Dear Romancelander,

I met this beautiful lady online months back and we connected very well, the chemistry was on point even though we have not physically met, I felt we could do future together.

After about 3 months online "dating", we decided it's time we hook up on a physical date.

I gave her the privilege to decide place and time and she opted for a grocery store around her end.

Trust me, I got there on time, went straight to the restaurant upstairs while I anxiously await my date to arrive. While waiting for her I did lunch and as I was rounding off she walked in majestically, a beauty to behold.

We sat down and chatted for some while, after which i offered her lunch, she surprisingly went for a simple meal of rice and beef with bottled water which cost me less than 2k. I was not impressed my her simplicity, it also encouraged me that I have found a partner.

After we are done with lunch and since it was valentine season, i offered to get her cake or even ice cream at the grocery down stairs which she obliged to.

As we walked through the store, she said there's this particular chips she likes so we looked the shelves but couldn't find it. Then I told her she could go for something else since we couldn't find the chips there, she excitedly repeated " you mean I can pick any other thing?". She immediately pulled her hands from mine and excused herself that she will be back in a jiffy.
She did show up in a jiffy armed with a shopping basket.
She started picking stuffs in two's, biscuit, ice cream, yoghurt, juice, drink, she picked 3 different spices of big Pringles and the one that hit me hard was that she also picked 2 loaves of family size bread.

I was just following her around, though picked a little stuff for myself.
We got to the cashier, after checking in her items she stepped aside and I paid over 12k for the items she picked.
We got to the bus stop and I gave her some cash for t.fare.

I am so discouraged by her extravanganzy on a first date. If she had picked a perfume or even cake worth 15k, I wouldn't have bothered but what she picked and why she picked in two's is why I'm concerned.

Anyways, since then, I have withdrew from her and hardly respond to her calls.

I felt embarrassed by the whole thing and unfortunately I now see her as a hungry girl.

Please, my people, I'm I right to draw back from her 9r should I stick to her?


Thanks

wahoom:
Dear Romancelander,

I met this beautiful lady online months back and we connected very well, the chemistry was on point even though we have not physically met, I felt we could do future together.

After about 3 months online "dating", we decided it's time we hook up on a physical date.

I gave her the privilege to decide place and time and she opted for a grocery store around her end.

Trust me, I got there on time, went straight to the restaurant upstairs while I anxiously await my date to arrive. While waiting for her I did lunch and as I was rounding off she walked in majestically, a beauty to behold.

We sat down and chatted for some while, after which i offered her lunch, she surprisingly went for a simple meal of rice and beef with bottled water which cost me less than 2k. I was not impressed my her simplicity, it also encouraged me that I have found a partner.

After we are done with lunch and since it was valentine season, i offered to get her cake or even ice cream at the grocery down stairs which she obliged to.

As we walked through the store, she said there's this particular chips she likes so we looked the shelves but couldn't find it. Then I told her she could go for something else since we couldn't find the chips there, she excitedly repeated " you mean I can pick any other thing?". She immediately pulled her hands from mine and excused herself that she will be back in a jiffy.
She did show up in a jiffy armed with a shopping basket.
She started picking stuffs in two's, biscuit, ice cream, yoghurt, juice, drink, she picked 3 different spices of big Pringles and the one that hit me hard was that she also picked 2 loaves of family size bread.

I was just following her around, though picked a little stuff for myself.
We got to the cashier, after checking in her items she stepped aside and I paid over 12k for the items she picked.
We got to the bus stop and I gave her some cash for t.fare.

I am so discouraged by her extravanganzy on a first date. If she had picked a perfume or even cake worth 15k, I wouldn't have bothered but what she picked and why she picked in two's is why I'm concerned.

Anyways, since then, I have withdrew from her and hardly respond to her calls.

I felt embarrassed by the whole thing and unfortunately I now see her as a hungry girl.

Please, my people, I'm I right to draw back from her 9r should I stick to her?


Thanks

You should stick more to your guts. It will prove handle in future ordeals.

Obviously those are edibles, she isn't eating all at the same time, so why...?
It was uncalled for and showed her sense of judgement to some degree.

But all the same, what do I know? Haven't been a ladies man for as long as I can remember. If that's what it looks like, hmm.

You made the right decision

wahoom:
Dear Romancelander,

I met this beautiful lady online months back and we connected very well, the chemistry was on point even though we have not physically met, I felt we could do future together.

After about 3 months online "dating", we decided it's time we hook up on a physical date.

I gave her the privilege to decide place and time and she opted for a grocery store around her end.

Trust me, I got there on time, went straight to the restaurant upstairs while I anxiously await my date to arrive. While waiting for her I did lunch and as I was rounding off she walked in majestically, a beauty to behold.

We sat down and chatted for some while, after which i offered her lunch, she surprisingly went for a simple meal of rice and beef with bottled water which cost me less than 2k. I was not impressed my her simplicity, it also encouraged me that I have found a partner.

After we are done with lunch and since it was valentine season, i offered to get her cake or even ice cream at the grocery down stairs which she obliged to.

As we walked through the store, she said there's this particular chips she likes so we looked the shelves but couldn't find it. Then I told her she could go for something else since we couldn't find the chips there, she excitedly repeated " you mean I can pick any other thing?". She immediately pulled her hands from mine and excused herself that she will be back in a jiffy.
She did show up in a jiffy armed with a shopping basket.
She started picking stuffs in two's, biscuit, ice cream, yoghurt, juice, drink, she picked 3 different spices of big Pringles and the one that hit me hard was that she also picked 2 loaves of family size bread.

I was just following her around, though picked a little stuff for myself.
We got to the cashier, after checking in her items she stepped aside and I paid over 12k for the items she picked.
We got to the bus stop and I gave her some cash for t.fare.

I am so discouraged by her extravanganzy on a first date. If she had picked a perfume or even cake worth 15k, I wouldn't have bothered but what she picked and why she picked in two's is why I'm concerned.

Anyways, since then, I have withdrew from her and hardly respond to her calls.

I felt embarrassed by the whole thing and unfortunately I now see her as a hungry girl.

Please, my people, I'm I right to draw back from her 9r should I stick to her?


Thanks

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You did the right thing bro.
Red flags should not be toyed with.

wahoom:
Dear Romancelander,

I met this beautiful lady online months back and we connected very well, the chemistry was on point even though we have not physically met, I felt we could do future together.

After about 3 months online "dating", we decided it's time we hook up on a physical date.

I gave her the privilege to decide place and time and she opted for a grocery store around her end.

Trust me, I got there on time, went straight to the restaurant upstairs while I anxiously await my date to arrive. While waiting for her I did lunch and as I was rounding off she walked in majestically, a beauty to behold.

We sat down and chatted for some while, after which i offered her lunch, she surprisingly went for a simple meal of rice and beef with bottled water which cost me less than 2k. I was not impressed my her simplicity, it also encouraged me that I have found a partner.

After we are done with lunch and since it was valentine season, i offered to get her cake or even ice cream at the grocery down stairs which she obliged to.

As we walked through the store, she said there's this particular chips she likes so we looked the shelves but couldn't find it. Then I told her she could go for something else since we couldn't find the chips there, she excitedly repeated " you mean I can pick any other thing?". She immediately pulled her hands from mine and excused herself that she will be back in a jiffy.
She did show up in a jiffy armed with a shopping basket.
She started picking stuffs in two's, biscuit, ice cream, yoghurt, juice, drink, she picked 3 different spices of big Pringles and the one that hit me hard was that she also picked 2 loaves of family size bread.

I was just following her around, though picked a little stuff for myself.
We got to the cashier, after checking in her items she stepped aside and I paid over 12k for the items she picked.
We got to the bus stop and I gave her some cash for t.fare.

I am so discouraged by her extravanganzy on a first date. If she had picked a perfume or even cake worth 15k, I wouldn't have bothered but what she picked and why she picked in two's is why I'm concerned.

Anyways, since then, I have withdrew from her and hardly respond to her calls.

I felt embarrassed by the whole thing and unfortunately I now see her as a hungry girl.

Please, my people, I'm I right to draw back from her 9r should I stick to her?


Thanks

You did well bro... Greedy people should be avoided.