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| How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 6:25am On Jan 21 |
I worked with a company ( can't mentioned name) around Second rainbow in mile 2 Lagos. so on Friday I decided to hire an aboki to help me supply my customers with our products bcz some of the products are heavy. I actually got the Aboki from one of my customers because she knows how heavy some of our products can be but unfortunately the Aboki can't speak or write. Now after we closed for the day, actually I ought to have taken him back to where I picked him from but because of fuel wahala of driving for about 30mins before I will get to his destination, I decided to call someone close to my office gate to speak Hausa to the Aboki if he actually know his way. They spoke and Aboki confirmed to him that he knows his way, so I decided to give him transportation and I drove to the office Now, yesterday,very early in the morning,that my customer that referral the Aboki to me called me that they are yet to see the Aboki since he left with me, and I called her to info her when the Aboki left on Friday . She is now threatening me that she will deal with me if I refused to come see her in her shop, and according to her that aboki's have taken over her shop till the found their brother... and I was instructed not to go because of how dangerous some of these aboki's can be in a situation like this. I went to the police station at Amuwo odofin to make an official report but I was also referral to another station at Orile to go make report. Attached below is the picture of the Aboki, in case you see him around mile2/Oshodi, ring me on ..08176573115. Please what should do because am very sick with these whole thing 2 Likes
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| Re: How Can I Handle This? by LEARNPYTHON(m): 6:32am On Jan 21 |
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| Re: How Can I Handle This? by munavi: 6:32am On Jan 21 |
Hmm. Does the man not have a phone his family can call him on? Make e no be say e don join trailer go North.  3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 6:38am On Jan 21 |
munavi: I didn't see any phone with him the very day we worked |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by Coolsat(m): 6:46am On Jan 21 |
Kai this is serious, just pray for him to be found |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by burp18: 6:47am On Jan 21 |
What time did he leave? Was it already late? Could it be he was arrested? Seeing he's not from around that area people may find him suspicious? Or his lost his way maybe. Your best case here is to put the word out to as many people as possible. |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 6:55am On Jan 21 |
burp18: I dropped him around 4:26pm. I just found out that he is new in Lagos and no one told me about that. |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by money121(m): 7:06am On Jan 21 |
This wahala pro Max oo  But Aboki mean friend now 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by Rexymania(m): 7:10am On Jan 21 |
Una too dey take risk. Anoki no dey your own area ey you for call? 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by JASONjnr(m): 7:37am On Jan 21 |
peretei2024: You don't have any blame here. You contracted him for a job and paid for the services. You weren't going to babysit him all day or tour around with him. But I am afraid for you because the police station you went to is filled with them and you might likely not get justice if you eventually get to court. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by burp18: 7:46am On Jan 21 |
peretei2024:try to relax. He probably lost his way, or worst case scenario was arrested. He'll come around. You did nothing wrong 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by MumEmdy(f): 8:15am On Jan 21 |
Was there any agreement that you will be returning the Aboki to his base after work? If no then you don't have to worry since the Aboki is not a baby. You should report whoever threatened to deal with you instead. |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 8:30am On Jan 21 |
MumEmdy: I don't have any written agreement with anyone but that my customer that hand him over to me said I should bring him to her shop once I close for the day so he can follow his fellow aboki's to go home. But I told her I will try |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by stacyadams: 8:47am On Jan 21 |
peretei2024: Simple instructions "take him to her shop once you close for the day" 11 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by laivwire(m): 10:02am On Jan 21 |
This situation can snowball and get out of hand. Don't go to your friend's shop just yet. Inform her about the whole thing on the phone. Now you have to track a radius of about 2km from your place. Check all the Hausa settlements/mosques within these areas as well. That's where he would likely go if he gets lost. That's hoping the guy hasn't gone far. How many days has this event happened? The earlier the better. You can also check the police stations around in case they have him. If these mallams do not see their brother, they would come for the woman who would in turn come for you and by that time, you can't speak Hausa to defend yourself. Police no go save you o. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 10:38am On Jan 21 |
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| Re: How Can I Handle This? by laivwire(m): 11:10am On Jan 21 |
[quote author=peretei2024 post=128048101][/quote] Just do what you can on monday, I predict they will find him before then. He would likely find someone who speaks the same language and who would also have a phone. Once he mentions some names, they would be able to connect and locate who he has been staying with. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by MumEmdy(f): 11:32am On Jan 21 |
peretei2024: Oh, just beg her to be calm he will be found him by God's grace.a |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by chicfarmer: 11:49am On Jan 21 |
laivwire:This here will happen. However, check around mosques and any Hausa settlement in your area and keep updating that your customer. Last last he will turn up. Don't forget to pray too. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 3:28pm On Jan 21 |
MumEmdy: Amen |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 3:29pm On Jan 21 |
laivwire:Amen |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by akwesenana: 4:26pm On Jan 21 |
Aboki dey rarely miss road. |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by ikeno(m): 8:32pm On Jan 21 |
The blame is partially yours in the sense that you gave your friend the assurance that you will drop him off when he's done with the job and that's the reason she never bother to let you know that the aboki is not conversant to the area. Don't try going to your friend's place alone cause they will harm you.I'm sure if the aboki knows where you pick him from he can get direction from his fellow aboki. There's no harm at checking close by mosques 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by frozen70(f): 8:59pm On Jan 21 |
peretei2024: Aboki regards any spot he finds himself comfortable to stay That guy may have gone else where to meet his fellow Aboki for job Just that he may not have a phone to reach him Just go with armed police to where the woman stays to know the situation of things and make sure you go unannounced to be sure the shop was hijacked by his people Aboki can't get lost because their people are every where 4 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by BigDick70inch(m): 10:15pm On Jan 21 |
peretei2024: Oga u r at fault with dat...... Better u produce him....... 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by Notfogotten: 10:33pm On Jan 21 |
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, he will be found. Bro. Just be calm. I have connected to the heavenly realms for your sake. |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 5:12am On Jan 22 |
Notfogotten: Amen |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by Jewessgratitud3: 6:36am On Jan 22 |
What you could have used 30 mins sacrifice to save yourself all this trouble you felt it was too much to do for a common Aboki, now see. You see this attitude of not willing to help others it's going to land a lot of people into a big mess. Were you not the one who went to pick the guy when you needed his help? You finished using him and just to go and hand him safely to the person who gave him to you, you carry calculator begin calculate time and sent him away. If it was your brother won't you take the pain to go and drop him and make sure he's safe? What if something happened to him on the way? Look we really need to change this our attitude of not willing to go out of our way to help others. It's very bad. I pray he's found alive. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by peretei2024(m): 2:37pm On Jan 22 |
I really want to thank you all who take his/her time to pray/encourage me to ensure the Aboki is found, but the good news is that he has been found. Thank you all. 10 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by laivwire(m): 9:26pm On Jan 22 |
peretei2024:Perfect! I came back to the thread hoping for a positive update. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by Stevenbright(m): 9:31pm On Jan 22 |
peretei2024: Congratulations 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Handle This? by mumzykhaliq: 9:31pm On Jan 22 |
peretei2024: Alhamdulillah 1 Like |
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