A Nigerian man, Usman Ahmad, has taken to social media to advise men on one of the tests to carry out on a woman before marrying her.

Usman urged men to test their partner’s tolerance level by cheating on her at least twice before their wedding.

According to him, they should intentionally allow her to catch them cheating so that they can be sure she has the spirit of forgiveness and the ‘fear of God.’

Taking to Facebook on Wednesday, January 31, he wrote,

“Before you marry any woman, allow her to catch you cheating at least twice. That way you can be sure of her tolerance level and emotional maturity. That way you can be very sure if she has the fear of God and spirit of forgiveness. Real love is all about forgiveness.”

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Hausa people no de get sense naturally. I'm not surprised.

Gbadugbakun:
Hausa people no de get sense naturally. I'm not surprised.

What is the difference between him and Eastern, Southern and Western Nigerian Men cheating on their wives?.

"Endurancing and Forgiving" in a bad marriage or relationship is same thing Men on NL normally says.

Jeon:

What is the difference between him and Eastern, Southern and Western Nigerians

I'm sure if it was a southerner that made this statement and I called him out you wouldn't have given me a mention. This is the problem of Nigeria, we're always so quick to defend our tribesmen and religious acquaintance even when it's very obvious that they're in the wrong.

Gbadugbakun:

I'm sure if it was a southerner that made this statement and I called him out you wouldn't have given me a mention. This is the problem of Nigeria, we're always so quick to defend our tribesmen and religious acquaintance even when it's very obvious that they're in the wrong.

I'm sure if it was a southern that made this statement you would've called him a sensible redpill.

People will just sleep and wake up and voice out one rubbish statement just like that

Gbadugbakun:
Hausa people no de get sense naturally. I'm not surprised.

I'm telling you. How can a sensible person come up with such such Test? That's overboard. He even said twice. Who would take that?

And some gullible folks will try this with their fiancees. I think he just wants people to lose good women

Jeon:

I'm sure if it was a southern that made this statement you would've called him a sensible redpill.

Abeg carry your frustration away from my mentions.

Is that all you got?.

Gbadugbakun:

Abeg carry your frustration away from my mentions.

What he said is the Bro code.


Are you throwing him out of the redpill gang, because he is from the North?.

The sense of an average Nigerian.

Social media counselor...

How i wan take do make mommy marvis see dis post?... Lol na joke i dey oo iyawo mi.

This mugu thinks vaginarians forgive. The Delilah gender neither forgives nor forgets. They only bottle it up and wait for the right to get revenge. The timing is usually when the man is at the lowest of his lifetime like during sickness, brokenness and old age. If you cheat on her, don't spend so much time asking her for forgiveness, just put more efforts in planning for your old age and avoiding being broke so that when she strikes, your backup plan will kick in. My uncle cheated early in his marriage and by the time his wife tried to revenge in their old age, his daughter in Sweden came back and took him away. He knew her plans and invested in his daughter so much that whatever manipulations his wife came up with, the daughter never fell for it but loved her father the more. He played his game well.

Gbadugbakun:
Hausa people no de get sense naturally. I'm not surprised.

Dangote and Abdulsamad na Hausa, between your papa and these men who get sense pass? Yaro banza!

no try am, except u didn't love her! or u didn't wanna marry, no ladies can stay with cheating guyz

A necessary step for feminists, not advisable if she’s a good woman

Emotional maturity as in how?

This Cheating PR you people are trying to force down our throats is exhausting.

Give it a rest. Gosh!!!

muyico:
no try am, except u didn't love her! or u didn't wanna marry, no ladies can stay with cheating guyz

No amount of love can stop a cheater from cheating. People don't cheat on their partners because they don't love them; they cheat because that is their nature.

Likewise, when you are faithful, it is because it is in you to be faithful. It has nothing to do with love, respect, or whatever reason people tend to believe.

folake4u:
This Cheating PR you people are trying to force down our throats is exhausting.

Give it a rest. Gosh!!!

I wonder why they are trying this hard. Men do not benefit from marriage. No need testing any woman. Just don't marry.

pocohantas:


I wonder why they are trying this hard. Men do not benefit from marriage. No need testing any woman. Just don't marry.

They can't take what they dish. Let a woman cheat on them first, alfa meil go dey wiggle like earthworm. Mtchewww!

folake4u:


They can't take what they dish. Let a woman cheat on them first, alfa meil go dey wiggle like earthworm. Mtchewww!

Nah, they are not wired to take what they dish. It drives them to suicide.

pocohantas:


Nah, they are not wired to take what they dish. It drives them to suicide.

Well, I hope many of them jump into the waters of Third Mainland Bridge.

folake4u:


Well, I hope many of them jump into the waters of Third Mainland Bridge.

They should just not marry abeg.
Nobody would notice. Na them dey always use their mouth tell us.

pocohantas:


They should just not marry abeg.
Nobody would notice. Na them dey always use their mouth tell us.

For real. Better they remain single all the days of their miserable life than trap an innocent woman into their shenanigans. Chineke ekwela!

You know this!

Iberiberism.

folake4u:


For real. Better they remain single all the days of their miserable life than trap an innocent woman into their shenanigans. Chineke ekwela!

You know this!

Sadly they deluded themselves into thinking any sane woman should be worried not being their Top Pick. With these ideologies they push?
Wahala wahala!

pocohantas:


Sadly they deluded themselves into thinking any sane woman should be worried not being their Top Pick. With these ideologies they push?
Wahala wahala!

Women are smarter and wiser these days. Heck, some of these men have turned "pick-meisha" (male version).

They will be alright las las. I don't even stress over these ones.

folake4u:


Women are smarter and wiser these days. Heck, some of these men have turned "pick-meisha" (male version).

They will be alright las las. I don't even stress over these ones.

If they change, women can pick them. Until then, they should keep telling us they don't benefit from marriage.

pocohantas:


If they change, women can pick them. Until then, they should keep telling us they don't benefit from marriage.

Lol abi. We will continue picking the best chef to handle our eggs well and make omelettes.

They're even scared of women who don't carry marriage on their head like gala seller.

folake4u:


Lol abi. We will continue picking the best chef to handle our eggs well and make omelettes.

They're even scared of women who don't carry marriage on their head like gala seller.

They need every woman to be desperate and pickme enough. That is their only chance of getting a wife.

pocohantas:


They need every woman to be desperate and pickme enough. That is their only chance of getting a wife.

With the way women don tear eyes? Hahaha. They don't know what's coming.

Sadly, men set these sort of 'standards' because they know the collective of women are willing and ready to meet them. Anything to be called 'Mrs.'


They know the majority of women buy into it and would still reward them with a relationship and that is why the dig down to the bottomest of bad behaviours to exhibit.


The moment they realise women will not put up with such is the day they'll sit up. And that is why they hate the few nonconformist women.

Firstly for the fact that they refuse to put up with their shits, and secondly for 'fear of corruption.' If more women see more 'bad', stubborn, etc., women being happy, with or without a man, who will remain for them to control and put on a leash?


Torh. The women who are enablers should continue being enablers. Nobody will help them share in their nightly tears and pains.