While I was was still working as an intern at an engineering firm back in 2021, some year 3 students came for their IT. One of the females was assigned under me, and we worked closely. We became very close and subsequently became intimate. She wanted a relationship, but I objected, giving her reasons.

We had sex a couple of times. Four times at my place (she slept over), once in a hotel, twice in my family house.

After my internship, our contact became minimal due to distance, but we talked occasionally. Trust me, there were no issues.

So last month we were talking and she was reminding me about the times we were still close, the intimacy we had and all of that. She proposed we had a sleep over cos she missed me on her and all of those talks..
She actually started doing naughty talks with me and was looking forward to our "one more night."
I obliged and we planned a weekend. I came back to PH. We met and after exchanging beautiful pleasantries, we headed straight to the hotel (it was not our first time using a hotel room to knack).

I paid for a room, 8k. We checked in, she said she was kinda hungry and needed to it.

We got out to chicken republic close by and purchased food for both of us, with drinks.

We got back to the room. We both ate. She went to have a shower, came back and wore a seductive night wear. I went to the shower too, joined her in bed.

Immediately, she became something else. Told me she wanted to sleep because she was tired.

I thought it was a joke. I let her rest for a while, but this babe went fully asleep.

I woke her up and kinda initiated some moves, she legit resisted me. Didn't allow me to touch her. I was frustrated but kept myself under control.

She didn't let me kiss her, touch her or even talked to her. In fact she asked me not to disturb her.

I just gave up, slept and decided not to bother her.

At dawn, 6am, I stood up, she was pressing her phone. I headed straight to the shower, took my bath, dressed up to I leave.

She greeted me and we acted like nothing had happened the previous night. She asked if I was going why I didn't talk to her.

She got dressed too and we left and I didn't mention a word.

Till date, I still can't understand why she did that. After all the prior talked and expectations, and after the money I spent.

My ego was bruised.

Did I simp in anyway?
I can't understand why she acted that way.
What did I do wrong?

Any explanation? So as to avoid such scenario in the future.

This is the first time I'm experiencing such a disappointment

Your spiritual aura was weak. There was nothing left for her to steal from. Boost ur spiritual aura by completing side quests

So, you booked hotel just to eat and sleep?

Next time, tell her you want to knack and if she's not down for it, tell her to leave the room that you want to call another girl to do what she failed to do.

ElBenny:


While I was was still working as an intern at an engineering firm back in 2021, some year 3 students came for their IT. One of the females was assigned under me, and we worked closely. We became very close and subsequently became intimate. She wanted a relationship, but I objected, giving her reasons.

We had sex a couple of times. Four times at my place (she slept over), once in a hotel, twice in my family house.

After my internship, our contact became minimal due to distance, but we talked occasionally. Trust me, there were no issues.

So last month we were talking and she was reminding me about the times we were still close, the intimacy we had and all of that. She proposed we had a sleep over cos she missed me on her and all of those talks..
She actually started doing naughty talks with me and was looking forward to our "one more night."
I obliged and we planned a weekend. I came back to PH. We met and after exchanging beautiful pleasantries, we headed straight to the hotel (it was not our first time using a hotel room to knack).

I paid for a room, 8k. We checked in, she said she was kinda hungry and needed to it.

We got out to chicken republic close by and purchased food for both of us, with drinks.

We got back to the room. We both ate. She went to have a shower, came back and wore a seductive night wear. I went to the shower too, joined her in bed.

Immediately, she became something else. Told me she wanted to sleep because she was tired.

I thought it was a joke. I let her rest for a while, but this babe went fully asleep.

I woke her up and kinda initiated some moves, she legit resisted me. Didn't allow me to touch her. I was frustrated but kept myself under control.

She didn't let me kiss her, touch her or even talked to her. In fact she asked me not to disturb her.

I just gave up, slept and decided not to bother her.

At dawn, 6am, I stood up, she was pressing her phone. I headed straight to the shower, took my bath, dressed up to I leave.

She greeted me and we acted like nothing had happened the previous night. She asked if I was going why I didn't talk to her.

She got dressed too and we left and I didn't mention a word.

Till date, I still can't understand why she did that. After all the prior talked and expectations, and after the money I spent.

My ego was bruised.

Did I simp in anyway?
I can't understand why she acted that way.
What did I do wrong?

Any explanation? So as to avoid such scenario in the future.

This is the first time I'm experiencing such a disappointment

Dude, you probably said something between the meal and the hotelroom.

I'm certain if you had asked her to be your girlfriend the night before , things might have gone differently.


Anyways, I must commend her. Seems like she must have watched this video on how to handle unclear commitment, the money obstacles and dead-end love interests.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk

The girl must have wanted a relationship and somewhere in your conversation, she quickly realised that she was nothing more than a bootycall, so she logged off. Ask yourself OP, what is so special about you, that a girl would sleep with you for free, without a relationship.

ElBenny:


While I was was still working as an intern at an engineering firm back in 2021, some year 3 students came for their IT. One of the females was assigned under me, and we worked closely. We became very close and subsequently became intimate. She wanted a relationship, but I objected, giving her reasons.

We had sex a couple of times. Four times at my place (she slept over), once in a hotel, twice in my family house.

After my internship, our contact became minimal due to distance, but we talked occasionally. Trust me, there were no issues.

So last month we were talking and she was reminding me about the times we were still close, the intimacy we had and all of that. She proposed we had a sleep over cos she missed me on her and all of those talks..
She actually started doing naughty talks with me and was looking forward to our "one more night."
I obliged and we planned a weekend. I came back to PH. We met and after exchanging beautiful pleasantries, we headed straight to the hotel (it was not our first time using a hotel room to knack).

I paid for a room, 8k. We checked in, she said she was kinda hungry and needed to it.

We got out to chicken republic close by and purchased food for both of us, with drinks.

We got back to the room. We both ate. She went to have a shower, came back and wore a seductive night wear. I went to the shower too, joined her in bed.

Immediately, she became something else. Told me she wanted to sleep because she was tired.

I thought it was a joke. I let her rest for a while, but this babe went fully asleep.

I woke her up and kinda initiated some moves, she legit resisted me. Didn't allow me to touch her. I was frustrated but kept myself under control.

She didn't let me kiss her, touch her or even talked to her. In fact she asked me not to disturb her.

I just gave up, slept and decided not to bother her.

At dawn, 6am, I stood up, she was pressing her phone. I headed straight to the shower, took my bath, dressed up to I leave.

She greeted me and we acted like nothing had happened the previous night. She asked if I was going why I didn't talk to her.

She got dressed too and we left and I didn't mention a word.

Till date, I still can't understand why she did that. After all the prior talked and expectations, and after the money I spent.

My ego was bruised.

Did I simp in anyway?
I can't understand why she acted that way.
What did I do wrong?

Any explanation? So as to avoid such scenario in the future.

This is the first time I'm experiencing such a disappointment

Serves both of you very well.
You don't want a relationship but you can have sex with her.
And the girl is even more stupid,daft and shameless for spreading her useless legs for a man who doesn't want her romantically.
A goat has more sense than the girl.
Well if not that she's a slut,no sensible girl would have sex with a man who doesn't want her except for sex.
And you Op,do you know whether she's on a mission to deposit something negative in your life?
If not,how would you explain her sudden acting up?
Though there may be other reasons for it.
ADVICE.
Don't sleep with any girl you don't want romantically, except she is a runs girl.
Some girls can be dangerous psychopaths and will kill any man they feel spurned them.They abound here,not only in the West.
2. Try to get romantically involved and have sex only with the one you truly love.
3.Dont sleep around like a dog in heat.It never ends well.What you just experienced is just the beginning of what lies beneath.
If you are sensible and wise and willing to learn, take my advice, and you will never encounter girl problems in your life.
Good luck.

That why we don't recommend taking them to hotels

Invite her to your crib. If she f_ucks up, her cup of tea

ElBenny:


While I was was still working as an intern at an engineering firm back in 2021, some year 3 students came for their IT. One of the females was assigned under me, and we worked closely. We became very close and subsequently became intimate. She wanted a relationship, but I objected, giving her reasons.

We had sex a couple of times. Four times at my place (she slept over), once in a hotel, twice in my family house.

After my internship, our contact became minimal due to distance, but we talked occasionally. Trust me, there were no issues.

So last month we were talking and she was reminding me about the times we were still close, the intimacy we had and all of that. She proposed we had a sleep over cos she missed me on her and all of those talks..
She actually started doing naughty talks with me and was looking forward to our "one more night."
I obliged and we planned a weekend. I came back to PH. We met and after exchanging beautiful pleasantries, we headed straight to the hotel (it was not our first time using a hotel room to knack).

I paid for a room, 8k. We checked in, she said she was kinda hungry and needed to it.

We got out to chicken republic close by and purchased food for both of us, with drinks.

We got back to the room. We both ate. She went to have a shower, came back and wore a seductive night wear. I went to the shower too, joined her in bed.

Immediately, she became something else. Told me she wanted to sleep because she was tired.

I thought it was a joke. I let her rest for a while, but this babe went fully asleep.

I woke her up and kinda initiated some moves, she legit resisted me. Didn't allow me to touch her. I was frustrated but kept myself under control.

She didn't let me kiss her, touch her or even talked to her. In fact she asked me not to disturb her.

I just gave up, slept and decided not to bother her.

At dawn, 6am, I stood up, she was pressing her phone. I headed straight to the shower, took my bath, dressed up to I leave.

She greeted me and we acted like nothing had happened the previous night. She asked if I was going why I didn't talk to her.

She got dressed too and we left and I didn't mention a word.

Till date, I still can't understand why she did that. After all the prior talked and expectations, and after the money I spent.

My ego was bruised.

Did I simp in anyway?
I can't understand why she acted that way.
What did I do wrong?

Any explanation? So as to avoid such scenario in the future.

This is the first time I'm experiencing such a disappointment

You just want sex but she wants a relationship, you guys aren't on same page, that's why she refused to open her legs for you... She might really like you enough to be pushing for a relationship, most Nigerian girls i know wouldn't give a Bleep, they would just openly demand money from you in exchange for their bodies⚠️

So OP do the math yourself, if you like her you can give her a try... She might be a good woman to you, but if you don't please take a walk now abeg🙄

We have many pressing issues in this country already 🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️

Onyiiobi7735:

Serves both of you very well.
You don't want a relationship but you can have sex with her.
And the girl is even more stupid,daft and shameless for spreading her useless legs for a man who doesn't want her romantically.
A goat has more sense than the girl.
Well if not that she's a slut,no sensible girl would have sex with a man who doesn't want her except for sex.
And you Op,do you know whether she's on a mission to deposit something negative in your life?
If not,how would you explain her sudden acting up?
Though there may be other reasons for it.
ADVICE.
Don't sleep with any girl you don't want romantically, except she is a runs girl.
Some girls can be dangerous psychopaths and will kill any man they feel spurned them.They abound here,not only in the West.
2. Try to get romantically involved and have sex only with the one you truly love.
3.Dont sleep around like a dog in heat.It never ends well.What you just experienced is just the beginning of what lies beneath.
If you are sensible and wise and willing to learn, take my advice, and you will never encounter girl problems in your life.
Good luck.

Though harsh, but I learnt a lotta lessons here. Thanks gee

TheDarkporeShow:


Dude, you probably said something between the meal and the hotelroom.

I'm certain if you had asked her to be your girlfriend the night before , things might have gone differently.


Anyways, I must commend her. Seems like she must have watched this video on how to handle unclear commitment, the money obstacles and dead-end love interests.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk

The girl must have wanted a relationship and somewhere in your conversation, she quickly realised that she was nothing more than a bootycall, so she logged off. Ask yourself OP, what is so special about you, that a girl would sleep with you for free, without a relationship.

I said nothing wrong at all. We laughed, gisted and even danced together somewhere along. But she mentioned something like body pains due to post ovulation something something. I'm not sure

Watch blue film and jerk off that who're off yuur mind

Girls are this way , she was only trying to make u work harder to get her sexually. Kinda she wants u to beg for sex , d same way she has been begging for a relationship and u no gree date her . Its 50/50 man.

ElBenny:

Though harsh, but I learnt a lotta lessons here. Thanks gee

You are welcome. Sorry if I sounded harsh.

she wanted you to see her differently

babe was trying to see if you fell in love(grown affection for her) with her or you were just still lusting after her,i guess she got her response or probably her period started in the shower and ruined her plans.these two things i mentioned,but man you had to travel to smash this girl?she must be good.she sha control you out of your hiding with her warmhole ,so its a kinda simping tho.

madscientist88:
babe was trying to see if you fell in love(grown affection for her) with her or you were just still lusting after her,i guess she got her response or probably her period started in the shower and ruined her plans.these two things i mentioned,but man you had to travel to smash this girl?she must be good.she sha control you out of your hiding with her warmhole ,so its a kinda simping tho.

Travel to smash? Lol no. I was already going to be in PH that weekend, hence the linkup

ElBenny:


Travel to smash? Lol no. I was already going to be in PH that weekend, hence the linkup

okay but you got my reasons, may be one of the two.

One of the losses, move on

Don’t bother to ask her any question act like nothing happened

She will come around again, I hope you are wiser now

OP self check am nah, you expect a lady whom age is not really on her side to be doing hookup with a gentleman that is doing well?
She might sensed that na only nacj you want. If you want to nack, there are call girls you can use to relieve stress.
Free the young lady.

Bros you for pay for another cheaper room for her, tell her say you wan use the 8k room Bleep say another babe dey come

Could be revenge...


Maybe she came back for payback.

Or maybe she outgrew the fantasy... Could be she realized this after meeting up with you!

ElBenny:

Though harsh, but I learnt a lotta lessons here. Thanks gee

You are welcome. Sorry if I sounded harsh.