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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:27pm On Jan 10
luminouz:

And you are a liar!!!


Are you him?
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by luminouz(m): 12:42pm On Jan 10
UyaiIncomparabl:


Are you him?
Are you him too?

You just summarized his existence because he is a strict dude. Haba.
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by Appletek: 12:53pm On Jan 10
JovialJune:

If your brain had the capacity to think logically, you'd have been able to know that you don't choose between love or respect for parents, but then, it's very obvious there are so many senseless, daft, dull guys roaming free on this forum.

K
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by ExudeLoveToAll: 1:07pm On Jan 10
freshvine:
When you guys are finally married, you'll be saying "sorry " to your wives for no reason.

You'll all understand that women are always right...anything after that is the beginning of a new argument.

This is a wrong idealogy.

A man who starts with sorry will end up with sorry.

Every man should know when to draw the line from the beginning, if any one stats saying yes to women wether good bad or ugly that man will forever say yes to his doom.

See the mentality you have, sorry for that man who spends his life with that kind of woman. You should do what is right and not insist s man accepts your opinion always even when your opinion is trash.

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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by Badmashii(m): 1:16pm On Jan 10
freshvine:


A lady will apologize to you before marriage but you'll start from where she stopped in marriage to the very end.

Banny try to give yourself brain. There are two types of men. The simp and the wise one.

There's a law of power that stated "ALWAYS KNOW WHO YOU'RE DEALING WITH".
So as a lady you should try to know the kind of man you're rolling with

If na simp then you go know the kind of tactics to apply on the unfortunate fool. On the other hand if na wise guys like me...you better watch out.
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by Demigod22: 1:40pm On Jan 10
Myer:

Exactly why you're attracting such girls. You yourself are manipulative.
Be straight-up with people and you'll attract more straight-up people.
True story.

You think your personality are largely responsible for the kind of people you attract? Do you consider environment? Circumstances and other natural and external factors?

I don't go about gaslighting people, I am just on guard to avoid being manipulated.

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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by Myer(m): 2:05pm On Jan 10
Demigod22:


You think your personality are largely responsible for the kind of people you attract? Do you consider environment? Circumstances and other natural and external factors?

I don't go about gaslighting people, I am just on guard to avoid being manipulated.
Your personality is your spirit and yes, it attracts and repels other spirits.
It is ok to have knowledge of the manipulative ways of psychology and astrology etc to be immune to it however, it is usually difficult to know these things and not use them deviously unless you know a better way that works effectively. And that's what happened with me. I was also manipulative and subtly controlling until I knew the better way in Christ.
Just be a Truthful person and walk in Love.

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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by rickleye: 2:18pm On Jan 10
StrongAlphMale:
Nige guys are regarded as Simp.
Nevertheless the below says it all


That’s a stupid girl. And it goes to show that in our core most of us are selfish. A guy agrees and says yes and instead of you to honour him you break up with him and take advantage of him.
He’s not stupid it’s just love and if you loved him even with a pinch of salt you’ll take up that role of aggression in the relationship.

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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by MySolace: 3:05pm On Jan 10
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Right now, I'm drowned in the kindness I've shown towards my woman....E come be like say she use jazz take do me angry. Abi she even squeeze me inside coca cola bottle angry.

The greatest lesson I learned last year was that--"Don't be too nice towards humans,if not, they'll take you for granted"
U've spoken d mind of many...
Sometimes e dey b like jazz...

But, if u don't behave da way to every lady out there, dat it's just towards dis particular one, den, it could be pure affection.
I don't think it's bad... It can only be bad wen it's everyone.

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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by StrongAlphMale: 7:24pm On Jan 10
rickleye:



That’s a stupid girl. And it goes to show that in our core most of us are selfish. A guy agrees and says yes and instead of you to honour him you break up with him and take advantage of him.
He’s not stupid it’s just love and if you loved him even with a pinch of salt you’ll take up that role of aggression in the relationship.

I love your simpleton comment. Keep it up
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by almarthins(m): 7:37pm On Jan 10
grin grin
Lastmankc:
My woman is even afraid of me because of my authoritative attitude.I am just trying to bend so of my ways now because of the woman in my life.It touches me when she looks terrify because of my Nature.

Make u no get authority, u become endanger specie
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by FRANCISTOWN: 8:46pm On Jan 10
freshvine:
When you guys are finally married, you'll be saying "sorry " to your wives for no reason.

You'll all understand that women are always right...anything after that is the beginning of a new argument.
I didn't grow up in this kinna house where my father apologized to my mum for doing nothing wrong.

Also, I haven't seen where my uncles apologized to their wives while they are innocent.

I've never seen my brothers in-law apologize to my sisters for not doing anything wrong.

Oftentimes, people talk based on what they've seen and experienced.

An eagle that grows up among chickens may never learn to fly.

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Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by reddingtonblack: 7:04am On Jan 11
There is nothing wrong with being Nice, over doing it is what is wrong besides Over doing anything is wrong in ALL

IF you ask me for something as long as it within my power why not, that is nice

BUt i don't think there is line btwn being Nice and being a Push over, All push over would be seen as Nice but All Nice people are push overs, sometimes brain dey touch cheesy
Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by WoroSeeWoro(m): 7:30am On Jan 15
JovialJune:





Seun this is the misogyny we are talking about, they end up insulting all nigerian ladies instead of the particular person in the discussion, with Op approving the evil stance which obviously is the reason he created this thread.

what do u mean mysogyny truth is bitter

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