls and started smiling much, because I would be in their place to chill to avoid traffic, before I head to my house.

Now the Dilemma, she came back from school this Christmas. I went to visit her, took her on a date/outing. After that, we went to my place to drop some stuffs.
Then we had sex, we already know we were gonna have sex, as we were already gonna get married already. Yeah, the sex wasn't the bomb, I was tired from work and outing, but the 1st and 2nd rounds duration was atleast 40 mins total. She was wet and creaming. After a while, She pushed me off and said she's tired and mood has gone.
We were still all in love, i come over to her place, we hangout and chill. The days I'd be off work, I'd tell her to come. She would give one excuse or the other.

Then, recently she sent me a text in the morning,
She can't get married to me or else she would be having extra marital affairs.
Haaa, my head burst. What did I do? She said she wasn't feeling me! Eh??!!

Immediately, I chatted about 2 exs, 2 hookup girls and a girl I disvirgined.

The 2 exs and the virgin, we all had a bad break up. Because I wasn't in love with any of them, I just wanted to knack that's all. When I was only handsome no cash, girls no dey like me like that. With cash, the girls started loving me, I felt any girl that liked me was about money. So I treated them bad.
1 of the Ex, said that she (my gf) doesn't love me, if not she will feel me. That I can knack well, she dey cum steady, if I remember when she used to tell me.

2. The other ex told me, that my girl might be wide down there. That my dick is OK, she feels it when we knack.

3. The hookup Girl:- She just said, Me na Knackerdemus. I no allow am rest. Small money wey i pay am, I wan kill an with fvck and she orgasm twice, say she no fit forget me.

The Virgin: was still angry, no reply. I used about 9 days to deflower her. Wasted many ky jelly etc

I did the tissue roll test, my dick struggles to enter the hole, but it enter when I force it.

So I forwarded the replies to her.

She got angry and started insulting me, that I am an idiot, bla bla bla etc

Me too i lost my home training, called her Borehole pu,ssy, how a young girl go get a wide pus'sy, When did she start having se,x ? Abortions, Too much Blue films
I HAVE ALL THE SCREENSHOTS, but for privacy.

I really love her, but I'm trying to move on. Right now, my head has been messed up.

I need your inputs, opinions.
I have tried messaging Sir Dickson and Agba to get a wider reach and opinion.

Thanks

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Wahala

MackIV:
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Why do u delete d thread now

u hurriedly deleted the post for FEAR of ur GF flogging/beating u to stupor .



Living in bondage 5 🔥 🤪

Chibuzoripob:
u hurriedly deleted the post for FEAR of ur GF flogging/beating u to stupor .



Living in bondage 5 🔥 🤪

I have not finished editing it

money121:
Wahala

Lol, I haven't edited it yet

Keep on moving what other inputs do u need. She only told u the truth that she's not feeling u. She's not urs. U gain some and loose some. Ur both not sexually compatible

dkidd:
Keep on moving what other inputs do u need. She only told u the truth that she's not feeling u. She's not urs. U gain some and loose some. Ur both not sexually compatible

Thanks

Some girls don’t get satisfaction from only pounding. They like pre-intimacy more than actual sex.

On the other hand, there are girls who prefer good pounding to pre-intimacy.

The earlier you know girls are very complicated to understand the better your mental health

I can't waste my end of year advice untop this thread, I'll pass.


And op, you're still a child mentally.


Babe told you she ain't feeling you, you begin seek validation from exes and hook up partners then forwarded the messages to her, like who the hell does that?


Anyway that relationship is otilo, just find another girl date in 2024

MackIV:
Please Help,

Good day Nlers, honestly I don't know where to start from, but I'd be brief as possible.

There's this young girl I'm dating and intended getting married to, I have gone to see her parent to make my intentions known. She has met my family as well.

History of how we met and started dating. She's in her 20s, a student in a private Uni in the South
.We were introduced by a cousin-sister of mine. In which We saw/met in lagos briefly as her parents live in Ikeja, Lagos, while I live in Surulere. At the early stage, while I return from work, i would drive to her parents house, we chill and hangout, Before she went back to school.
We continued communication, chatted and all. Shared deep conversation, secrets etc. Introduced me to course mates all of them knew me. She couldn't do without, Talking or Video calling me daily. If my number is unreachable, she would call my cousin-sister to know my where abouts or complain 1 or toos. We'd settle, we were inseparable. My parents observed I was always on Video Calls and started smiling much, because I would be in their place to chill to avoid traffic, before I head to my house.

Now the Dilemma, she came back from school this Christmas. I went to visit her, took her on a date/outing. After that, we went to my place to drop some stuffs.
Then we had sex, we already know we were gonna have sex, as we were already gonna get married already. Yeah, the sex wasn't the bomb, I was tired from work and outing, but the 1st and 2nd rounds duration was atleast 40 mins total. She was wet and creaming. After a while, She pushed me off and said she's tired and mood has gone.
We were still all in love, i come over to her place, we hangout and chill. The days I'd be off work, I'd tell her to come. She would give one excuse or the other.

Then, recently she sent me a text in the morning,
She can't get married to me or else she would be having extra marital affairs.
Haaa, my head burst. What did I do? She said she wasn't feeling me! Eh??!!

Immediately, I chatted about 2 exs, 2 hookup girls and a girl I disvirgined.

The 2 exs and the virgin, we all had a bad break up. Because I wasn't in love with any of them, I just wanted to knack that's all. When I was only handsome no cash, girls no dey like me like that. With cash, the girls started loving me, I felt any girl that liked me was about money. So I treated them bad.
1 of the Ex, said that she (my gf) doesn't love me, if not she will feel me. That I can knack well, she dey cum steady, if I remember when she used to tell me.

2. The other ex told me, that my girl might be wide down there. That my dick is OK, she feels it when we knack.

3. The hookup Girl:- She just said, Me na Knackerdemus. I no allow am rest. Small money wey i pay am, I wan kill an with fvck and she orgasm twice, say she no fit forget me.

The Virgin: was still angry, no reply. I used about 9 days to deflower her. Wasted many ky jelly etc

I did the tissue roll test, my dick struggles to enter the hole, but it enter when I force it.

So I forwarded the replies to her.

She got angry and started insulting me, that I am an idiot, bla bla bla etc

Me too i lost my home training, called her Borehole pu,ssy, how a young girl go get a wide pus'sy, When did she start having se,x ? Abortions, Too much Blue films
I HAVE ALL THE SCREENSHOTS, but for privacy.

I really love her, but I'm trying to move on. Right now, my head has been messed up.

I need your inputs, opinions.
I have tried messaging Sir Dickson and Agba to get a wider reach and opinion.

Thanks

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Cc

Firstly, I will start by asking who are your male friends? Don't you have responsible male friends that can advise you.
Secondly: because of woman, you went to another women which were your ex for verification sake and sent there reply to your woman. From one woman to another women. And you say you brain should not scatter. You sure say your brain still dey work. Look at the way you are messing yourself up among female gender. Your real problem is that you don't understand woman. You don't know our to relate with female gender deep down and that is why they are messing with you real big. Guys don't you have male friends? Wow.
Forget about the sexual part, you are not good in relating to females in general. Bro, female don't deserve too much attention and they still need it. If you give it to her to much, you will be use and if you don't give her, you will still be use. As a guy dealing with female, you must be ontop of your game two four seven. You "f" off big time. My advice for you is that you should just move on because remaining with that lady will be forever regret in your life. Because you and the lady sexual life is destroyed already.

What other inputs do you need OP ...

Madam just told you that if both of you marry she will cheat on you, so what's the P? Abi do you want her to dash you another man's child? ...

You're seeing clear danger sign and instead of you to walk away immediately, you're asking for inputs ...

Abeg abort now while you still can, before you'll come and open another thread saying how you walked into your another man pounding your wife and how DNA confirmed that your 5 kids belong to your gate man ...

She just need some space... She will rediscover herself

Fahvvy:
What other inputs do you need OP ...

Madam just told you that if both of you marry she will cheat on you, so what's the P? Abi do you want her to dash you another man's child? ...

You're seeing clear danger sign and instead of you to walk away immediately, you're asking for inputs ...

Abeg abort now while you still can, before you'll come and open another thread saying how you walked into your another man pounding your wife and how DNA confirmed that your 5 kids belong to your gate man ...

Thanks!!!
Prior to this, I have blocked her everywhere. I'm trying to move on. I just need a Reality check.
Thanks. I'd have been busy, but my company is on holidays and i added my off time to the holidays. I don't really have who talk with. I'm a closeted person.

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Lol...she fit dey do hookup self. E get one hook up girl wey post video and pics of how her boyfriend proposed to her with ring...i just feel sorry for the nigger....if you get girl around Lagos, it is most likely she is into hookup. They don nack shege bansa for her body.

If this present lady is stressing you mentally, look for someone else.

Having sex only once Is no determinant of ones sexual prowess.

Even with a small Dickson one can still satisfy a woman in bed by applying other methods.

Sit her down and ask her the real reason why she is rejecting you. I don't really think its only the sex ish.

I'll just chip in one piece of advice:

When you have issues with a woman and you don't know how to go about it, don't ever and ever seek advice from her fellow woman. E get why.

Ur babe don meet one better big cock, when they twist her sense and give her all round pleasure.
Ur cock probably like a worm tickling her... .
You should be glad she told you the truth that if you guys married she will cheat on you...

Light993:
The last thing a decent man should worry about is a woman. A rapper once said, I've got 99 problems, but a bitttch ain't one.

Out of all the things to be bothered about, a woman shouldn't be part of them. If this present lady is stressing you mentally, look for someone else.

Yeah Thanks bro

JoshTim:
Lol...she fit dey do hookup self. E get one hook up girl wey post video and pics of how her boyfriend proposed to her with ring...i just feel sorry for the nigger....if you get girl around Lagos, it is most likely she is into hookup. They don nack shege bansa for her body.

Baba I thought about too as well, she always claimed God forbid she does things like that.
I'm of the opinion she started having sex very very early

richiemcgold:
I'll just chip in one piece of advice:

When you have issues with a woman and you don't know how to go about it, don't ever and ever seek advice from her fellow woman. E get why.

I wanted confirm from the other ladies, though we ended badly, but they were honest and truthful.
1 was begging me to comeback to her still.

I will comment when i read

Kingray10:
Ur babe don meet one better big cock, when they twist her sense and give her all round pleasure.
Ur cock probably like a worm tickling her... .
You should be glad she told you the truth that if you guys married she will cheat on you...

Yeah I guess.

When i dey carry babes..Girls use to say, I have normal size staff, not too small, not too big. That my girlfriend dey enjoy.
I believe her pun.ny had been blasted wide.

Truth is that that you girl ain't feeling you any longer. Mostly likely she is seeing someone that she feels more than you or she want still chop life as time still day and enjoy more guys too. You just want rush use marriage cage am. She most likely had sex with u to satisfy her conscience based on what u have invested into the relationship and to make sure she isn't missing any bed skills from you. She done taste u come see say u nor even Sabi reach people wen she don run package with... This bed skill nor be power o or how long.

Wetin dey shock you be say u fine and come get money so she nor get logical reason to reject you. True, but most girls don't reason with logic and you will be a fool to think you are the richest man to have ever approached her... Men wen hold serious block dey approach cleaner sef so no reason am.


Besides, have u never slept with someone and not feel that person again? Na this same thing don happen to you. Move on.

It's women that decides if a relationship will hold or not. That's the only greatest advantage they have over men. Thanks to mother nature.

A woman will remain with you if she sees you as her crown. Though they are immature in deep matters and how to forge along, however, their inputs matters. Whichever way they turn to can make or mar a relationship.

That's why as a man, you need settle down and scrutinize the kind of woman you'll want to spend a long-term relationship with.

If she's not feeling you, she isn't. She has her reasons. Maybe sexual incompatibility. Maybe a change of decision. Maybe a better suitor. Maybe. Maybe.

You don't need to force or persuade her to start feeling something again.

If she's no longer interested there's nothing you can do. If you eventually succeed to beg her to come back, you'll end up being the only one in the relationship.

She has already stated her reason. At least she's fair and sincere enough.

I don't know her level of investment in the relationship. But a woman who has invested much in a relationship and truly loves her man will help him when problem arises rather than come up with nonsensical reasons. That's what relationship in the normal sense ought to be, but unfortunate that it has been bastardized by the cynics, the immature, and id!ots.

Bro, I know you've invested much in the relationship. But see it as a price you needed to pay to understand the content of the women you intend to marry.

She has made her decision. Let her be.

Take your L. And move on.

Thanks.

Small pikin wey suppose face im life don let womanising finger im brain.

You don't have a direction yet in life, when you do, we will find out

She don tell you her mi d, count your losses and move on

Na you go dey waste resources on a Nigerian girl wey still Dey school, while you were treating her like wife material, holding her like egg because you want to “marry her” another niccca in her school was pummeling her with reckless abandonment, spread her wide like eagle, divide her butt cheek like the read sea and pin her hard on the wall, na why she no feel you again
You think all the living you and outing and gifts and visit to her parents is enough abi, Dey play my bro 😂😂😂


The hits you weren’t so committed to felt you and they really had their time and will still come around when you ask any of them to, what does that tell you

Once you figure the question above, you have your answer and you can then rightly move on with your life

Check in bro

Autobot05:
Check in bro

Sit this One out, its above your thought process

Joblessness much