Straight to the point nlanders, What are your short term goals on a first outing? Like what are the things you plan to acheive,gain,deliver on a first date ?

Lol,
funny enough my short tern goal is usually "reorientating",
That is to say, shifting her from the "billing lane" to the "emotional lane" lol damn me.

codedgalaxy:
Straight to the point nlanders,
What are your short term goals on a first outing?
Like what are the things you plan to acheive,gain,deliver on a first date ?

No plans. Just make her happy on the first date, no be pussy you wan forrk, try to make her happy some go give you puzzy some will not

SHIVA001:

No plans. Just make her happy on the first date, no be pussy you wan forrk, try to make her happy some go give you puzzy some will not

isnt that suppose to be her job.
How can i be paying for stuffs and you still beign moody damn.
I will just ditch you "asap",

Lol na so i control one "ent" this evening cause i was on vibes.
Say make she come around come chill, she come dey do like "tiger generator", na so i vex take the two initial orders quench am both mine and her's as chelsea just dey win match for me lol.
I don finish make i go she started calling me dat she don book bolt, she's coming out. Na so i tell her say make she dey her house.
damn her.

codedgalaxy:
Straight to the point nlanders,
What are your short term goals on a first outing?
Like what are the things you plan to acheive,gain,deliver on a first date ?

Hear her out.

Let her just talk, lets discuss random things, so I can have an assessment of the content of her mind, and perhaps, her character. On the first date, I do not expect anything other than just to talk.

And before we even meet to talk, we must have ben doing it online, then the next stage is physical meetup.

We will do it in a public place, and I will pay of course, but at a very basic location, just in case either of us ghost the other, I won't feel pained than I gave an idiot a royal treatment.

Expensive dates can happen incrementally, as we integrate into each others life, but not on the first date. Infact on the first date, she better impress me, and hopefully, she is impressed by me, otherwise, feel free to forget me if you dont like what you see. I am fine.

codedgalaxy:
Lol na so i control one "ent" this evening cause i was on vibes.
Say make she come around come chill, she come dey do like "tiger generator", na so i vex take the two initial orders quench am both mine and her's as chelsea just dey win match for me lol.
I don finish make i go she started calling me dat she don book bolt, she's coming out. Na so i tell her say make she dey her house.
damn her.

I am curious o, are Nigerians that rich that everyone going on a date uses Bolt? Ride-hailing services are not public transport per se because they charge higher than standard city's taxis. What is wrong with using public transport?

Gerrard59:


I am curious o, are Nigerians that rich that everyone going on a date uses Bolt? Ride-hailing services are not public transport per se because they charge higher than standard city's taxis. What is wrong with using public transport?

The irony is she will use public transport to places like maybe church, schools, work, market etc,

But as soon as a date is involved, then it must be Uber. Forming big girl on top a man's money. If you're high class, then book and pay for yourself, but no, a man must pay.

I can understand if she is already a wife, fiancee, or even girlfriend, but at the preliminary stage, there is no humility at all.

The heavy monetization of relationships is Nigeria turns me off. If you've experienced love elsewhere, you'll be utterly and totally disgusted by it.

Gerrard59:


I am curious o, are Nigerians that rich that everyone going on a date uses Bolt? Ride-hailing services are not public transport per se because they charge higher than standard city's taxis. What is wrong with using public transport?

lol,
Is not their fault everyone wants to make a good/rich impression on strangers that dont give a f*ck about their existence.

I dont know if there are other peoplo on this same boat with me, cause i for one dont like impressing anybody. Infact, instead of my buying an iphone of say 500k for one girl like that in other to "impress" her that i am rich, i rather use the money and buy for myself and "oppress" her lol

Up ur game