[quote author=Taribizy post=127687727]What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses[/quote

Curses doesn't work.

papyjaypaul:


Men should start setting standards by protecting women. Real men stand up for women who their brothas will wife, they protect them when they go rogue because they are sistas. Standard is NOT impregnating a girl you are not married to. It's not leaving kids as b@$$tards and orphans while you are alive. That's a deadbeat man who gat no standard

Women don't need protection. Remember all of us are now equal. We now have strong women who don't need any man so stop looking down on our women please

benqo01:



So what re u saying here? Oga d relationship didn't work out, so because she had a child for him he shouldn't marry, he should remain single fot the rest of his life?

The guy didnt deny the child

She has to move on just as the guy did, what is there to complain about?

She probably got nothing on that guy if she did she would have spit it out.

So stop blaming the guy here

Ok . I blame the woman well well.

But the guy is also an irresponsible lout.

Some of you people, the day you have children is the day you go know say they are selfish people. They want their parents in their lives 24/7. You go see shege if they perceive you are spending 23.9 hours in their life each day.

That man will not be in that child's life. I have seen things like this before. Including one man whose mother was abandoned by his father. Up till today, him no wan talk to his papa at all. He has two boys. He never even carry them to him papa. All because of wayo.

Why can't we men control ourselves. Or once we see woman opening leg,we go jump?

Allthelight:
the guy will likely neglect the child in future....


If he won't why let the child stay at the mum's place

Have you thought if the girl objected to it, she looks razz enough to do it.

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

Na so.

But many people here no go hear am.

Some people need to see some of the things that have resorted from sleeping around.

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

And they haven't communicated since 2017, except when he wanted to talk to his child and when she needed money. How did you manage to miss that part?

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

Rest

StrongAlphMale:


This is what they use to manipulate men!

Was the girl forced to open her legs? Because I just don't get it.

Dude it's high time women start taking responsibility for their actions

Yes, and was the man forced to insert his blokos into the punnami?

The man is just as bad as the baby mama. I betcha he will stay outside his marriage.

The baby mama too no get sense, but the man was follish enough to fall for her charms. Weak man if you ask me

Jewessgratitud3:
Indecent but he slept with her and a fruit came out of that union... I no blame any guy that treats his baby Mama like trash because if she too closed legs all this nonsense will not even be coming up.

Meanwhile, you men think you're smart and can always have your way. When he was going to her he was enjoying and leading her on in the indecent lifestyle and didn't realize she was indecent. Now after getting his own share of the coochie he now turns and calls her indecent for the same thing he led her to do.

Girls una mumu na him too much. Continue sleeping around, na so dem go dey use una throwway until you girls learn to close your legs.

I knew this about men that was why I didn't take chances or let any of them do their play boy antics with me. I dont care if avoiding them made me single till today but at least I'm not a rejected single baby mama.

You girls gon lurn the hard way.

See the spelling of his "Allegation and labelled" sef..the kind thinz wen girls dey date sef. Tufiakwa.

Stop avoiding us please. Some of us are good boys

Oche211:
The guy dodged a bullet.
That lady na certified H*e. Go through her face book page.

Even she, won't support her own brother marrying a girl like herself.

Your mind dey there, Barman give him a chilled bottle of orijin

Oche211:
The guy dodged a bullet.
That lady na certified H*e. Go through her face book page.

Even she, won't support her own brother marrying a girl like herself.

Dodge which bullet?

Person wey know the girl na hoe, yet he still slept with her and fathered a child with her?

So he is leaving his child to be brought up by a hoe?

And you dey hail am?

Ok. O. When some of you people marry eventually, your eyes go open. I shall say no more.

The kids of this generation Dey joke with life, after fucking and having fun with the so called prostitute , useless woman, LovePeddler or anything una call her, she had a daughter for you now u found out she is toxic u can’t stay with her, then go and marry another decent woman u could stay with leaving her to her faith with ur own daughter, once a woman gives birth for you the connection is beyond what u can severe, the girls curse would be very potent and devastating in ur life, una think say life na social media

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly

e be like say u being get issue with one baby mama abi?

nairalanda1:


Dodge which bullet?

Person wey know the girl na hoe, yet he still slept with her and fathered a child with her?

So he is leaving his child to be brought up by a hoe?

And you dey hail am?

Ok. O. When some of you people marry eventually, your eyes go open. I shall say no more.

don’t mind kids they think say life na typing nonsense in naira land and social media, the girls curse would be very potent and devastating, the guy go hear am

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly

Egbon u de look 4 those hungry feminist trouble oo. My hand no dey

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

don't just read but read and understand. Is there any where it is stated that the guy doesn't take care of his child? Abi you just wan yarn rubbish

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly

Don't say what you don't know... It's brings down your intelligence and make you look like a Fisher man..
If your sister was raped and got pregnant and become a baby mama.. Will you be taking nonsense like this. No
Good.. If your sister as a Virgin, loved and believed a guy who promised her heaven and hell... Took her Virginity and in the process got her pregnant, denied the pregnancy and you did so called else brother couldn't do anything about it, and she ends up being a baby mama, will would come here and be talking like this.. NO
if your sister got married and the husband was beating her endlessly and she left the Marriage with 3 kids for her life... Will you be talking like? NO..
GOOD... so think before you speak... 2024 is a few days away... Be wise

247man:


This is not fair….

Truly, it is not fair.

But there are several things that majority of people interpret as black marks or a stain on your person.
Like a middle aged man still living with his parents.
Or in this case a single mother.

It's why I'm pro choice.
A woman will be guilt-tripped into keeping a pregnancy then be ostracized by the same society after doing the "right thing".

Nigerian men have dropped a lot of the standards they demand of women.
Meanwhile women keep raising the bar.
I'm all for single motherhood being a disqualifying metric. We have to make a stand at some point.

-Lord

His a sharp guy .. he knows what he wants

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

The guy is not smart. He is not managing this well
He doesn't know the fury of a pained woman It shouldn't be taken for granted

Usoplayed:
His a sharp guy .. he knows what he wants

His response shows he is not smart

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

He made her a baby mama...he dint meet her a baby mama...

The guy and the girl are immature

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

The fact is, he is the one who made her a baby mama. She had a child for him.

And you are here asking why he should not marry her? Infact in many of our cultures, forget religion of Christianity and Islam, he would have been obligated to marry her (I even know one tribe where the ability of the girl to get pregnant for you is proof she is going to be a good wife, and she would bear kids for you.)

You guys are defending him because many of you have been hurt by girls one way or the other, and you are conflating your expreience with his. Meanwhile, the guy went, had sex with a woman that he does not intend to marry, left her, and is now marrying a virgin....

(And how sure are we that the girl he is marrying hasn't played away game before).?


The baby mama should have closed her legs, and the silly man that fathered her child should have done, (once the girl opened her legs for him and said...Honey, come now)..like Joseph did when Potiphar's wife grabbed him.....RUN.....RUN....RUN...LIKE USAIN BOLT.n

Instead, they went at it like two bunnies in heat, and now they have achild who is going to suffer the consquences of the actions of two self centered twats.


(P,.S And surely HAVEN'T PEOPLE HEARD OF EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION? Postinor2 is widely available self).

papyjaypaul:


Men should start setting standards by protecting women. Real men stand up for women who their brothas will wife, they protect them when they go rogue because they are sistas. Standard is NOT impregnating a girl you are not married to. It's not leaving kids as b@$$tards and orphans while you are alive. That's a deadbeat man who gat no standard

What if the woman use her mouth to say the kids are not for the man and leaves with the kids. It's the man still a deadbeat by staying low to first understand things.?

Usoplayed:
His a sharp guy .. he knows what he wants

Sharp guy wey leave his pikin in the hands of a hoe, and slay mama?

Ok.o. Na so he get wisdom...

Zico5:
What was he doing with the girl in the first place if he knew he would not marry her. You were having sex with the girl u knew u won't marry without protection. Who do u want to leave her for after impregnating her. Some men don't have sense. Better go and pray cos the curse of these girls is potent.

It's a woman's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and not the man... just like it's a man's responsibility not to waste his funds on a woman... what of if the woman said she hates condoms , or assured the guy that she will not get pregnant, only for she to surprise him with the pregnancy news and pretended like she dint know how it happened ... we need to start holding women responsible for pregnancy and stop making them feel like it's a man's fault... as a woman we know , if we truly don't want to get pregnant, we will not ....so stop the pretence

royalfly:


What if the woman use her mouth to say the kids are not for the man and leaves with the kids. It's the man still a deadbeat by staying low to first understand things.?

In this case, the hoe actually had a child for him, so your scenairo does not apply.

It is his child. And the painful thing is that he thinks that by throwing money at the child, e go beta. Nothing like relationship, connection, friendship, etc. Just..here, take money.

Some of you guys, better get married. You go learn what it means to be a father. It is not that joker you are trying to defend.

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

Calm down na, haba.

Zico5:
What was he doing with the girl in the first place if he knew he would not marry her. You were having sex with the girl u knew u won't marry without protection. Who do u want to leave her for after impregnating her.

.... Both men and women make random choices when they are not ready for marriage and just wanna date for fvcks or money sake..

....Women just want things go the way they want all the time and be the only ones serving the breakfast expecting men to take it in calmly...

Abi u never see men crying they spend all their life on a woman and she will say she didn't promise him marriage or force him..??
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Abi U never see where man will want to be with a lady she got pregnant and a lady will say she never planned marriage with him and she will abort the pregnancy??

Everyone should make better choices and look out for themselves in the world of dating.....the gender that gets pregnant should be more careful spreading legs instead of assuming whenever they get pregnant it must be an automatic ticket to marriage..... What kinda dirty assumption is that.....?? That's how we have paternity fraud everywhere.....

For fvck sake it could be something worse like HIV/AIDs herpes, or something....

Probably they met each other in a club or sex house.


To hell with ashawo Nigerian girls

Beverlyjean:


It's a woman's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and not the man

Thanks for letting us men off the hook, darling

So, women have brains, and men are just dull automatons who just respond when women open their legs.

True, women should use their contraceptives, and also use other stuff like Postinor 2...(and if you do love deek...you can always have your tubes tied, darling. It would prevent them weasly buggers from entering d'eggs....)

... just like it's a man's responsibility not to waste his funds on a woman... what of if the woman said she hates condoms , or assured the guy that she will not get pregnant, only for she to surprise him with the pregnancy news and pretended like she dint know how it happened

Well, you can always postpone the boudoir activities with the handsome automation you have there until the brideprice has been paid, and then you can get down to it like them bunnies do, or you can just simply grit your teeth and enjoy sex with condoms....or you can always have your tubes tied, darling. Now available at your local gynecologist's . And for every happy accident...there is Postinor 2. Works every time. (Available at your local pharmacist).

... we need to start holding women responsible for pregnancy and stop making them feel like it's a man's fault... as a woman we know , if we truly don't want to get pregnant, we will not ....so stop the pretence

Okay. I here by propose a law, that when men marry women, they stay long enough to father five children with her, and then , leave the woman alone to assume responsiblity for all the children, financial and other wise, while they go find another mistress to rule over them.

Am sure you want your husband to do that for you darling.


Or we can stop the pretence. You are a man, and I claim my five thousand naira.