Where do I start from

Hmmm,

We both love each other, two young lovers with plans of getting married and settling down together. We made love and I didn't remove my di*k on time so as to stop the sperm from entering her, now she is showing signs of pregnancy, she is feeling feverish, has headache and low appetite, she says she doesn't want to use test strip, that she wants to wait till month end so as to check if she will see her period.

I am kinda scared of being a father at this present time, I am 26 and she is 20, I have assured her that if it comes out that she is pregnant that I will take full responsibility, but damn, the fear of fatherhood is the beginning of wisdom.

I pray she sees her period, cos if she doesn't, then I pray we both are financially stable to build our family.

Seeing her smile is my happiness, imagine the joy I will get when I finally see my lookalike. I will love to be a father but the current state of the country is giving me a pessimistic feeling that financial constraint might come into place, cos financially I am just managing. I am independent and I don't rely on my parent, but my job just doesn't pay too well.

I just need advice from people with kids, what steps should I take from here.

*Politeness*
Congrats
Kindly, is this a made-up story?

Nairaland have really helped many people, and some other people have got their heads messed up reading some posts here in Nairaland

(Op what is "I pray she see her period. I pray we are financially stable)"

Did you both sinners remember to pray before you both had the fvck section?!


You are 26 years and she's 20 years old. How comes are you not afraid of having intercourse, but you are afraid to be a prepared father.

We will not advice you to pull the pregnancy down Op

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Congrats
Kindly, is this a made-up story?

Made up story by 4am?

Bro/Sir, I have important things on my head to start cooking up stories.

which means if there's job and the economy is okay our population will skyrocket o.

Tell your girlfriend to go and do pregnancy blood test first , na just 2k

silvoclaira:
Your GF is pregnant for another man

No, I am certain about that.

I honestly know the person I am dating, to an extent tho, and although the female gender can't be entirely trusted......but I know she ain't pinning another man sperm on me.

I actually cum in her, and poured the rest on the bed......I am damn certain

A person who is there physically but miles away emotionally.

Something happened that has greatly affected them to they point where they withdraw to the last safe place, where nobody can get to them. Their mind.

They keep their own counsel.

No one gets let inside their impenetrable walls.

They may no longer care about anything because they have been mistreated and pushed past the limits of care and understanding.

Some stay alone in a room with the door closed just tending to their own selves.

A person who seeks his or her own satisfaction out of life and has completely abandoned whatever they once loved.

A person who humbly doesn't mind dying because of loss or utter betrayal. They may not actively seek it but they definitely won't try hard to get out of the way.

A person who has seen too much and has a blank lifeless stare

AlphaNugget:

Made up story by 4am?

Bro/Sir, I have important things on my head to start cooking up stories.

Yes we read a lot of made up stories here, but if 4.am is the issue, then I think he the Op posted it by 4.am due to his troubles unable to catch a good sleep or is restless with a worried mind all because if the pregnancy incoming

you mean a girl that want to have a child for you doesn't listen to you?

she might not even be pregnant, the earlier you guys find out the better.

AlphaNugget:
Babe is actually scared

jumokeadele:
you mean a girl that want to have a child for you doesn't listen to you?

she might not even be pregnant, the earlier you guys find out the better.

No, she actually told me about this pregnancy stuff last night.

I will buy the test strip today and invite her over, then propose that she runs the test.

AlphaNugget:

Made up story by 4am?

Bro/Sir, I have important things on my head to start cooking up stories.

*Politeness*
Wow! That means you are one in a million!
99.9% of stories like this on NL are either embellished or totally made up!
*I love when people think I'm male. Love it!

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
Wow! That means you are one in a million!
99.9% of stories like this on NL are either embellished or totally made up!
*I love when people think I'm male. Love it!

You a female?

Your moniker and your way of writing sounds more manlike. Damn.

And what is with you and your "Politeness" trademark? You sound like that guy that always starts/end with "wittyness"

AlphaNugget:

You a female?

Your moniker and your way of writing sounds more manlike.

My moniker? How many males on NL would have polite in their monikers when there are monikers like "pussyeater" to be taken?!

PoliteActivist:


My moniker? How many males on NL would have polite in their monikers when there are monikers like "pussyeater" to be taken?!

You never can tell.

One might decide to answer PoliteAlpha as his moniker

I pray she conceive of twins. Congrats bro

[quote author=AlphaNugget post=127947094]Where do I start from


the fear of fatherhood is the beginning of wisdom.
I will love to be a father but the current state of the country is giving HMMM SMH

AlphaNugget:
You never can tell.

One might decide to answer PoliteAlpha as his moniker

*Politeness*
Nah. "Alphas" of NL don't play polite

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂


You must be a joker


If you had really considered all the fears you listed up there, esp with your poor job pay .... The economy isn't even helping... you will would have known that it was enough for you to either abstain or buy rubber for the third leg... I have no ounce of sympathy for you ..

You and your 20 year old gf are part of Nigeria s problems.... You people will see bad things, know these things are bad and will still chuk eyes, hands, 👄 and 🦵 inside.. when kasala burst, you will start running helter skelter

Don't worry her smiles will pull you both through

You didn't make love you had sex and it resulted to a lovely product of sex.


Congratulations, we are waiting for invite

Congrats man. You should be happy.

Dm me let me be the first to buy you pampers diapers.
Welcome to fatherhood son

AlphaNugget:

Made up story by 4am?

Bro/Sir, I have important things on my head to start cooking up stories.

Make sure you teach him sure 2odds right from birth

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Congrats
Kindly, is this a made-up story?

Congratulations in advance

Keep it high as you have made up your mind to keep the pregnancy

Well after the birth, assist her with the child and when the child gets to about 1/2yrs

Hand the child over to your mum and btoh of you should plan for your future

Be using condom till you are stable to raise another child

This particular one will seat you up properly to stand up and face it

You will survive.

Just live it. One day at a time. Before you know. U don old and die

U wan dey toast her
?

AlphaNugget:

You a female?

Your moniker and your way of writing sounds more manlike. Damn.

And what is with you and your "Politeness" trademark? You sound like that guy that always starts/end with "wittyness"

seanery:

U wan dey toast her
?

Guy!!!!

Sigh

ValCon888:
Dm me let me be the first to buy you pampers diapers.
Welcome to fatherhood son

ezegenigbonine:
I pray she conceive of twins. Congrats bro

Twin ain't the plan for now

Are you sure it's your baby that's in her tummy kicking??

If you agree to keep this one. Just don't add another till around three years later.

AlphaNugget:
sure

Hope you've gotten her take on the issue?

I mean so she wouldn't end up as a single mum.

If you know you'll never be satisfied with her as your wife, I suggest you think deep before making a choice.

Congratulations papa ejima. My sis sells baby things. Thanks for your patronage in advance.