She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago (before I met her). The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible... After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that... Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then... And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice Below are the messages i sent to her... So that she will explain things to me She replied to me, The truth is that I loved him not because he got me an iPhone no , but because it was genuine... Do not say the reason why I love him is because he’s financially stable cuz he’s not the first person So She's staying she said loved him... That was what I was watching out for... She has met the guy in the past before we started dating... And na me open her cunt self If she had said love him instead of loved... Na to leave am

leave her for a week or more, if theres something for you she will call you.

Nonsense! Dey there dey ask question wey u already know the answer. Better go look for another babe. This time, not the one wey another guy been dey take care of cos na number 2 u go still be.

U nor dey feel d heat wey dey this country presently?

Another of depression You sure say nah you open her whatever cause it appears the Iphone guy don dey bleep her already

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No be small thing ooo....
See your username self


How I won take advice this one now . . . please and please face your book for school ...

I have 99 problems but a B# ain't one

You are always with one BS question or the other.

You just sit at home and fabricate stories, for your own entertainment.

You'll be aiit!

Many things wey this Tinubu economy dey cause ehhhh , people are becoming confused in everything

BigBlackPreek:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime
ago (before I met her). The guy asked her to be his girlfriend,
she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway
The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching
him, wasn't possible...
After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and
all that...
Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine
and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being
available, then requests to get her back, what will be your
reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again
yet she gave the same reply
I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...
And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice
Below are the messages i sent to her... So that she will
explain things to me
She replied to me, The truth is that I loved him not because
he got me an iPhone no , but because it was genuine...
Do not say the reason why I love him is because he’s
financially stable cuz he’s not the first person
So She's staying
she said loved him... That was what I was watching out for...
She has met the guy in the past before we started dating...
And na me open her cunt self
If she had said love him instead of loved... Na to leave am

So many jobless guys in Nigeria that bother with a lot of irrelevant things. Nothing concern you with the talk of other guys as long as she's with you and you don't see her with other guys.

Women tell a lot of stories like that and lie shamelessly to manipulate and see the reaction of their man sometimes, they will lose attraction and find you pathetic if you really take their words and conjured stories seriously and display your insecurities by asking stupid questions.

Some women may conjured up a story of a guy trying to woo them with gifts to manipulate the guy they are dating to sit up and lavish them with gifts too and not take them for granted, some can also conjure up the story of several guys chasing them to make the guy they are dating to sit up and not take them for granted. Real men will just listen and take whatever they say with a pinch of salt, you should be more of action and what you see not what you hear as a man or else women can easily manipulate you.

Did you see her hanging out with the guy or talking to him?

You are still a novice if you take the stories of women seriously, 90% of what come out of most women mouth is a lie to manipulate but if you pay attention to the story you will notice the message they are trying to pass but that doesn't mean it is true, most men easily get deceive and believe whatever their woman is saying because of the emotions involve but most times women won't say the true story they will twist it to suit their agenda or everything may even be a lie.

As long as a woman is still spending time with you and treating you right don't bother with whatever come out of her mouth unless it's disrespectful and insulting.

You are still a very insecure guy if you get so work up over a story of a guy that might not even exist, even if he exist there's nothing you can really do to stop your girl from going to him if she want to. Your girl is just turn off over your display of insecurity by taking her story seriously lol

As long as she's still with you in the present and it is still fun to hang out with her then have fun without bothering about all her stories that are mostly conjured up anyway to see your reaction and shit test you, you shouldn't have any problems with her until she start acting bitchy, she disrespect you, ignore you, flake on you or you actually catch her cheating on you after which you can pull back and observe to see if you should discharge her. What's the big deal anyway ? if she want to go to other guy for whatever reason, you will also go get other girls, your stupid questions and interrogation is not going to give you anything.

Nigeria is giving you hell, you are also allowing a Nigerian girl give you hell

PureFace1:



So many jobless guys in Nigeria that bother with a lot of irrelevant things. Nothing concern you with the talk of other guys as long as she's with you and you don't see her with other guys.

Women tell a lot of stories like that and lie shamelessly to manipulate and see the reaction of their man sometimes, they will lose attraction and find you pathetic if you really take their words and conjured stories seriously and display your insecurities by asking stupid questions.

Some women may conjured up a story of a guy trying to woo them with gifts to manipulate the guy they are dating to sit up and lavish them with gifts too and not take them for granted, some can also conjure up the story of several guys chasing them to make the guy they are dating to sit up and not take them for granted. Real men will just listen and take whatever they say with a pinch of salt, you should be more of action and what you see not what you hear as a man or else women can easily manipulate you.

Did you see her hanging out with the guy or talking to him?

You are still a novice if you take the stories of women seriously, 90% of what come out of most women mouth is a lie to manipulate but if you pay attention to the story you will notice the message they are trying to pass but that doesn't mean it is true, most men easily get deceive and believe whatever their woman is saying because of the emotions involve but most times women won't say the true story they will twist it to suit their agenda or everything may even be a lie.

As long as a woman is still spending time with you and treating you right don't bother with whatever come out of her mouth unless it's disrespectful and insulting.

You are still a very insecure guy if you get so work up over a story of a guy that might not even exist, even if he exist there's nothing you can really do to stop your girl from going to him if she want to. Your girl is just turn off over your display of insecurity by taking her story seriously lol

As long as she's still with you in the present and it is still fun to hang out with her then have fun without bothering about all her stories that are mostly conjured up anyway to see your reaction and shit test you, you shouldn't have any problems with her until she start acting bitchy, she disrespect you, ignore you, flake on you or you actually catch her cheating on you after which you can pull back and observe to see if you should discharge her. What's the big deal anyway ? if she want to go to other guy for whatever reason, you will also go get other girls, your stupid questions and interrogation is not going to give you anything.

boss omo you'rer typing on experience o, thanks so much for this eye-openet

Moving forward, it's time guys move away from she is my friend to Mr President famous catch phrase.....it's my turn.


I advocate for this for these reasons.

1. Mental health...
For guys there is a need to take care of your mental health because every other thing that pertains to your life flows from it.

Your finances, business dealing, family life etc flows from your mental situation. So guard your heart with all diligence because from out of it flows the issues of life.

2. Breakfast..
When you enter every relationship with the mentality of it's my turn, you avoid heartbreak.

Do you know that every other relationship is transactional except the love of a mother which unconditional.

It's evident that going into a relationship is like going into business...pu**y business. Like every business venture, there is a 50-50 success or failure rate guaranteed.

So why put all your eggs heart in one basket?

3. Power..
Power actually means unlimited options. Money buys you power. So back to the matter at hand. When you understand that you are just a caretaker, just another customer.

It changes the complexion of thing, you don't get clingy. Infact you understand and see things clearly.

You understand that woman is like a queen on the chess piece. You understand her need for maneuver. You take nothing personal, you get a piece of the cookie, you amuse yourself,

if she is good and a keeper. You stay. If she isn't but for the street, you don't sweat it, you move on to the next one.

You are not buoyed by emotional baggages.

Perspective..
Lots of guys get into relationships without any prior experience. Ladies are generally taught about their sexuality and it's power from the day they understand how to communicate.

So guys are already at disadvantage on the relationship thing. Guys go into relationships handicapped.

It's important guys understand the games that's played in the background, take away ego and play to smash.

Heart breaks would be on the decline of guys adopted this mentality of it's my turn.

All red flags will become glaring. You would have guarded your heart with maximum security padlock🔐.

Finally, life should be viewed from disproportionately, easier said than done but attainable with practice.

Guys should spend more time creating the best versions of themselves not getting tied down to relationships.

Trust me relationships is good but you cannot tell which will fly or go sideways.

Why not focus on someone that will never let you down...... yourself.

Make success out of yourself. Trust me, nobody wants you to prosper more than you.

No one. Absolutely no than yourself.

Gadafii:
Nigeria is giving you hell, you are also allowing a Nigerian girl give you hell

lol wetin man go do nau?

BigBlackPreek:
boss omo you'rer typing on experience o, thanks so much for this eye-openet

Women talk about other guys for various reasons like trying to make you jealous and see your reaction or try to to pass a message for you to sit up and treat them right and not take them for granted because other guys value them. It doesn't mean it is true though everything could all be conjured up with guys that doesn't exist or give a fvck about them.

Just don't take whatever they say seriously, ignore it and even make fun of it unless when all what she talk about is other guys and it become constant and annoying.

Then you can put up a boundary and tell her to shup up and stop talking about other guys in your presence and if she really want them so much you are not going to stop her from seeing them and even put up a break up warning when next she talk about others guys, you are in relationship with her and nothing concern you with other guys but do it only when it become constant and she just wouldn't stop talking about one guy or another.

Tinubu is giving you problem you never resolve, you still go add girl matter......... You better don't die Young.

https://www.nairaland.com/6958523/girlfriend-giving-me-wahala#109727617

STOP digging up old stories and passing it as yours!