Happy new year my brothers and sisters. This message is strictly for our men especially the married amongst us.

Going by the economic situation in the country,I wish to say here,that many families are going through hell on earth here in Nigeria and because of that,I want to let u know that giving birth to many children would cripple u and further diminish the happiness u may have had earlier.

I have personally witnessed where some women beg for food after delivery from other women who had babies like them,this is because things aren't what it used to be and yet,they have a new born even extreme poverty. But why?

Further more,when u hear ur wife saying harder,harder-pls use ur head not to pour inside irresponsibly,it will erode ur happiness and joy,it will devastate ur economic life especially if u don't have enough to cater for ur family,giving birth to unprepared child can drain ur time,happiness and capacity.

I was at Maitama hospital in the month of November 2023...and I saw first hand how bad the situation of this country has badly deteriorated such that able- bodied men could not afford hospital bills,baby wares and stuffs like that. It may also interest u to know that,cost of medicines have equally gone so high that many families may actually not be able to afford it too.

Lastly,let us all live a life we can afford and let us quit competing with friends,colleague,neighbours and brothers. In fact, there is a saying in igbo land that"we don't boast with children because no one knows what tomorrow would be" based on this,I can vividly say even if u give birth to 20children it's not a guarantee that they will become successful.

Therefore,let us live according to our incomes and not over stretch ourselves and further embarrassed our family members.

Thanks

Aptly said Mr nice2023

In times like this....2-3 kids are okay,nor be to litter the house with kids you cannot feed.

This economy right now isn't friendly...All hands must be on deck.

Please quit engaging in competitive lifestyles and stop trying to impress people wey nor send you.

Me don talk ever since

Live according to your means

No dey gender bias

Single men should also read this, 9 months no dey long again once you don give woman belle

Make sure your wife /Husband dey hustle hard too....E get why!Even Tombrown don cost now

When you go harder in the other room.

Ensure to go harder with ur hustle.

Modern men and women don’t even want to marry again unlike before.

Many are just marrying and have kids because of societal pressure. I don’t really sees what men are gaining from marriage unlike in the past.

This year my aim is to get a land and start a mini project. Businesses are not doing too well this period and its the wrong time to start a new business.

Many people just de japa. Population keep expanding, no jobs, inflation and insecurity. poor man will be thinking of having more children while the rich is having panic attack.

Rich men don’t want to be poor, scared of going broke and they don’t expect anything from their kids. Instead they want to give to them and that’s why they are scared of more children.

Therefore, let us live according to our incomes and not over stretch ourselves and further embarrassed our family members.

Tell that to the Alhajis up north who are actively seeding women after 30/40 children. They hardly recognize thier offsprings as they are so many.

ahnie:
In times like this....2-3 kids are okay,nor be to litter the house with kids you cannot feed.

This economy right now isn't friendly...All hands must be on deck.

Please quit engaging in competitive lifestyles and stop trying to impress people wey nor send you.

More Children equals more investments that would yield more returns in future😉

Kemadealadire:

More Children equals more investments that would yield more returns in future😉

Dey play