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Twins are usually generous but it is not everytime you ask that you receive. ..if it's financial, trust me that would be like requesting water from stone at this period.. Everyone is holding on tight. Don't let whatever it's strain your relationship.

Babangidapikin:
Twins are usually generous but it is not everytime you ask that you receive. ..if it's financial, trust me that would be like requesting water from stone at this period.. Everyone is holding on tight. Don't let whatever it's strain your relationship.

It's not anything financial. I said it's something that won't cost her anything.

Like for instance some of our family pictures are with her and anytime I feel like going through the pics just to see my dad and Mom ( cos they are late) she'll say she can't bring the photos out. Even all our baby pictures in her custody she hid everything. Ok, bring these pics let someone else keep them she'll tell you no. Those pictures used to be in our eldest sisters house but the day she went visiting she packed all the photos and my elder sister didnt have issues bringing out the photos whenever we went there and asked for it but since she took custody, I've not seen those photos for like 5 years now.

Now tell me, does she have the right to keep such family treasure from everyone?

Jewessgratitud3:


It's not anything financial. I said it's something that won't cost her anything.

Like for instance some of our family pictures are with her and anytime I feel like going through the pics just to see my dad and Mom ( cos they are late) she'll say she can't bring the photos out. Even all our baby pictures in her custody she hid everything. Ok, bring these pics let someone else keep them she'll tell you no. Those pictures used to be in our eldest sisters house but the day she went visiting she packed all the photos and my elder sister didnt have issues bringing out the photos whenever we went there and ask for it but since she took custody, I've not seen those photos for like 5 years now.

Now tell me, does she have the right to keep such family treasure from everyone?

That shouldn't be a big deal, I believe professional photographer can duplicate and even enhance those photos. I know the importants of cherish memories and she shouldn't keep all to herself. I don't see this as something she should be denying you access to...but you twins know how you communicate to yourself na ...just talk it over. There could be other issues and this is just a decoy to get your attention.

Everybody get role...

Just keep playing your own role of being a good sister.

Just free your mind... Hold no grugde.

You will be fine!

For how long.…? Everyone has a breaking point. My elder sisters true colors came out after the death of our parents. We haven't spoken for over 3 years now. Last time she called me she told me that even if I reach 80years old I should have it in mind that she will destroy me. We are only 3 biological children of our parents but greed took over her. Every1 we both know ( uncles, aunties, my parents colleagues) she tells them am a very wicked person... But tell her to point what I've done to her in my 30+ years on earth she can't... Very jealous person. She can never be happy something good happens to some1.


Before my dad died he told me Nna be very carefully my sister can poison me.

brain54:
Everybody get role...

Just keep playing your own role of being a good sister.

Just free your mind... Hold no grugde.

You will be fine!

While growing up I couldn't call my sister for anything... Always have joy when my father is flogging me.
One occasion she accused me of peeping her when she was bathing... We were about 10-11 years. My father beat me that day like a thief. And this bitch was laughing. Telling me she can get anything she wants. After that incident I became very careful of my sister.

When my parents wanted me to go abroad when we were like 18-19..I was my turn as my sister had gone abroad like 3 times … she threatened to kill herself. As an understanding brother and family member I let her go again.. She went to US and quarelled with our relatives there making it difficult for me to go to US now.

She is a married woman now... But she wants me to share our fathers house and give her a part because I and my brother are not married.

I am older than my kid brother with 4 years but people think we are twins. The first person for me to call in any need.… financial, physical, spiritual my kid bro de always deliver...

Babangidapikin:

That shouldn't be a big deal, I believe professional photographer can duplicate and even enhance those photos. I know the importants of cherish memories and she shouldn't keep all to herself. I don't see this as something she should be denying you access to...but you twins know how you communicate to yourself na ...just talk it over. There could be other issues and this is just a decoy to get your attention.

You won't understand. If I begin to narrate all she's doing to me, you won't believe but let me leave it here.

No issues as far as I know. She's like that. Ok let me cite another one.

Theres this Aunty of mine that she has her number. I now told my elder sister to help collect the number from her because if I ask her myself she will never give it to me. Do you know my elder sister asked her for the number and she was asking that one one who wants to use it? My elder sister didnt believe cos I already told her she will prove difficult. My elder sister told her she needs it and she was like what does she want to use it for? Hm.. she now said she will send it later. Imagine... I'm now wondering where and how she got that behavior cos the rest of us are not like that not even our parents. Sometimes I get angry and want to scatter everywhere but my elder sister will be calming me down.

Bettergoat:
For how long.…? Everyone has a breaking point. My elder sisters true colors came out after the death of our parents. We haven't spoken for over 3 years now. Last time she called me she told me that even if I reach 80years old I should have it in mind that she will destroy me. We are only 3 biological children of our parents but greed took over her. Every1 we both know ( uncles, aunties, my parents colleagues) she tells them am a very wicked person... But tell her to point what I've done to her in my 30+ years on earth she can't... Very jealous person. She can never be happy something good happens to some1.


Before my dad died he told me Nna be very carefully my sister can poison me.

Eee.. en hm! This one strong o . She will destroy as what now? The owner of your life? But Why are some siblings like that? You can go all out for them but they can never do you one single favor even if you're the one still going to indirectly pay for the favor... Chai! She no do well o.

Just be careful and avoid them

Bettergoat:
While growing up I couldn't call my sister for anything... Always have joy when my father is flogging me.
One occasion she accused me of peeping her when she was bathing... We were about 10-11 years. My father beat me that day like a thief. And this bitch was laughing. Telling me she can get anything she wants. After that incident I became very careful of my sister.

When my parents wanted me to go abroad when we were like 18-19..I was my turn as my sister had gone abroad like 3 times … she threatened to kill herself. As an understanding brother and family member I let her go again.. She went to US and quarelled with our relatives there making it difficult for me to go to US now.

She is a married woman now... But she wants me to share our fathers house and give her a part because I and my brother are not married.

I am older than my kid brother with 4 years but people think we are twins. The first person for me to call in any need.… financial, physical, spiritual my kid bro de always deliver...

Aaah.. she wants a share in the property too? That one can kill o. In Igbo land woman dey get anything? Hian! Nsogbu dikwa o. Make she face her husband house na there her share dey Biko. Which kind open eye be that one for where two men dey? She no fit try am with my village men, Dem go use broom wipe her leg go her husband compound.

See we all have them in our families. This one dey pain me because na my twin.

Jewessgratitud3:
I'm not happy. My twin doesn't take me as her twin..
She doesn't like to sacrifice or do things for me. Anytime I'm in a fix and my mind is going round on who to call once it gets to her I'll be like ah.. no go area cos she will never do it for me.

Last night I needed something for something important and I thought of her but immediately discarded the thought because I know even though it's something that won't cost her anything she won't do it as long as she knows it's going to serve you. So I decided to call idowu but I guess she was already asleep as she didn't pick up. So I said let me try twinny. Omor this girl said she can't and started giving me excuses. Where she was giving excuses my airtime finished. Hm..

I was shocked that even This little thing that won't cost anything she couldn't do for me but as usual I shrugged it off.

This is someone I'll fight for. Be in pain whenever she's going through any thing until shes fine. Someone I can't do without hearing her voice in a day but when it comes to sacrificing little things for me, she'll say no.

Hmm.. I'm not happy and I don't know how to keep malice otherwise I'll stay on my own after last nights issue but I won't. I'll call her and... No need because she won't even be sorry for what she did. I know her. We'll just pretend nothing happened but for how long?

Please advise me...

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Why are u not happy?

Abi 80k don finish?

Uyi168:
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Why are u not happy?

Abi 80k don finish?

Na man like you send am, e no make noise. You wan use still talk. Smh..

Did you remember her in your "bag of rice" windfall?

Maybe that will soften her heart towards you.

Bankowner:
Did you remember her in your "bag of rice" windfall?

Maybe that will soften her heart towards you.

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I had not even collected my bag of rice then self.

Are you identical or fraternal twins?
Your behaviors can only vary that much if you're fraternal.
In any case, you should try to think to anything you may have done to her in the past that could have hurt her.
If you cannot think of any, then it's time for you to sit her down and have a tete -a-tete, sisters' talk.

Jewessgratitud3:


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I had not even collected my bag of rice then self.

Bankowner:
Are you identical or fraternal twins?
Your behaviors can only vary that much if you're fraternal.
In any case, you should try to think to anything you may have done to her in the past that could have hurt her.
If you cannot think of any, then it's time for you to sit her down and have a tete -a-tete, sisters' talk.

We are very identical o. To the point that people mistake me for her all the time. I don't remember offending her.

Then sit her down sometime and have a conversation with her. She may not really know how her attitude towards you affects you so a bit of heart-to-heart talk might clear the air.
Wish you the best at it.

Jewessgratitud3:


We are very identical o. To the point that people mistake me for her all the time. I don't remember offending her.

Yikes 😬

Yes. Women inherit in Igboland,its been settled at the supreme court. If you let your brother take everything, na you sabi

You often express misogynistic outdated opinions here. Are you sure you are a woman?or you are just not very well-travelled?

Jewessgratitud3:


Aaah.. she wants a share in the property too? That one can kill o. In Igbo land woman dey get anything? Hian! Nsogbu dikwa o. Make she face her husband house na there her share dey Biko. Which kind open eye be that one for where two men dey? She no fit try am with my village men, Dem go use broom wipe her leg go her husband compound.

See we all have them in our families. This one dey pain me because na my twin.

Same way you can't and don't do anything for me... It is hatred... Wetin concerns me concerns you and your twin?

Jewessgratitud3:


It's not anything financial. I said it's something that won't cost her anything.

Like for instance some of our family pictures are with her and anytime I feel like going through the pics just to see my dad and Mom ( cos they are late) she'll say she can't bring the photos out. Even all our baby pictures in her custody she hid everything. Ok, bring these pics let someone else keep them she'll tell you no. Those pictures used to be in our eldest sisters house but the day she went visiting she packed all the photos and my elder sister didnt have issues bringing out the photos whenever we went there and asked for it but since she took custody, I've not seen those photos for like 5 years now.

Now tell me, does she have the right to keep such family treasure from everyone?

You re Just being pathetic.....she's giving you the tough love you need.

Be careful with her, so she will not wound you emotionally that's one thing i hate, also becareful extremely careful i no say cut ties with her i mean use your brain mama dey sell pikin person dey sell e own organ

All your posts reeks of boredom. You need to engage a professional Councillor or maybe a friend asap or at least make use of diary, where you can pour out your heart anytime the needs arise.

Not everyone online needs to know every single thing bout you.

fidelmarshal199:
All your posts reeks of boredom. You need to engage a professional Councillor or maybe a friend asap or at least make use of diary, where you can pour out your heart anytime the needs arise.

Not everyone online needs to need every single thing bout you.

I don't remember forcing you to read my post and I won't stop posting.

If you'll excuse me.

Jewessgratitud3:
I'm not happy. My twin doesn't take me as her twin..
She doesn't like to sacrifice or do things for me. Anytime I'm in a fix and my mind is going round on who to call once it gets to her I'll be like ah.. no go area cos she will never do it for me.

Last night I needed something for something important and I thought of her but immediately discarded the thought because I know even though it's something that won't cost her anything she won't do it as long as she knows it's going to serve you. So I decided to call idowu but I guess she was already asleep as she didn't pick up. So I said let me try twinny. Omor this girl said she can't and started giving me excuses. Where she was giving excuses my airtime finished. Hm..

I was shocked that even This little thing that won't cost anything she couldn't do for me but as usual I shrugged it off.

This is someone I'll fight for. Be in pain whenever she's going through any thing until shes fine. Someone I can't do without hearing her voice in a day but when it comes to sacrificing little things for me, she'll say no.

Hmm.. I'm not happy and I don't know how to keep malice otherwise I'll stay on my own after last nights issue but I won't. I'll call her and... No need because she won't even be sorry for what she did. I know her. We'll just pretend nothing happened but for how long?

Please advise me...

everything about u is on nairaland

Don’t u have a life outside social media?
Are u that bored n lonely that u have no one to talk to?

My sister this site is taking d best part of u, invest in offline relationships

It will help u

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Goodnewsforlife:
everything about u is on nairaland

Don’t u have a life outside social media?
Are u that bored n lonely that u have no one to talk to?

My sister this site is taking d best part of u, invest in offline relationships

It will help u

I wonder what you're also doing here following me up and down keeping record of what I post and how many times I post. if you also have a life outside Nairaland you definitely won't know about all that.

Excuse me jare!