An Islamic scholar, Sheikh Muydeen Bello, in one of his lectures, said: “If you want to pray, make sure you use your mother’s maiden name because only she knows who your father is.”

Sex is as cheap as a plate of food. It is everywhere. It is becoming a shameless adventures for married men and women. No gender can entirely be monopolized as guilt just as no gender should be liable for victimization. Over the years, both genders have learnt that no gender has a monopoly on infidelity. Stories abound! Men. Women. Married. Singles. Young. Old.

Both genders perpetrate dark infidelity that produces kids out of wedlock. Although in Africa, women have been on the dark side of stories since women own the home, and men own the house.

Marriages have crumbled, relationships cut short, and love turns to hate because of cheating and adultery.

Historically, Men have weaponized, monopolized and arrogated their masculine privilege largely supported by the society to engage in extramarital affairs at the detriment and disrespect of their wives. Women have endured the pangs of pain that come with sharing their spouse’s privacy with intruders. But today, women are masters of the craft of adultery and Infidelity as their opposite gender. It is now a do me I do you free for all affairs.

Theories aplenty on why some men especially rich one cannot be faithful are skyrocketing. The Zaddies, (or Sugar Daddies)men who sleep with women — both young and old, married and unmarried because of their financial ability. What of women? They are called Sugar Mummy

When DNA test becomes cheaper — which will finally do as technology becomes more advanced and cheaper — more men would realize that they have been watering the seeds that germinate outside their farmland. Until then...