I feel like we have a bad blood in
Our family and I may not want to
Make babies that carry same.

The thing is, I don't want to blame my wife or the children because some people grow up not knowing where what is doing them is coming from! So, my best bet will be to get married to a humble woman that I will enjoy life with. Then we just adopt two kids and train them because we might not have enough money to send a whole battalion to school!

So, it's either the blood they carry come from another source which we can manage or it comes from my wife's side (if they are good) because if my children should carry my own blood, it means that I am finished because with the way we were raised, nobody has the time to act accordingly except on rare occasions because we believe that life is just meant to be lived until God decides its end!

Now, I want to raise my own family but I am scared to the bone marrow! Considering my environment, people talk to elders anyhow and it might have found its way to the blood and if this same blood should be transferred to the next generation through childbirth, then family might not be the golden song we hope to sing.

To keep the family strong and healthy, I am thinking of adopting two children immediately after marriage and look after them with carefulness. So, let me know if I have better options.

Thank you in advance!

Schoolguy9:

So, it's either the blood they carry come from another source which we can manage or it comes from my wife's side (if they are good) because if my children should carry my own blood, it means that I am finished

and the children you want to adopt are straight from heaven and birthed by the most chaste celestials. na wah

What do you mean by "bad blood?" Do you have HIV or Hepatitis in your blood?

U are confused

It's very good that you knew the source of the problem, take a look back how your parents raised you drop the bad ones and take the good one

I titled this the ordeals of an SS patient

Acidosis:


What do you mean by "bad blood?" Do you have HIV or Hepatitis in your blood?

Nah, too funny.

You better birth your own kids and raise them in a nice environment and teach them good morals
"The devil u know is better than the angel you haven't seen"

This your reason for adoption is not the best

The thing is, we talk too much in our family and the thing is affecting us now because whatever a person fails to handle well and stop, it turns into a habit!

Now, my fear is that such a habit might be transmitted to the next generation through blood and I wouldn't want anyone shouting around me in the future.

My fear minimal but I wouldn't want to blame another person tomorrow!