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Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by NairaOcean: 11:43am On Jan 21
Have you ever heard that marrying your best friend is the best thing ever? Well, what if we stop and think about it for a moment? Is it always a great idea? Let's talk about why sometimes, it might not be.

1. Knowing Too Much:
Imagine this: your best friend becoming your spouse. Sounds great, right? But what if knowing each other too well becomes a problem? Sometimes, being too familiar might take away the excitement of being together.

2. Stuck in the Same Place:
Life is like a journey, always moving and changing. But what if marrying your best friend makes things too predictable? Will you miss out on the thrill of trying new things and discovering surprises together?

3. Trying to Wear Two Hats:
Being a best friend and being a life partner are different roles. Can you balance both without feeling confused? It's like walking on a tightrope, trying not to tip too much into one side.

4. Changing Together, or Apart?
People grow and change over time. What if your growth and your best friend's growth don't match up? Can you both handle changing together without losing what made your friendship special?

5. What Others Think:
Sometimes, people expect you to marry someone close, like a best friend. But should you follow what others think is right for you? Or should you question if it aligns with what you truly want?



So, is marrying your best friend always the perfect story? Maybe yes for some, but for others, it might come with challenges. Love is different for everyone, and thinking about these things can help us understand what's best for us. Let's not forget to question the stories we hear and find our own path in the journey of love.
Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by ChristCee: 11:51am On Jan 21
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

-A wise man said.

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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by Zonefree(m): 11:53am On Jan 21
ChristCee:
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

-A wise man said.
No wise man can say that nonsense.

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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by ChristCee: 11:56am On Jan 21
Zonefree:

No wise man can say that nonsense.
Only the wise can understand the words of the wise. The angel you don't know might as well be an angel of darkness. But try to not translate it literally. Why should you want to marry someone that you don't wanna make your best friend? Who told you marriage is all about waking up every morning and seeing roses?
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Are you a kid or you are just taking us for fun?
Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by spencekat(m): 11:57am On Jan 21
NairaOcean:
Have you ever heard that marrying your best friend is the best thing ever? Well, what if we stop and think about it for a moment? Is it always a great idea? Let's talk about why sometimes, it might not be.

1. Knowing Too Much:
Imagine this: your best friend becoming your spouse. Sounds great, right? But what if knowing each other too well becomes a problem? Sometimes, being too familiar might take away the excitement of being together.

2. Stuck in the Same Place:
Life is like a journey, always moving and changing. But what if marrying your best friend makes things too predictable? Will you miss out on the thrill of trying new things and discovering surprises together?

3. Trying to Wear Two Hats:
Being a best friend and being a life partner are different roles. Can you balance both without feeling confused? It's like walking on a tightrope, trying not to tip too much into one side.

4. Changing Together, or Apart?
People grow and change over time. What if your growth and your best friend's growth don't match up? Can you both handle changing together without losing what made your friendship special?

5. What Others Think:
Sometimes, people expect you to marry someone close, like a best friend. But should you follow what others think is right for you? Or should you question if it aligns with what you truly want?



So, is marrying your best friend always the perfect story? Maybe yes for some, but for others, it might come with challenges. [/b]Love is different for everyone[b], and thinking about these things can help us understand what's best for us. Let's not forget to question the stories we hear and find our own path in the journey of love.
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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by Zonefree(m): 12:02pm On Jan 21
ChristCee:

Only the wise can understand the words of the wise. The angel you don't know might as well be an angel of darkness. But try to not translate it literally. Why should you want to marry someone that you don't wanna make your best friend? Who told you marriage is all about waking up every morning and seeing roses?
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Are you a kid or you are just taking us for fun?
In all this rubbish, my major concern is @bolded.

So, the devil you know is an angel of light?

If you marry olosho because she's your best friend, you go suffer.

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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by chatinent: 12:14pm On Jan 21
ChristCee:
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

ChristCee post=128049033:

Only the wise can understand the words of the wise. The angel you don't know might as well be an angel of darkness. But try to not translate it literally. Why should you want to marry someone that you don't wanna make your best friend? Who told you marriage is all about waking up every morning and seeing roses?
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Are you a kid or you are just taking us for fun?

-A wise man said.

The devil is still the devil. And the angel is still the angel...whether you know them or not. Points don't fly.
Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by Stephen0mozzy: 12:39pm On Jan 21
Being Spontaneous in Romance is what makes it fun.

If both of your are boring and incompatible even if you marry a stranger or your enemy, you'll still suffer all the things you've listed 5months after staying together in the marriage.

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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by AgbaDesigner(m): 12:39pm On Jan 21
Marry your enemy instead

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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by ChristCee: 2:17pm On Jan 21
Zonefree:

In all this rubbish, my major concern is @bolded.

So, the devil you know is an angel of light?

If you marry olosho because she's your best friend, you go suffer.
don't change the narrative. Why would you be a best friend with an Olosho in the first place? It shows the sort of person you are. Also idioms are not translated literally. Study english well bro and read my comment again.
Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by ChristCee: 2:18pm On Jan 21
AgbaDesigner:
Marry your enemy instead
Increase the volume abeg. All these stupid kids all over the internet. Very simple, you don't wanna marry your best friend, then settle with your worst enemy. Case closed.

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Re: Thinking Twice About Marrying Your Best Friend by Dimaya: 8:17pm On Jan 21
interesting

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